Happy, Healthy, and Horny
by Nimbus
Men: Bring Her Your Heart-On and Your Hard-On
by Nimbus
Men: Bring Her Your Heart On and Your Hard On
The ‘slow sex’ movement is the woman’s answer to the ‘slam-bam-thank-you-mam’ orientation in male sexuality.
The slow sex movement that includes ‘soft penetration’ was created to show a man how to slow down and become more senusal to fully appreciate and tend to his feminine lover.
But women who have opened in their sexual nature want men to bring them sex that is not only slow and soft. They want deep sex, which is a passionate fusion of all qualities, tempos and rhythms.
Awakened women are the feminine beings who are healing their emotional and sexual wounds to uncover their inherent erotic essense, which longs to bloom like a garden of fragrant flowers as she is being fully taken by her man.
Awakened men are the masculine beings who are doing the work required to be centered in their heart and embrace their woman in powerful sex with a ‘Heart On’ AND a ‘Hard On’.
‘Heart-On-and-Hard-On-As-One-Fusion’ is the dynamic process for men to bring as their gift of love to their open woman.
Any woman who has healed her sexual wounds does not want a man to put his limp, soft penis into the front edge of her vagina and only breathe energy together!
She wants to be Divinely Fucked!
She wants her man to clasp her to his vulnerable open heart and smithereen her with the force of his love and penetrate her with his hard strong cock!
She wants his Heart On AND his Hard On!
Awakened men are powerful beings, full of life, bringing it to their women with deep sex!
Slow sex, soft penetration while breathing together and eye gazing during tantric sex are all useful practices while transitioning from the macho-porn-induced-fast-sex-cum-as-soon-as-possible approach learned by most men.
But Quantum Merging is here to show a whole other way for men to have deep sex with their matching feminine mate.
Every healed woman dreams of a man who shows up with his heart full of love AND brings the sustained strength of his love to her through his hard, stiff, strong, sturdy, robust, powerful shaft of manly might!
Every healed woman wants to be Divinely Fucked into absolute ecstasy, expanded bliss and intoxicating happiness through PROLONGED mind-blowing sex with her man!
Awakened men bring this gift to their woman by learning to conserve and harness the atomic power of their seed (aka ‘Seed Retention’ and the conscious choice to only ejaculate occasionally during special moments with their lover).
Awakened men bring the full force of their desire to their woman by holding their seed and harnessing the power activated through retaining their seed, and then shooting that highly vibrating energy through their hard shaft into their lover for long periods of time!
Awakened men learn that the best sex is a process of holding their seed and building incredible strength and power by going to the ‘edge’ of ejaculation over and over, and continually shooting that power (instead of their seed) into their woman until she is utterly saturated with ecstasy!
These lucky women are then liberated from being their man’s ‘mutual masturbation partner’ and a feminine ‘cum receptacle’ for him to blow his wad into each time they have sex.
When a man retains his seed during sex, the woman feels that SHE is being made love to, not some fantasy he is projecting on to her. She feels that he is channeling his lust, horniness and programmed need to cum into a fire of desire that is directed to HER. She feels that he is dedicated to turning HER on and blasting her into the cosmos as a Rocketship of Bliss.
Awakened women want awakened men to bring them awakened sex: A Fusion of Heart On and Hard On through the fullness of Mytical Erotic Love.
A Mystical Life in a Mundane World
by Nimbus and Varshana
A Mystical Life in a Mundane World
Part One
Creating A World Within The World
Throughout time men and women awakening on the spiritual path have asked the same question: “How do I live a mystical life in a mundane world?"
This question is even more urgent and puzzling in today’s modern world. Though it has been asked in previous generations, human civilization now moves at an ever-increasing pace and operates within a coarse vibrational frequency that is for the most part anathema to a mystical life.
In order to live a mystical life in a mundane world ~ in our modern world that does not commonly honor or support an awakened way of being, thinking and acting ~ each man and woman who wants to walk the mystic’s path while being fully present in life must act in an entirely different manner than what is commonly taught and expected.
The first and most important task is to dedicate our energy and attention to attune to the light and consciousness that is the Source of all life in whatever way that we are each moved to do this. This can be any form of meditation, contemplation or consciousness practice, even something as simple as deep communion with nature or reverent beholding of the stars. Secondly, within that attunement and communion with the essence of our own being, we make a bold choice to live our daily life with an open heart. This is not an easy choice, because it opens us to both the appearance of miracles and the vulnerability in which our heart can be wounded. Third, within this lion-hearted choice of vulnerable attunement we make the giving and receiving of love our highest priority no matter what else is going on in the world around us.
This three-part choice is paradoxical, because living a mystical life in a mundane world appears in many ways to be impossible. This is why sensitive individuals in the past who felt inclined toward a mystical existence have historically retired from civilization to live in caves and monasteries as hermits and recluses. Such a choice no longer serves the evolution of human consciousness as it once did. Now is the time for men and women to embrace the mystical by standing strong in the midst of the fray and fashioning their own life as a bridge between earth and heaven.
The old way of mysticism was the solitary road, the monastic path, the way of abstinence, asceticism and secluded meditation in a faraway place separated from the world.
In addition to removing themselves from the world, spiritual seekers were also advised to search for an ‘enlightened’ Guru who held the promise of 'awakening' through unconditional surrender to him or her and committing their life to the practice of his or her teachings.
I, Nimbus, gave a large portion of my life to both of these pursuits and saw first hand the good, bad and ugly of these two paths. Out of the ashes of my attempts at awakening through the first path of prolonged solitude and asceticism (which lasted four years), and the second path of total surrender to a guru who I and many others presumed to be fully enlightened (which lasted fifteen years), I finally solved the spiritual riddle about these forms of seeking and discovered how to live awake in the midst of this perplexing world.
I, Varshana, was raised from birth in an ashram devoted to a world-renowned Guru and my early life was complete immersion in a daily cycle of guru devotion. As an adult I had to discover a completely different way to claim my own sovereignty, freedom and direct connection to Source. Before meeting Nimbus, he and I were each fiercely committed to finding a way to align with the blissful consciousness that pervades all of existence. Quantum Merging is our intimate confession of the discoveries we have made of how to live a mystical life in a mundane world.
Men and women today who aspire to live a mystical life in the midst of the world can make a different choice than asceticism or guru devotion. We have the opportunity to choose an orientation that is founded in embodied ecstasy rather than separation between the body and Spirit, or of trying to attain something that a guru has that you think you don’t. The modus operandi of this new opportunity is Quantum Merging, a free way of mystical erotic love available to all who will choose it.
In this way of embodied living we become modern-day magicians who conjure a different reality right before our eyes. We create a world within the world. We gradually and steadily refine and elevate our core vibration so that we may attract a matching mate and matching friends who resonate with the highest frequency of our soul. In our modern culture of disconnect this soul aligned join-up beyond ourself is an essential requirement for successfully living a mystical life in a mundane world. We can't any longer go it alone.
The next step of the conscious evolution of love calls us to sacred relationship. Inhering in our own unshakable connection to Source we attract a vibrationally-matching mate (and a tribe of others doing the same) to join us on a life-altering, mind-expanding, heart-widening, body-transforming journey of sacred love, holy sex and mutual devotion. We are being called to nothing less than becoming the next iteration of the human species, Homo Amore Luminosa, luminous beings of love. We are being inspired to create a life of love, desire and devotion expressed as Divine Union with another human being whose soul vibration matches ours. In this way we become the creators of our own reality within the greater Reality, conjuring a new world within the world.
The old ways are still available for those who are drawn to them, but Quantum Merging is a new way of awakening that is founded in mutual love, mutual passion and mutual honoring with another being who meets us fully in the heart. QM has emerged out of our own real life experiences. It is not another form of the ancient knowledge of Tantra, even though we have recalibrated and revitalized the essence of some of these older teachings for our modern times.
Nimbus and Varshana are not gurus or authorities to follow. We do not profess to be the next in line of an exalted lineage of gurus from an ancient spiritual path. In fact, we make no claims other than that we are sacred lovers sharing our experience with the hope that it might inspire others to have new conversations about love and sex and explore new ways of being.
Quantum Merging is simple and direct. Quantum Merging is a rebel teaching, guru-free, offering modern men and women an empowered spiritual practice. Quantum Merging is an invitation to walk a path of embodied ecstasy, a shared way of human/Divine love with another being. Quantum Merging is a body-positive, sex-positive, consciousness-positive way of being in the world. Quantum Merging is a call to create a noble life shared with another man or woman. Quantum Merging is an ecstatic way in which two-become-one through the blended attributes of mystical erotic love. Quantum Merging is a way in which sacred lovers co-create a radiant world within the world that becomes their primary reality.
Over millennia only a few spiritual teachers have lived among us to show human beings an example of how to blend human and Divine love. Most of our inherited religious and spiritual traditions have taught us that God is elsewhere, that 'we are not the body', that women and money are the cause of our downfall. This has created an almost irrevocable split between sex and Spirit, body and soul, and our natural link of humanity with Divinity.
Here and there throughout history a few spiritually awakened couples have appeared as ‘Archetypes of the Ecstatic’. Shiva and Shakti, Radha and Krishna, and Padmasambhava and Yeshe (many also feel that Jesus and Mary Magdalene should be included in this category) are examples of enlightened beings who were awake together, not separate, superior and alone in an exalted state.
In spite of centuries of suppression and denial by most religions and spiritual traditions, the purity of the spiritual awakening of these unique couples was expressed through the mystical sexual embrace with their Divine Beloved.
Why did each of these enlightened beings choose to express their spiritual realization together rather than alone, even if they may have originally awakened while secluded in some remote cave or monastery?
Each of these men and women made a bold decision that went against the tide of their time. They advocated for the masculine/feminine dynamic that pulses through all creation. They made the radical choice to demonstrate their spiritual realization through interwoven forms of meditation, service, ecstatic love and sacred sexuality with another being as a direct link to the heart of the Universe.
To this very day we refer to the fullness of spiritual realization as Shiva/Shakti or Radha/Krishna, because we intuitively know that truth harbors the dual attributes of Infinite Consciousness and the manifest Energies of Creation expressed through the Divine masculine and feminine forces forever merged as One in quantum entanglement. This is why the symbol of two entwined serpents rising together as one has always represented the fully awakened human being.
These historical couples who came together to form a Divine Union while alive in human form first did their own individual sadhana (spiritual practice) to forge a deep connection to the Infinite Consciousness which is the Source of all existence. But after awakening, these few unique men and women saw the non-necessity of continuing a life of solitary meditation that preceded that revelation. They saw that awakening was not a dry, reclusive accomplishment. Quite the opposite. Their hearts and minds were blown open with the vast force of love that pervades the cosmos! Their bodies were overflowing with radiance, longing to share that bliss with another similarly radiant being. Their awakening was the utter cessation of the illusion of separation and the merging of self into the One. In such an exalted state of ecstasy they left their desert cave or monastery and naturally magnetized their perfect energetic male or female complement, thereby discovering a revolutionary way in their time to live a mystical life in a mundane world.
None of these particular awakened men and women were ‘married couples’ as we tend to think of them. A better way to understand their intimacy would be to call it a Sacred Union, or Divine Marriage. Their intimate unions were expressions of their realization of love, not attempts to find love after realization.
These awakened couples did not have ‘sex’ as we commonly think of it. Their sexual unions were mystical mergings of enlightening ecstasy that fueled their awakened service in the world. For them sex was mystical Fire. For them sex was Bliss. For them sex was dissolution in the Isle of God.
Each of these archetypal couples understood the wisdom of regularly spending time apart from one another, but whenever they consciously chose to come together to clasp one another in the fire of their intimate embrace the ecstatic emanations of their mystical mergings reverberated throughout the Cosmos.
These sacred couples did not turn away from the body as if it was the cause of bondage and material illusion, but transformed it to become a vehicle of ecstasy, bliss and realization. Standing upon the shoulders of these awakened beings who have come before us, we too can now choose a contemporary way of mystical erotic love in our day and age that is similar in its effects. We are free to choose a fresh new way that fuses Sex and Spirit, Feminine and Masculine, and Humanity with Divinity.
Part Two
The Alchemy of Quantum Merging
What are the primary elements that make up Quantum Merging? How do we actually live this contemporary form of Divine Union through the practice of mystical erotic love?
Quantum Merging is a modern way of awakening, first within each individual heart and then through two hearts ignited. Each partner finds his or her own connection to Source, draws to themselves their supremely attractive and complementary mystic mate and then co-creates a new life together in the following five ways:
1) Mutual Love-Communion
The path of Quantum Merging is consciously chosen with another embodied soul who resonates at the same soul frequency, but who is energetically wired in an oppositely polarized manner. This sacred partnership can be man/woman, man/man or woman/woman as long as both partners live each day in such a manner that they are progressively transformed into living archetypes of the Divine Feminine and Masculine for each other. Their communion of love is vast and unconditional. They see one another as emanations of the Divine;
2) Mutual Cultivation of Ecstasy
QM utilizes unique energetic processes and practices which raise the luminous frequencies and subtle inner currents of energy of the human body into the highest vibrations of Love-Bliss. Basically we become kick-ass yogis and yoginis. Whether in yoga class or on our own mat at home, or dancing, or practicing chi kung, or working out in the gym, or moving outside in harmony with nature, the day to day cultivation of the highest possible energetic flows within us is what is primary. We offer our open body as a vessel that acts as a strong and flexible conduit of ecstasy with our partner, creating a direct line to the Divine;
3)Mutual Devotional Surrender
This is something almost unheard of in modern relationships. In Q Merging each pair of human Beloveds sees the ‘other’ as they are in truth ~ luminous, radiant and free. Each partner invites the other to merge beyond two-into-one, rather than relating through the traditional two-tiered dynamic of one above and one below that characterizes the traditional guru-disciple relationship, or the typically devotionless structure of romance and marriage;
4) Sacred Sexual Intimacy
In Quantum Merging holy sex is essential, but it does not sit at the top of the list of the five elements of a sacred union. Sacred sexual fusion is the engine that drives the vehicle of the relationship, but it does not exist as a practice by itself. When all the other elements are present in a Divine Union then sex transforms into a turbo-charged rocketship of ecstasy. Sacred Eros is the juice of each holy relationship, the rising sap of the tree of life that is the couple. The incredible power of the sacred erotic shared within their union is the fire that ignites all the rest;
5) Sacred Marriage
This is Heiros Gamos (Greek for 'holy marriage'), the Sacred union between each Mystic Bride and her Heart Husband, celebrated in deep connection with the elements of Nature and honored within the tribe of the world-wide community of fellow initiates of Quantum Merging. Heiros Gamos is the container that holds the elements of love, cultivation of ecstasy, devotional surrender and holy sex. The Divine Marriage is the magician's alchemical cauldron in which the lovers create a a vibrant new world of their own making within the world.
You might ask, "Even though I have done so much work on my own to evolve my consciousness, I still cannot find my matching mate to share a sacred life of love. How is it possible for any of us to find such a rare and uniquely compatible mystical lover to co-create such magic in this crazy world?"
The answer to that is to first know that it is possible, then desire it with all our heart, and finally to send forth our clear intention as if we are a lighthouse steadily beaming light into the cosmos. Do this and we will instantly expand beyond local mind into the One Consciousness which ~ amazingly ~ includes the conscious awareness of that special one whose heart strings perfectly fit into the receptive fibers of our own heart.
In this way, as we shapeshift out of ordinary thinking into the way of mystical beholding, we see our perfect male or female mate within our mind’s eye, inviting him or her to enter our heart’s inner chamber. Our intention becomes a super-powered magnet sending attractive waves through the world, and it will unfailingly draw them in. If we do this with unwavering conviction, while simultaneously taking action that brings us joy, the lover who is our perfect match at this time in our life will arrive. As said in the movie Field Of Dreams, "Build it and he will come". First we build our inner vision and then the outer manifestation will magnetize and match it. The secret is to begin from a place of fullness ~ the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness ~ and from that place of free awareness we call forth our dreams.
In Quantum Merging we discover how to move in this magical manner that is natural to the mystic. From the very first steps on this new journey everything begins to shift and is transformed in due time. Ordinary life ceases to draw the majority of our attention, until we eventually pass through a portal of transformation in which the three primary mystical qualities of love, desire and devotion effortlessly and steadily begin to arise within us and our lover.
What exactly are these three qualities that compose the triad of Quantum Merging?
First...Love
The expansion of holy love between the new-found souls who have been magnetized to each other allows a deep healing to begin from the very first moment of their mutual recognition. The sheer force of their mutually magnetic love and attraction shakes up the inertia of their old patterns. Their two open hearts expand exponentially as they merge into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness more and more, until ecstatic love becomes their primary reality even within the permutations of the mundane world that might have previously distracted them.
Second...Desire
It is an understatement to say that when this powerful magnetic sexual attraction draws each destined man and woman to one another, it acts similarly to the irresistible force of a Binary Star system! The two-become-one on this path of Quantum Merging (which may also be co-created between two men or two women if these same mystical qualities and powerful energetic polarities are awakened between them).
The dynamic force of sexual attraction generated between the mystic mates draws them beyond themselves, lighting them up through the ignition process of sacred passion. This Fire of Eros very quickly establishes a central channel of light to rise up between their bodies during every intimate embrace, ultimately becoming an awe-inspiring whirling Vortex and fireworks-fountain of Super Nova Ecstasies.
Third...Devotion
In Quantum Merging we honor each other's Luminous Nature, seeing through the highs and lows of the outer personality to view the other’s original soul form of light. Life becomes founded upon the sharing and co-creation of mutual trust, mutual surrender and mutual honoring in which the arts of mystical love and desire are spontaneously enacted as acts of worship with each other on a daily basis.
Throughout all the inevitable challenges that are part of life, within this trifecta of Divine Union the lovers choose to make each breath a mantra of love, they attune their heartbeats to echo the deep pulsing of the cosmic drum and they make it a priority to craft their actions as expressions of gratitude. If they stumble and fall, no worries, they get up and step right back into it. Quantum Merging is not about perfection, but about permission to be our highest and best through sacred intimacy with another being.
In these ways, the energies of love, desire, devotion, ecstasy, joy and bliss arise and subside as waves within the sea of love shared with the special being whose soul has been drawn to ours, the one whose heart, mind and body resonate at the same frequency as our own.
The Quantum Beloveds are set free to frolic, to merge deeper, wider and further without end, to co-create new forms of beauty in the world and to devote their ever-evolving energies of love as expressions of service and blessing to others in reverence with all life.
Part Three
Slow Down and Speed Up
Once you have come to this point on the Quantum Merging journey, your life becomes a celebration of the miracle of having found your matching soul partner to journey with you on the mystical erotic path of love. In order to fully and steadily live a mystical life in this mundane world your next task is deceptively simple ~ to simultaneously slow down and speed up.
What? How is that possible?
In order to co-create the conditions as a sacred couple that support a mystical way of being within the world, we must first slow down by choosing to step out of the frantic pace of modern life. This moves us closer to the rhythms of the earth and helps us to become sensitized to the light codes continuously beaming down upon us from the stars. As we begin to slow down in this way, we also paradoxically speed up in an entirely different manner.
We speed up not by moving frantically like the rest of humanity racing around us, but by increasing the velocity of the subtle currents of life-force in our physical form, and transforming our home and workspace into a high vibration in which we can fully live our sacred love. In Quantum Merging we slow down our pace of life, while simultaneously increasing the frequency and vibration of energy in our body and intimate environment until it is moving closer to the speed of light.
What is the favorite way for Quantum Mergers to slow down and speed up? We deliciously Divinely Fuck each other into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness as much as possible! This becomes the rudder that keeps us on course while we attend to all else that needs to be done in our lives.
We consciously slow down to be fully present in life while doing the best we can to turn the most ordinary tasks into actions that vibrate at the speed of love ~ even while working, picking up our kids from school, taking care of our home and land, shopping, cooking, cleaning, enjoying entertainments, being with friends, exercising, meditating, etc.
The QM form of slowing down is founded in a conscious choice to not put ourself into unnecessary, unhealthy, or chaotic circumstances if we don’t have to. For instance, why choose to watch a violent movie that stirs up a cascade of stress chemistry in our body? Why eat in a restaurant that does not prepare healthy food with a conscious vibration? Why spend more time than we have to in public places that are devoid of love or the nourishing elements of Nature?
To live a mystical life in a mundane world, we assess every choice by asking a simple question: Will this action serve the magnification of our sacred love? That is our barometer. With every new choice we decide if we want to slow down our response to life or speed up our ecstatic energy in love, or both.
In this way, we consciously choose the people, environments and activities that best serve our sacred connection to life, enhance our love and energize the subtle circuitry of our body. Conversely, we minimize our involvement with the people, environments and activities that do not support an ecstatic life. This is not done out of judgement, but with discernment. We walk through life holding a flower of love in front of our heart with one hand, while the other hand rests on the sword of discernment in the scabbard on our back. Love is our first impulse, and yet we are prepared to cut through illusion and dross whenever necessary. To the best of our ability we choose the highest and best from among the options in every moment, as if we are a honeybee zipping along among all the possible flowers in the garden, only selecting those with the flavor of nectar that resonates with us.
Living with our lover in this way we begin to feel deeply nourished. When we are moving slowly enough to listen, to feel and entrain with the pulsating electromagnetic rhythm of the 'heartbeat' of the earth, we can simultaneously speed up the energies in our body to be sensitive to and nourished by the subtle vibrations of cosmic rays streaming to earth.
The mundane world of the twenty-first century is moving with the kind of speed that is out of synch with the natural rhythms of nature and the harmonious electromagnetic pulsations of the earth and our stellar origins. Modern life is primarily powered by electricity moving through millions of miles of copper wire at speeds of 50-60 Hertz (in contrast to the 7.8 Hertz of the earth). Human beings are bombarded day and night with increasingly powerful microwaves, wi-fi, and cellular 4G and 5G frequencies operating at incredibly rapid and energetically jarring speeds.
If we think of humans as energetic ‘star beings’ temporarily housed during each lifetime in earthly bodies, we can see that every human being is infused with the radiant life force of the stars and yet also molded from the earth. While alive we inhabit a body created from the very same elements that make up the stars and the soil upon which we walk and the creatures who share our planet. We are enlivened by the very same forces that sustain life on earth and power our sun and the stars within our own galaxy and in all the distant inter-dimensional galaxies that comprise the entire Universe. It is scientific fact that our bodies, all living creatures and earth itself are primarily made of star dust.
(https://www.space.com/35276-humans-made-of-stardust-galaxy-life-elements.html)
Since this is the case, the precise ways of how each one of us needs to slow down and speed up to live a mystical life in a mundane world become clear. We discover our own way to step out of the furious pace of the world while simultaneously increasing the frequency of the vibration of life force and love within our own body and with our lover and our intimate environment. We let our body slow down in entrainment with the rhythms of the earth and allow our consciousness to expand to touch the stars. We care for Nature and tend to all the living beings who share life with us on earth. We become beauty-makers in all we do. We share mystical sex with our matching mate as our highest choice for as long as we have the erotic juice to merge body-to-body into light.
In Quantum Merging we prioritize our life and allow everything to revolve around the vibrating vortex of bliss co-created in our sacred union. In support of that primary choice, as often as possible we gaze at night toward the stars and moon to absorb their emanations through our eyes and the subtle sensors on our skin. We greet the golden sun at dawn to be nourished by its light through our eyes. And we rejoice with our bare feet upon the fertile soil of the living body of the earth. We play among the creatures of Nature. We embrace the trees. We light a sacred fire and let our body mingle with the elements of sun, rain, snow, wind, water and air.
In all these ways, we learn to bend time, to move at the paradoxically slow and fast pace of the mystic’s world within the world, to exist in harmony upon the fertile humus of earth as well in entrainment with the finely vibrating stellar forces that make up the substrata of all existence.
What happens when we do this?
Everything changes. Our mind easily expands into the consciousness in which all thoughts arise. Our eyes open with true seeing. Our heart widens in sync with the heart of the world. Shift happens. We delight as mystical lovers in a magical world co-created with our Beloved within the ordinary world. The Flower of Life reveals its secrets. The Lingam of Light rises strong. We see that everything is fantastically beautiful. All of life is extraordinary, even more amazing than its seems. Everything is part of the whole, expressing the radiance of the One.
Once we taste the magnificence of this free awareness of life, the multiplicity of all possible desires becomes simplified down to one: inhering as 'I Am Bliss'. Because we have discovered the secret of sex ~ that it opens us directly to the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness ~ we merge in sacred sexual union with our lover as often as we can.
The shared erotic ecstasy with our Beloved is our secret portal to Source. Through holy sex we expand beyond self into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness. We build a new vortex of bliss in each act of Divine sexual union with our matching mate, and the Heiros Gamos is spontaneously accomplished. As we are lost in the sublimity of our erotic embrace, subtle secretions of ecstasy flood the brain and nervous system with natural DMT, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. Our chakras begin to spin so fast that they create a conduit to the stars. Secret chambers open within our heart and our mystical sight is unlocked.
All this just from sex? Oh yes, all this and more. Through Holy Sex in the shared ecstasy with our soul-resonant mate we become modern day mystics, frolicking among the filaments of light between our bodies and the fabric of the cosmos. We weave a luminescent tapestry of radiant Consciousness and resplendent Energy that creates our own unique form of the mystic's world within the world. Living within that alluring world we spontaneously sing our favorite mantra, 'I Am Bliss', again and again.
As lovers who are among the fortunate men and women who behold and honor the Great Weaver’s Creation in this way, our sacred embrace through mystical erotic love becomes the most auspicious choice we consistently make while alive in the shimmering world of our own making within the world.
As two-who-become-one we know beyond a shadow of a doubt that in our union of ecstasy we have plucked a pure diamond from among the stones and held it up to shine bright in the sun. For all the remaining days of our lives, in gratitude we live our sacred union one breath of love at a time until the dissolution of our earthly existence in the transition of death-into-light that lifts us all.
So be it, blessed be.
The Hidden Mysteries of Man and Woman
by Nimbus and Varshana
The Hidden Mysteries of Man and Woman
Long ago the philosopher Hermes Trismegistus wrote these cryptic words in The Emerald Tablet:
As Above, So Below
As Within, So Without
As the Universe, So The Soul
Quantum Merging is the modern expression of these ancient truths in which the dance of erotic love between the human masculine and feminine is an enactment of the dance of the Cosmos.
Quantum Merging is based upon the profound understanding that when we are in sync with the universe, when our soul is in alignment with the Cosmos, we live and breathe in the flow with all life.
Quantum Merging reminds us that when we are in right relationship with what Is, that the erotic is holy, that sex and Spirit are one, that the love in our hearts is the same vibration of love pervading every atom of the Universe.
Quantum Merging opens the eyes of the soul to see what is actually appearing before us in the form of every being alive on earth ~ a living expression of Divinity.
Quantum Merging reminds us that the attractive magnetic force circulating between our masculine and feminine human forms is the same energy enlivening every spinning galaxy.
Open your mind and heart to contemplate the hidden mysteries of Man and Woman. Allow the awareness of your soul that guides your human life to resonate with the consciousness of the Cosmos. May this sacred understanding spread far and wide in the world.
Part One
Calling All Men: Become A Golden Archer
This is a shout-out to all men who want to reclaim our birthright status as co-creators with the Divine, to be able to stand in our stature as living gods among all beings, to discover our inherent power as great lovers who rock the world of our chosen partner, and who want to embrace the gift of our manhood in a completely new way.
Every man is born with the totality of the Universe wired in our DNA and the vibrant energy of the Cosmos flowing through our veins. Unfortunately, we are usually not aware of our inherent enlightened awesomeness as we leave the fresh innocence of infancy as a boy and then as a young man. The steady indoctrination of society’s unspoken cultural agreements to stay small are inculcated in us day by day as we mature, acting as a kind of ‘soul amnesia’ causing us to forget our true nature.
And then on top of it all, we come equipped with a penis and are left to our own devices to figure out how to use it. Masturbation, fantasy, porn and clandestine conversations with the guys are the forms of sexual ‘guidance’ that most young men get as adolescents. Almost none of us were given an alternative understanding of how to use our penis and our manly sexual energy with an awakened and sacred point of view.
Who among us was told that one of the most important attributes of our masculine purpose is to learn to be a Golden Archer with our lover?
What is a Golden Archer? A sexually open man whose greatest gift to his lover is to forge his life as a ‘strong bow’ always ready to release ‘golden arrows’ of love-light to fill his beloved during every erotic act of intimate love.
As a Golden Archer our penis transforms into a sacred instrument of manly power in which we choose to ‘shoot’ life-force and light into our lover (rather than our seed) as our primary gift in every occasion of sexual intimacy. This is a new and radical concept of masculine sexuality that I, Nimbus, will now explain.
Like most of us, I did not have an evolved understanding of my sexual organ during childhood and adolescence. As a teenager, I discovered the pleasure of my penis and quickly became addicted to masturbation. I developed many creative ways to fantasize and ejaculate. By the time I was in my late teens, I was worried that actual sex with a woman might not feel good, since by that time I had become so attached to my favorite ways of self-pleasure.
Even though I never heard a single word as a teenager about how sex might be a gateway to the sacred, I felt that sex had the potential to be much more special than just getting off in fantasized ejaculation. I just didn’t know how. For that reason I decided I would at least wait until my heart was deeply open with a woman before I lost my virginity.
Fortunately at the age of eighteen I met a twenty-five year old ski instructor whose immediate response when I told her I was a virgin was to shout, “OMG, that’s awesome. I will show you everything!” Over the course of that winter while I worked as a dishwasher at a nearby inn, she enthusiastically initiated me into a deep experience of sex. She had a round bed, a mirror on the ceiling and a hot body. Our sex wasn’t sacred in the way that I now know it, but it was passionate, creative and open. I am forever grateful for her instruction.
After meeting a number of other lovers and being their devoted sexual student, by the time I was twenty I had discovered the hidden power that could be magnified by cultivating the energy of my own seeds. By experiencing how to harness the extraordinary power inherent in sex I learned how to overcome and transform my addictive habit of fantasized private and partner masturbation.
There was no porn when I grew up as a child and teenager in the 1950’s and 60’s. I only had my father’s Playboy magazines (that I would use to fantasize while I masturbated) which he kept hidden behind his shoes in his bedroom closet. But in our present day society internet pornography is a worldwide multi-billion dollar industry that has grossly distorted the sexual perceptions of most teenage boys and men. Addiction to porn guarantees no sacred sex. It is that simple. (There is a way to use occasional erotic imagery and videos to enhance sacred union, but that is a consideration for another time.)
Equally alarming, along with the growing pornography addiction among all levels of our culture, modern men are losing their natural sexual mojo.
Recent studies indicate that the sperm counts among men in the United States have dropped nearly 50% in the last 40 years, and the testosterone level of the average male is 25% less than it was in 1992. And to make matters even worse, the average estrogen level in men has increased a scary 40% in that same time period.
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is also at an all-time high among modern men, with one of the most disconcerting statistics being a rapid rise of ED among men in their twenties and thirties.
Gentlemen, we must wake up to what is happening to us! Our power and noble future is being stolen from our loins. For the most part we are either unaware or in denial of these shocking statistics.
As men, we are being crushed by porn, bad sexual advice and a vast industry of conventional grooming products, cosmetics, pesticides, and thousands of unseen chemicals and plastics that are poisoning our manhood and acting as estrogen mimickers which are literally robbing us of our masculine strength.
This is a shout-out and wake up call to all men who desire to be the great lovers, providers and powerhouse alpha males we are meant to be. We have to look at what is happening to us, educate ourselves and take back our true manhood.
We have to take back our family jewels from the onslaught of porn and poisons and just plain bad information about love and sex so we can stand in our full power as men.
For all my male friends reading these words, I want you to know that I overcame all of this and you can do it too. As a teenager I was a sex and sugar addict, hooked on fantasizing masturbation and a sugar-laden junk food diet filled with pesticides and chemicals. Through a new understanding as an adult, I was able to completely transform my relationship to sex, my own masculinity and my health. You and any man who has the desire for change can do the same.
I am vitally interested in reaching other men who have been culturally misled in similar ways as I was, who have never heard about the higher function of their penis and the magnificent power residing in their testicles.
This new understanding provides a way out of all the confusion by inspiring men to step into their true role of holding the powerful sacred masculine dynamic within their world, bringing a transformed presence to their intimate relationships and all life.
What is this new understanding?
Learn Quantum Merging and become a Love God!
Quantum Merging is not an easy path, but it does provide a process that will prepare you to live with an open heart and become capable of wielding your penis as one of the most powerful forces in the world. You will meet life with a unique masculine potency through your heart-on and your hard-on.
In Quantum Merging you will be able to transform your penis into a mighty transmitter of life force and light that is always strong and powerful. This is how a penis becomes a Lingam (the Sanskrit word for ‘phallus of light’) ready and able to be plugged into the receptive vagina of your feminine partner that is honored as a Yoni (the Sanskrit word for ‘temple of light’). When the sexual organs become transformed into the merging of Lingam and Yoni, sex becomes a whole new voltage of super-powered energy that is activated between you and your lover.
These teachings are here to help men make a complete 180 degree turn around sex. The first step is to reframe the culturally accepted norms about sex that are not even questioned. We all developed a misguided sexual identity in which our first ‘education’ about sex was how to be a fantasizing, ejaculating masturbater during puberty while using women (or men) as the objects of our desire.
From that fumbling, often porn-infused start, most teenage boys then continue their sexual explorations as men operating with a only a slightly more sophisticated version of the same thing learned in puberty ~ still primarily being a stress-releasing, fantasizing, solo or partner ejaculator for the rest of their life.
As men we are taught that sex is a biological urge that is principally about stimulation to the point of ejaculation, and the more the merrier. Sex is taught as a way of ‘mutual masturbation’ with a parter. It is all about getting off. Sex is reduced to a way of using the hands, mouth and vagina of a woman (or the hands, mouth and anus of another man) in creative versions of the same process of fantasy, stimulation and release learned in puberty.
Through Quantum Merging we want to flip this socially-accepted understanding entirely around. We want to help men transform their sexual identity from being private and partner masturbators into being powerful Love Gods who are ‘givers of energy’ with their lover. We want men to reclaim their stature as sturdy bowmen who cultivate great sexual power within their body. We want men to discover the ability to shoot sacred arrows of love-light into their feminine mate that bring her into the highest bliss during lovemaking, rather than playing out the adolescent rapid-ejaculation-sexual model for the rest of their life that they learned in puberty.
Q Merging gives men the tools to discover that their manly strength springs from being a cultivator of the precious seeds in their testicles, learning to hold and harness the secret power in their balls, and to view their masculine role and sexual identity in an entirely new way.
In Q Merging men can stand strong as Golden Archers, building power and becoming a sexual dynamo through the prolonged holding of our seeds, bringing much greater presence, love and strength to our partner than we ever thought possible.
Through the regenerative process of Mystical Erotic Love in Quantum Merging, a man can master the art of becoming a blaster of light to his feminine lover, while simultaneousy receiving and honoring the gift of her feminine energy. In this way, as a man we can step into our highest role as a sexual being whose greatest gift to our lover is to illuminate her entire being in bliss.
The great challenge for a man who learns and practices Quantum Merging is to master the art of holding his seed and choosing not to ejaculate in every occasion of sexual intimacy. This manly art can be cultivated in a way that we can build incredible power and strength during multiple occasions of sexual intimacy across a long span of time, developing complete control over the moment in which we choose to offer our seed to our lover.
Once a man feels the increase in his power, presence and vitality as he holds his seed while making love as often as possible with his lover it becomes a happy choice to cultivate his energy in this way. His seed tending does not feel like denial or moral restraint. It is a radical manly choice that supports his masculine strength and honors his feminine lover in the highest manner.
Seed tending is the choice of an awakened alpha male that allows an unbroken circuit of love and energy to build between he and his lover, without weakening the precious energetic charge. That cultivated charge naturally becomes the experience of bliss when it reaches the point of spontaneous combustion. A whole new world of possibilities opens up when sex becomes a dance of sacred intimacy and a ‘battle of love’ that has no goal of ejaculatory release, but only a powerful merging into greater and greater ecstasy.
To give you an idea of what is possible, as of this writing I am sixty seven years old and my beautiful lover is forty four. For the past seven months I have merged in sexual union with her hundreds of times without ejaculating in occasions that usually lasted for an hour or more at a time. I have held my seed this entire time, brought to the edge of ejaculation (‘Ecstatic Edging’) by my ardent bliss mate probably a thousand times. In this way we both experience higher and higher states of ecstasy that never end while we continually re-create a charge of incredible blissful energy between us.
You may wonder, “How is this possible? Isn’t it a painful sacrifice to hold my seed for so long? Won’t I get ‘blue balls’? Will sex still be fun if I try to do this? Is it really worth the effort to learn and master this art of masculine seed cultivation?”
Let me answer by sharing the effects of this radical choice in the life of my lover. Because I consistently bring her my strength, love and passion as her Quantum Merging man, she gets to shine all the time in her feminine fullness as a radiant Goddess. She is no longer an object of masculine lust. She is no longer a ‘cum recepticle’. She is seen and honored with the fullness of my masculine consciousness. She knows I make love with her, that I am not using her for my own self pleasure.
Because of this, she moves like a sensual sultry lioness through the world. She is smiling and laughing and dancing all the time. In our sacred bedroom (and every other room in the house) she has become a super orgasmic woman whose favorite thing in the world is to launch into mind-blowing, body-shaking, ecstatic-screaming super nova orgasms as I take her with the power of a thousand buffaloes and hold my seed without crossing the line to my own ejaculation.
I know this might seem almost impossible when you are first contemplating this new way of being a sexual man. I transformed from being an adolescent-quick-pleasure-masturbation-addict to a powerful awakened Love God with my lover. You too can build the same kind of extraordinary power in your body and energy field. This regenerative sexual power can be used in every kind of creative pursuit as a man ~ in your work, finances, fitness and longevity. And it can most especially be given as a gift to your Beloved in the form of blissful blasts of light that fill her being and awaken ecstasy in both of you.
If you learn the skillful practices of Q Merging you will not suffer from ‘blue balls’ or prostate problems or feel as if you are being restrained in some austere way. Not at all. In fact, you will begin to walk with a spring in your step and live every day with the greatest sense of whole-body pleasure you have ever known.
There is no need for men to achieve the same level of seed cultivation that I practice unless that is your desire. But it is possible for all men who are awakening to new sexual strength and freedom to learn to become skillful and attentive lovers as they master the art of prolonging the duration between ejaculations. In this way the embrace with our lover becomes primarily about the ecstatic merging of the masculine and feminine energies in bliss, not about releasing our seed. This is possible for any of us as men who take the first strides toward changing our relationship to our own sexual energy.
The first step in reclaiming our ability as a great lover is to begin to learn new ways to use our penis. At first it might seem silly to refer to the penis as a Lingam, since it sounds a little ‘out there’. But once you begin the practices of Q Merging this new word will begin to mean something real. You will come to understand that when rightly used our sexual organ becomes a magic wand and a crystalline shaft of light for the delight of our lover.
For men who are new to all of this, referring to the penis as a Lingam (which is often translated as a ‘wand of light’) can be confusing. Wands are typically waved in the air by magicians to conjure something new. Instead of picturing yourself waving your penis around like Harry Potter’s magic wand, the most important shift in your awareness is to change your idea of your penis as primarily being an ejaculater of semen for your own brief spasm of pleasure, into primarily being a transmitter that sends out sustained bursts of life force for both you and your partner’s immense pleasure.
The process of learning to move from primarily being an ejaculater of semen to primarily being a blaster of light with your intimate partner is a profound journey. As men we are wired from puberty to quickly shoot our seed as a form of pleasure, and nature insures a prolific amount of seed for the continuation of the species through procreation. Unless we are consciously choosing to procreate, we can learn to use our sexual power to create a blissful state with our lover in which we stay right on the edge of ejacultion for long periods of time. The great discovery for men who practice Quantum Merging is that this orgasmic edge is far more pleasurable than the brief explosion of ejaculation.
It is an extraordinary evolutionary step for a man to consciously move past the procreative model into a regenerative model of being a sexual being.
It is not easy!
In fact, this transformation might be the most challenging and rewarding endeavor of your whole life. You don’t believe me? Just take the Q Merging 30 Day Transformation course, try it for one month, and you will see for yourself.
For any man who begins to practice Quantum Merging, each time you hold your seed in the act of lovemaking and take the first steps of learning how to emit light to your Beloved through your Lingam, you are literally making history. You will feel yourself breaking a pattern in our male species that goes back hundreds of generations and thousands of years, all the way back to the grunting cavemen who bent their women over and shot their seed in a few thrusts whenever they wanted.
Because of this, it takes a fierce will and determination to master this evolutionary leap in our male sexual wiring.
The actual process of Seed Cultivation for men in Quantum Merging progresses a little at a time in a playful way with your sexual partner (or if you are single, going to the edge of ejaculation again and again without shooting in solo stimulation). If you stay with it and begin to hold your seed long enough to take your lover into the stratosphere for an hour or more, and then to continue that amazing process through multiple occasions of intimacy over days and weeks, even within one month you will be amazed at how happy and powerful you begin to feel and how transformed each act of sexual intimacy can be. And your shimmering feminine lover will tell you that you are the greatest lover in the world. She will call you her Love God.
Want to go really bold?
Stay with the Q Merging process for one whole year, steadily mastering the skills and arts of being a sacred rockstar lover, consistently extending the duration between ejaculations while having as much sex as possible, and wow, watch out!
Transcending our caveman biology and taking the evolutionary leap of becoming a Golden Archer ~ wielding our penis as a Lingam that shoots arrows of light instead using it as a self-pleasure tool ~ is super evocative and empowering for every man. And believe me, it is a magnificent advantage for the lucky woman (or man if that is your persuasion) who merges with you.
Once any man understands this new sexual cosmology, he can lean into this Quantum Merging process of learning to become a Golden Archer. He can take the challenge to master his sexual power and give highly vibrating seed-energy to his sacred partner without shooting his precious physical seed in every occasion of loving.
Being an ‘emitter’ or ‘igniter’ of energy then becomes the man’s noble role from then on with his mate. He steps out of the ever-repeating caveman loop and starts to shoot light through his Lingam into his feminine partner. He stands in his masculine strength and penetrates and permeates her with his newly-awakened mystical manly power.
Your feminine lover will be so filled with light, love and ecstasy through the great power that you bring her in this way that she will go far beyond the pleasurable vibratory experience of clitoral orgasms to regularly lift off into deep-cervical, mind-blowing, super-powered orgasms in every occasion of sacred intimacy. She will soak your sheets with her Goddess nectars. Her screams of ecstasy will become your favorite sounds.
In those magic moments of her super nova explosions of bliss, the man who is shooting bursts of life-force energy into her while holding his highly-stimulated seeds allows his penis to morph into its most magnificent form as a Lingam shooting arrow after arrow of life-force into our partner. As we wield our Lingam in this way, our shaft becomes super-charged and generates sufficient power to launch our mate into the stars while she rides the rocketship of our erotic embrace.
And wonder of wonders, her magnetic momentum of orgasmic ecstasy carries us along with her. We realize the secret equation of sacred sex ~ that her bliss is our bliss, our bliss is her bliss. The two lovers become One.
In these ecstatic moments of Quantum Merging, as the man holds his intensely-vibrating seeds, as he shoots energy/love/light into his mystic mate, as they build enough energy between them in wave after rising wave, she explodes in a shower of sparks and a great scintillating fountain of energy that bursts from the crown of her head. She is lost in an energy so powerful that it obliterates all sense of her being a separate person having sex. Her super nova explosions generate something remarkable for the man to behold. As she is overcome with bliss, we will see our lover fling energetic stars of ecstasy out into the starry sky.
Find out for yourselves if this is possible and if what I say is true.
Once you discover these sexual secrets, every man who accomplishes this great art of Mystical Erotic Love will feel like a Mystic King, magnificent and powerful and strong and bright and free. And his feminine mate will feel like she is his Cosmic Queen, seen and honored and loved and juicy and radiant as she is ignited into bliss.
The fortunate man and woman who meet in Quantum Merging both get to live their highest role and purpose, experiencing the great happiness that is the birthright of all of us while alive in human form.
Quantum Merging is the next evolution of love in our time. It is a new cosmology of sex. It is a way of Mystical Erotic Love available for all men and women interested in awakening to their highest potential.
As men, Quantum Merging is the dynamic process in which we progressively raise our vibration with our energetically-matching mate through sexual intimacy. By opening through a whole life of love and skillfully mastering the sacred erotic arts, we live from then on as a magnificent Golden Archer with our lover.
The powerful process of Mystical Erotic Love shared between such sacred couples initiates a remarkable transformation in every man who chooses it. One by one each man who embraces Quantum Merging speeds up the collective evolution of male energy on the planet.
Quantum Merging is the quickest, surest, most fun way to ignite the ecstasy of sacred union in men and women no matter where they live or what language they speak on earth.
This understanding is now within the reach of every man and woman through Quantum Merging. The good news for each man in particular is that we don’t have to accomplish this process on our own. All that is necessary for each man who wants to transform his sexuality is be emboldened to stride into this new way of being a spiritual-sexual man, and to go for it with the full passion of body, heart and soul.
In Quantum Merging, as men we let ourselves be called to greatness through the awe-inspiring desire awakened in our feminine mate as she sees us changing. As we stand in our manly strength, she will deeply long for us to take her in such a way that she can experience the bliss of her true nature as an embodiment of the Divine feminine force of the Universe. Instead of trying to discipline ourself, we let her desire inspire us to harness and master our sexual power.
From then on our manly way is to stand strong with an open heart in love, wielding our mighty bow, ever ready to ignite our chosen woman with the full quiver of our golden arrows of light. Then we let her awakened bliss guide our way home into the heart of the universe.
Part Two
Calling All Women: Become A Sacred Garden Of Delight
This is an invitation for all women to claim their sovereignty as living, breathing Goddesses on earth.
This is an inspiration honoring all women within the infinite freedom in which each one is born, celebrating the stardust that each one brings from the heavenly realms to bless all life.
This is also an invitation for all men to embrace women as the holy ones they are, forevermore seeing them as luminous beings whose highest purpose is to love and be loved without limit.
This is a clarion call of a great change now birthing into the world through Quantum Merging, in which men and women behold the feminine form in a whole new way, as a Sacred Garden of Delight.
The bodies of women from time immemorial have been used and abused by patriarchal forces in a way that is on the level of a holocaust, with the effect that the lust of the unconscious masculine has split the feminine body from her radiant soul.
It is time that men step up and come forward to honor the bodies and souls of women as sacred, holy and Divine.
And it is time that women remember to see and care for their bodies as highly sensitive and erotic temples of bliss, their minds as conduits of wisdom and their hearts as the peacemakers of the earth.
The vagina is the most desired and the most misunderstood part of the feminine form. It is viewed by most men primarily as a receptacle for their semen and the place for the birth of their children. This is an incredibly narrow view of what is infinitely holy.
All life emerges from the vagina. This fact alone bestows the highest honor upon it. If men understood the true function of the vagina, they would literally worship each woman who is the bearer of this gift.
When the vagina is honored and revered by men and women, it opens and transforms as a Yoni (a Sanskrit word meaning 'feminine temple of bliss'). The vagina when approached reverently becomes a temple within a sacred garden that nurtures a radiant flower of life deep within its center. This is the Yoni.
As a woman begins to awaken to her own infinite power of sexual energy ~ what is referred to in the Vedic tradition as the feminine force of ‘Shakti’ ~ she opens to and connects with the vibrant energy that fills the whole Universe. This super-charged energy is matched and balanced by the dynamic power of consciousness known in the Vedas as the masculine force of ‘Shiva’. The entire Universe is thus seen as a manifestation of Shiva/Shakti, the dancing energies of the magnetized masculine and feminine forces of all life in perpetual embrace.
It is time to elevate the feminine to her Divine status in the form of every woman bearing sacred gifts which bloom through the expression of her sexual nature and open heart.
Just as awakening men are re-framing their understanding of their penis so they can see and use it as a Lingam that is a transmitter of light, women are learning to view and use their own vagina as a Yoni that is a temple of light.
The Yoni is a sacred reference to the transformed vagina in a woman. When the vagina is no longer seen as an object of lustful desires, the Yoni is recognized by both men and women as an embodiment of feminine mysteries.
For a woman to feel her vagina as a holy Yoni, she must first heal any wounds inflicted on her by any out-of-balance masculine or feminine energies she has encountered. Unfortunately, some form of misuse or abuse from men (or from wounded women who shame girls and vilify the naturally occurring sexual energies arising during childhood) is the experience of almost all women. Thus the work of healing the wounds of the heart and vagina ~ which are deeply connected in the feminine form ~ is the first important step for each woman in reclaiming her full feminine power and majesty.
Each woman must embark on a journey to heal her vagina/heart wounds with gentle healing therapies, through skillful intimacy with respectful, caring men and women, and by basking in the power of unconditional love with soul friends and lovers. Only then can she begin to dedicate her whole being to her highest function as a sacred feminine vessel, a mystical portal and a sacred garden of delight. Only then is she ready to receive the divine masculine energies into her being. Only then is she able to awaken to the primal desire residing deep inside women to open utterly to the penetrating power of Shiva in embrace with his Shakti. That primal desire to be utterly seen, utterly embraced and utterly taken is expressed in the archetype of the magic kiss in the old fairy tales that awakens the sleeping princess. Every woman longs for and deserves the kiss that brings her ecstatically to life.
The inherent nature of Woman is openness, receptivity, sensitivity, intuition, wisdom, sensuality, sexual fire, and the joyful reception and giving of love and life.
But how can any woman fully surrender to receive and be penetrated by the strong erotic love of the masculine if she is still wounded and therefore cannot trust and open as she is naturally designed to be?
The opening and transformation of the vagina/heart into a Yoni is a progressive process of blooming. As the vagina/heart heals, her petals open to become a Yoni, a Sacred Garden of Delight. When a woman feels seen and honored in the fullness of her feminine grace, in the center of that fragrant garden a rare moon flower blooms that is the very Flower of Life.
From the moment any woman reclaims her sovereignty as a living Goddess, the only man or woman she will permit to enter her feminine temple is one who worships the holiness of both her heart and her flower of life. Only to those who approach in reverence will she offer her greatest gifts.
Contemplate the Yoni as a garden temple filled with sacred flowers that progressively open a little at a time to reveal their hidden treasures. A magnificent flower of life waits as an expectant bud in the deepest chamber of this temple, only opening all its petals in response to the golden masculine sun when she feels complete safety, reverence and the beautiful power of pure desire.
Hold the image in your awareness of a fragrant pink flower blooming in the warm spring sunshine. This is exactly the way a woman’s vagina/heart opens as a Yoni in response to the penetrating power of the masculine sun. The awakening force of the light does not hurt the flower. On the contrary, the sun is the supreme nourishment for the flower. As long as there is enough moisture nourishing its deep roots, the warmth of the sun’s rays brings life to the flower and coaxes its petals to spread wide open. The sensual flower opens willingly and enthusiastically to the penetrating rays of the sun. This is how a woman longs to feel her Yoni honored by the masculine.
Each woman who reclaims her birthright destiny of ecstatic blooming as she heals the wounds of her vagina/heart helps to heal the soul of all women by her courageous and joyous opening.
One by one, each vagina/heart healed within any woman inspires the healing and awakening of all other women.
One by one, each masculine mate who holds his beloved in this way with honor, love and pure desire heals all other women too.
Quantum Merging is the ecstatic way for each woman to open to love, to bloom in the warmth of love, to meet her masculine counterpart in a dance of love, desire and devotion. Being fully seen, she is so grateful to joyously open her deepest secret flower of life to receive the penetrating power of the sun into every cell of her body and every atom of her soul.
Each woman is complete unto herself. And yet paradoxically in her wholeness she longs for fusion, to merge with another in the ecstasy of sacred union. She longs for her complete feminine nature to be met by the complete masculine nature of one who sees, loves and desires her. She longs to utter the spontaneous mantra of pure orgasmic ecstasy ~ "I Am Bliss". Her being yearns to reach like a flower toward the sun so she can expand beyond herself. In her opening to and reception of the golden light of her beloved she experiences the states of enstasy and ecstasy simultaneously. She draws all energy into herself like a black hole and explodes as a super nova. She knows that the supreme bliss of cosmic oneness which blooms within the erotic embrace with her lover is the highest possible state while alive in human form.
Each woman holds the potential to be the embodiment of sensual enlightenment. Her inherent nature is the radiant expression of the universal attractive power of magnetic sexual energy. In other words, her true nature is mystic hot! Her whole being is designed to be seen, touched and fully met by her lover who brings her the consciousness of the masculine force of creation.
Deep inside each woman there is a longing for the fusion of sacred merging with her perfectly matching counterpart in the Q Force of mystical erotic entanglement. Every woman yearns to experience herself as a dazzling star spinning around another bright star in a mesmerizing magnetic dance, until she dissolves into the Phosphorescent Sea of Oneness.
As each woman draws to herself a masculine counterpart (man or woman) who is vibrating closely to the frequency of her essence, she is then able to rapidly complete the process of her feminine healing. As a healed and whole woman she dives joyously into a river of mystical erotic awakening with her beloved that carries her swiftly to her true destiny.
Once a woman hears of this possibility of finding her Q Match who vibrates at the same soul frequency as herself, she will begin to dream about and imagine an awakened masculine force of mystical erotic love coming into her life. This initiates a subtle process in the invisible ethers of pure potentiality which ultimately attracts a Sun God to her, one who will shine his light upon her being so she can bloom open in all her feminine glory as a Moon Goddess.
As her whole being is honored in this way by a reverent masculine being, her intimate anatomy transforms spontaneously into a Yoni and blooms as a radiant sacred garden of delight. As she invites her lover to enter her garden to sip nectar like a hummingbird from her fragrant blossoms, her Yoni then opens even more deeply to offer her Flower of Life in the steady sunshine of her lover’s light.
When she feels fully seen and met in this way, her entire being expands. The delicate petals of the secret inner bud residing in the far reaches of her temple spread wide open in full bloom as her fragrant Flower of Life. No longer having to protect herself from earlier wounds, she invites her masculine light bearer to string his mighty bow, to let fly his golden arrows of love, to fill her deepest essence with beams of light. She in return invites him to sip from the infinite wellspring of her nectars as she bestows the gifts of her limitless delight upon him.
As this dance of awakened masculine and feminine energies between the lovers in Quantum Merging expands into its fullness, her Yoni transmutes yet again into it a further offering and purpose. Her Yoni becomes a portal of initiation and she becomes an initiatress of higher love.
As initiatress standing at the entrance of her portal of initiation, the feminine lover begins to take on an active role within her primary field of receptivity. She becomes the 'cultivator of the seed' of her masculine lover. Seductively arousing him to the edge of ejaculation again and again and again, she guides him into states of rapture while simultaneously championing him to hold his seed and shoot her full of light. Her feminine receptivity does not imply passivity, as if she is only a gentle flower opening for his active Lingam.
Quite the contrary, as initiatress she literally fucks her man out of his mind. Like the paintings of the fierce goddess Kali holding the severed head of her male lover (symbolic of his transcendence of mind as she brings him fully into his heart and body), throughout each occasion of sexual union she uses the powerful muscles of her Yoni to 'milk' his hard shaft of masculine strength until he is undone in ecstasy, until his thinking mind is surrendered. While she awakens him into a euphoria that is almost impossible to withstand, she urges him to stay steady as her 'Lord of The Edge' where he walks a fine line between the exalted power of prolonged ecstasy and the diminution of the brief spasm of ejaculation.
When this magical, time-bending alchemy occurs during their passion dance of intimate love, the two become one as they realize the sacred equation of bliss alive in human form. As he enters her golden temple with honoring strength, holding his seed and shooting her full of light, this evokes extraordinary trust within her. Her essence spontaneously opens without withholding and swallows him into herself, pulling him into the great ecstasy of the Q Fusion of Quantum Merging.
As his golden sun heals and awakens her feminine being within the trusting cocoon of his masculine love, from that moment on she undulates between being a fragrant garden of flowers in full bloom and a fierce initiatress who rides her wild stallion to greatness. At her invitation her lover penetrates her with all his manly strength even as he gratefully surrenders into the vastness of her feminine erotic nature. Together the two merge as one.
At this point, words can scarcely convey the happiness that overflows from a woman who is seen, held and loved in this manner. Her human life is transformed from the busyness of the mundane into a daily dance of mystical erotic love.
For most of the 86,400 seconds that make up each day and the 43,200 minutes that span the time between the darkness of the new moon to the bright illumination of the full moon and back each month, she cavorts in ecstasy either alone, with her lover, among friends or through the elements of Nature. Because her seeking for something outside herself has subsided in her realization of the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness, not much can deter her for long from abiding in the flow of the ever-expanding Universe. Most of the time she frolics within the synchronicities of her blessed interactions, and her radiant light rises in love to take its place among the spinning of the stars.
The human form of such a fortunate woman alternates between blooming as a constant succession of fragrant flowers and appearing as a fierce goddess who inspires her man to be a hero, even in the midst of the inevitable challenges that come her way. She views the appearance of stressful experiences, pain or illness as nothing more than annoying flies to notice and sweep away within the overwhelming luminosity of her love.
Forevermore she resides with her soul-matched lover in the certainty that her bliss is his bliss and his bliss is her bliss as they merge again and again into bliss itself.
Forevermore her life is realized with her beloved as a co-creation of ecstasy within the entangling/disentangling/reentangling twin masculine and feminine forces of existence.
Forevermore as she frolics freely in Mystical Erotic Love, dancing in the Q Fusion of Sacred Union in Quantum Merging, the whole world is healed and bathed in the effusions of her feminine ecstasies.
So Be it, Blessed Be.
Liquid Light
by Nimbus and Varshana
Liquid Light
If you are part of the QM Tribe, you know that cultivating the male seed for long periods of time and building greater and greater power between you and your lover is a foundation practice for every man and his feminine partner.
This high art requires both the man and woman (or man and man; woman with woman builds a similar energy, but of course not by cultivating seed) to co-create a fusion of masculine and feminine energies. In this way the lovers initiate such a heightened state of enlightened awareness and a potent vortex of power that both are awakened to ever-expanding realizations of bliss as their relationship unfolds over time.
Since most men prior to Q Merging are already predisposed toward ejaculating their seed during most or all occasions of sexual intimacy (as well as in solo masturbation), learning the art of seed cultivation alone or with their partner is critical to the practice of Quantum Merging.
That being said, once the man either alone or with the help of his feminine mate in a partnership (female or male) has mastered the practice of seed retention and is reaping the benefits of sustained ‘Ecstatic Edging’ with increased health, vitality, clarity, love and strength, then it is time to begin to work with the dynamic balance of the optimum time for holding and the auspicious time for shooting the precious seed.
‘As Above, So Below’ is a fundamental axiom in Q Merging. Since the galaxies are infinitely expanding and contracting and expanding again, and all of nature is in a dynamic flux of birth, death and rebirth, we too as masculine lovers want to develop the artful ebb and flow of prolonged seed retention as well as how we offer our sacred seed on special occasions within the mystic dance of love with our lover.
For most of each yearly cycle, as Q Mergers we work to develop our capacity and skill with seed retention, learning the high art of prolonged Seed Cultivation through the practice of Ecstatic Edging. This builds increasingly greater power and energy in the solo man and especially through the atomic fusion where the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts co-created between the committed couple.
Alone, or with the help of our partner, each QM man gradually masters the first important phase of Seed Cultivation. The first phase is the ability to truly be present with his feminine mate with full sensuality, to make love with her and not a fantasized internal image of her, to develop the ability to stay hard for longer and longer periods of time by learning to alternately relax the pelvic muscles and contract the ‘Gate of Power’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy before emitting his seed, all along deeply nourishing and pleasuring his partner.
This initial learning phase leads towards the second tier of Ecstatic Edging, which is mastering the ability to not only stay hard for an hour or more in each dynamic occasion of intimacy, but to begin to hold the seed for many days, and eventually many weeks at a time. During this second phase each man will begin to notice many positive changes in his vitality, strength, mental clarity, health, fitness, business ability and sexual power.
Over time this leads into the third phase of Seed Cultivation in which the QM man masters the ability to merge with his Beloved for several hours at a time, day in and day out, and to hold his seed over the course of several or many months and even a year or more without releasing it in ejaculation.
Is this really safe and possible?
Yes. Mastering the third tier of Seed Cultivation is an extraordinary accomplishment. This evolutionary choice is life-changing to say the least for each man and his chosen Beloved.
It is during this third phase that Quantum Merging really reveals its magic. When the man has progressed to this level of holding his seed, he has developed his sacred sexual skills to such a point that he is free to fully attend to his lover without much attention to the mechanics of seed retention.
He becomes a badass mystical lover who can stay hard for hours without ejaculating, and regularly take his lover with the power of a thousand buffaloes thundering across the prairie. No passive eye gazing or soft tantric breathing exercises for him and his electrified lover! A third stage Seed Cultivator in Quantum Merging is a fucking gladiator of love, a true mystic warrior.
At this point, Seed Cultivation becomes an ecstatic dance of ebb and flow, rising and falling, waves cresting and drawing down, all the time renewing in an ever-expanding spiral of vigor, buoyancy and zest that carries the two Beloveds into one bliss beyond all techniques, all practices and all attention to the methods of sacred sex.
As you can imagine, this fulfillment of QM Seed Cultivation requires a fundamental change of the mind, heart and body of each man and his feminine partner.
In order to shift his mind, each man has to examine and change the conventional belief that men should ejaculate their seed in every occasion of sexual intimacy. Since puberty, he has been told that this is what manly men do. His doctor will most likely have told him he might get prostate cancer unless he empties his balls almost every day, even encouraging him to do private masturbation if his partner is not available. Yeah, and his bros tell him if he is stressed to just rub one out in the shower.
This is so old school. The power and strength that a man will develop within his prostate and all his organs with rightly-practised Seed Cultivation blows these errant theories out of the water. He will also ignite the higher chemistry of his brain, activating the ‘happiness hormones’ DOSE, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. On top of that the ‘ecstasy molecule’ DMT spontaneously releases during the heightened state of prolonged ecstatic edging in embrace with his lover.
As the man is developing his sexual power and building his energies to new heights his feminine partner might still believe that it is her duty to drain his balls with a blow job as often as possible even if they don’t have sex, or she will feel she has failed in her sexual role. His feminine mate has to examine and change the commonly-held belief that she has to ‘get her man off’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy in order to ‘keep him happy and not stray’. One old woman told a friend of ours, “The secret of keeping a man around is simple: Fill his belly and drain his balls. Every morning and every night. Then he won’t cheat on you”.
This is the opposite of QM. In Quantum Merging, the Love Goddess fills the belly of her Love God only two thirds full with nourishing food and champions him to retain his seed so he can Divinely fuck her day and night.
To shift his heart, each man has to learn to view his sexual energy as a gift of precious vitality, cultivating an ever-increasing power of life-force that magnifies the inner currents of his love so much that he can ‘shoot’ it into his lover through his Lingam (the Sanskrit word signifying ‘phallus of light’). His feminine partner likewise learns along with him to open in such a way that she seductively invites and fully receives his gift of light and power, and shines it back to him.
To shift his body, each man has to treat his own physical form and the seductive form of his lover as a sacred instrument of refined energy and light. Every great lover has to become a modern-day yogi. To be a rockstar lover each man has to become more open, more flexible, more aware of his body as a vehicle of love and light even as he keeps it strong and powerful. Strength training, high intensity interval training (HIIT) and yoga/chi kung/pranayama are the trifecta of physical cultivation for a man. A QM man hits the gym, rocks his sprints and gets on the yoga mat every damn day!
How can a man hope to transmute his own seed into an Elixir of Love ~ cultivating his seed to always be ready to shoot his lover full of light on a daily basis or one day to either consciously create a super-powered baby or to offer his potent seed as a gift of Liquid Light to his Beloved ~ unless he honors his and her mind, heart and body as a temple devoted to the high art of sacred living?
These shifts from old beliefs and habits to new understandings and choices of power in the life of any man are huge. Quantum in fact. These masculine Choices of Power establish the pillars of the complete way of Quantum Merging.
The foundation practice in QM is learning to retain and cultivate the seed and build power alone or with a lover. This is what we call ‘Ecstatic Edging’. ‘EE’ is basically the art of being brought to the edge of orgasmic ejaculation again and again for longer and longer periods of time, but not ending the solo or partner occasion with the usual release of the seed. You can learn and practice this alone with excellent benefits, and of course the greatest expression of it will be with your lover within the sacred container of your committed relationship.
As a couple, QM lovers create prolonged occasions of powerful intimacy where the man is so aroused by his feminine mate that he is taken again and again to the edge of ejaculation without crossing the line into release. Each man develops the capacity to allow states of heightened energy to circulate in his body without automatically releasing them. His feminine partner can freely choose to let go into super orgasmic bliss as he pleases her on and on, or join her lover in Ecstatic Edging where she approaches the edge of orgasm but stays on that exquisite precipice of ecstasy with him.
This practice of Ecstatic Edging is fun, exciting and challenging. At first, you might not be successful at staying hard for long periods without shooting, or to hold your seed for more than one or a few occasions of sacred solo masturbation or love making. Keep the practice light and playful, and just keep working with these new ideas and practices. As you embrace Q Merging, stay attentive to shifting all three parts of your being ~ your mind, your heart and your body ~ to align with this evolutionary leap of Seed Cultivation in Quantum Merging.
Once your solo or partner practice of Ecstatic Edging has progressed to the point where prolonged holding of your seed alone or merging with your lover is your fundamental way of being as a sexual man, then you are ready to contemplate the art of giving your liquid light as the most precious gift you can offer your Beloved.
Semen is not just a procreative substance to ensure the continuation of the species. When rightly understood and cultivated, semen becomes a precious elixir of the highest vibration of the Spirit and an extraordinary alchemical mixture of the combined inner love-infused chemistry of an awakened man.
It is said in the Taoist and Tantric traditions that one drop of semen is equal in energy to one thousand drops of blood. Semen is understood to hold the energy of the ‘original Spirit’ in every man. In fact, every time a man emits his semen, he is giving away a huge burst of his precious life-force. This is one reason why women traditionally outlive men, because men are unknowingly and gradually weakened from a lifetime of continuous seed emitting through masturbation and conventional sex. Semen when rightly cultivated in a healthy man literally becomes ‘liquid light’.
Once the man has mastered the basics of Q Merging and understood and cultivated his seed to this extent, then it is time to explore the most auspicious timing and occasional celebratory way to offer his lover the precious gift of his liquid light.
And that is a blog for another day.
Homo Amore Luminosa
by Nimbus and Varshana
Homo Amore Luminosa
It is time for a new species of human beings to appear
Our human species evolved as Cro-Magnon Man, Homo Neanderthalensis, Homo Erectus, and finally Homo Sapiens (the term coined by Carolus Linnaeus in 1758, which is Latin for ‘wise man’)
It is time for the next step in the evolution of humanity
Many among the seven billion Homo Sapiens are ready for a ‘consciousness and systems upgrade’ to a higher frequency
Homo Amore Luminosa is the human of the future
Amore is the Italian word for ‘Love’ and Luminosa means ‘Luminous Light’. The prefix Homo is masculine, Amore is neutral, and Luminosa is feminine
This signifies that the future human is balanced in the play of masculine and feminine energies within the conscious field of Love and Light
The primary mission of Quantum Merging is to catalyse the emergence of the new human, Homo Amore Luminosa, the wise human of Luminous Love Light
This is accomplished as human beings see and relate to each other in their highest expression, with masculine and feminine as equal members of the new species Homo Amore Luminosa
In this next evolution of the human being into the species Homo Amore Luminosa, the mind expands as infinite Consciousness, the heart proliferates as boundless Love, and the body transforms into a vessel of Light
This is not ‘new age’ talk
Without a new expansion into greater Consciousness, the mind of man has the potential to destroy the earth
Without the acknowledgement of the primacy of Love, the incredible advances of modern technology have the potential to devolve into rogue forms of artificial intelligence (AI) that cause incalculable harm
Without a radical shift in understanding the body in a more refined way as a conductor of Light, new forms of diet, fitness and medicine in themselves will not be sufficient to take our species to the next level of our human potential
The expansion of Consciousness, Love and Light is the trifecta that will speed the highest expression of humanity to its next evolution as Homo Amore Luminosa
Quantum Merging for Geeks
by Nimbus
Quantum Merging for Geeks
Quantum Merging is founded upon fundamental principles of electromagnetism. The movement of electrons across a positively- and negatively-charged magnetic field generates waves of energy as light and electricity. Human beings can harness this primal force as sexual energy to create an electromagnetic current so powerful that it instantly transports them into the Cosmic Source-Field in which all forms of energy arise. Here is the scientific explanation of how Quantum Merging works:
Generation of Electromagnetic Waves
(Source: http://xtide.ldeo.columbia.edu)
Electromagnetic waves are generated by moving electrons. An electron generates an electric field which we can visualize as lines radiating from the electron Figure 10a. If the electron moves, say it vibrates back and forth, then this motion will be transferred to the field lines and they will become wavy Figure 10b. In turn, the moving electron generates a magnetic field that will also become wavy from the motion of the electron. These combined electrical and magnetic waves reinforce one another. This kind of wave is called an electromagnetic wave and light is such a wave.
http://xtide.ldeo.columbia.edu/mpa/Clim-Wat/Climate/slides/electron.gif
Since all matter contains electrons and all these electrons are in motion, as are the atomic nuclei they spin around, all matter generates electromagnetic waves. Since all electromagnetic waves travel at the same speed (c) the frequency of the waves is determined by the frequency of the vibrating electrons that generate them. Hot substances have more energy and their component atoms vibrate more rapidly than those of cold bodies. Thus the peak energy radiated by hot bodies has a higher frequency, shorter wavelength, than that of cooler bodies. The relationship of the peak frequency of a black body to its absolute temperature is expressed by Wein's Law.
Wein's Law
lmax = a/T
a = 2989 if l is measured in microns
Electromagnetic (EM) radiation is emitted by all matter and consists of orthogonal electrical and magnetic waves. All EM travels at the same speed through a vacuum (186,000 miles per second or 300,000 kilometers per sec.). This radiation is generated by a moving charge or charges.
All matter consists of atoms in motion and these in turn consist of positively charged protons surrounded by a cloud of negatively charged electrons.
In QM understanding, the masculine energy consists of ‘positively-charged light protons’ accumulated through the process of seed cultivation and emitted through the Lingam of the man, where they interact with the ‘cloud of negatively-charged electrons’ generated by the receptive force of desire within the Yoni of the woman.
The vibrating motion of the atoms causes the cloud of electrons to oscillate and this oscillation generates electromagnetic radiation.
In QM understanding, as the masculine and feminine lovers begin to move (vibrate) in the dance of sacred love, the positively-charged protons emitted from the Lingam of the man as he holds his seed enters the cloud of negatively-charged electrons within the receptive Yoni of the woman, causing them to oscillate faster and naturally generate electromagnetic energy.
As this oscillating cloud of negatively-charged electrons within the womb of the woman is further activated by the excited movement of the positively- charged protons emitted by the man, the electromagnetic radiation between them increases exponentially!
This process instantly creates an electromagnetic Dynamo of epic proportions.
“A dynamo creates energy. It's short for "dynamoelectric machine," which is a generator that cranks out electric currents. If someone calls you a dynamo, don't get mad, it just means you're energetic. The word dynamo comes from the Greek dynamis for ‘power.’”
Dynamo - Dictionary Definition Vocabulary.com
In QM terms, this sexually-powered electromagnetic Dynamo generates a Vortex of Light that rises up between the positively- and negatively-charged bodies of the masculine and feminine lovers, instantly becoming a Superconductor* Connection to Source.
*Superconductors are materials that conduct electricity with no resistance. This means that, unlike the more familiar conductors such as copper or steel, a superconductor can carry a current indefinitely without losing any energy.
(Source: Superconductor Week)
In QM understanding, the body of the feminine partner literally becomes a Superconductor through her openness without resistance to the positively-charged masculine force of her lover. Because he builds his positive charge (rather than dissipating it through ejaculation), this permits the electromagnetic energy generated in their sexual play to increase in ever-expanding states of intensity within the Superconductor of her ecstatic body.
Since all electromagnetic radiation travels at the same velocity (which is the speed of light), the frequency and wavelength of the generated radiation depends on the frequency of the oscillating electron cloud.
Think about this: the electromagnetic radiation generated by the movement and attraction between the positively- and negatively-charged bodies of the QM lovers travels at the speed of light, which is 186,000 miles per second!
And the intensity of the ‘frequency and wavelength’ of the electromagnetic energy generated between the QM lovers is determined by the ‘frequency of the oscillating electron cloud’ activated in the woman’s Yoni.
In other words, in order to generate sufficient force to create a Super Nova explosion of ecstasy in the woman that is powerful enough to carry them into the Source Field of Bliss during the embrace of Quantum Merging, the male lover only needs master the art of holding his seed while emitting positively-charged protons into the negatively-charged electron cloud in the woman’s Yoni, and voila, the power builds within the superconductor of her body until she erupts as a Rocketship of Bliss that they both ride into the stratosphere!
As we love to say in Quantum Merging, the Dynamo takes you into the Stratosphere. Through the power generated in intimate union we ride the ‘Dyno into the Strato’!
Thus, on average, cool objects (say those at room temperature) generate long wavelength (low frequency) radiation, while hot objects (such as the sun) generate short wavelength (high frequency) radiation.
QM lovers activate highly vibrating erotic energy through the heat of their passion, and ‘high frequency radiation’ is naturally produced. In other words, when you’re hot you’re Hot.
All you mystic hot and mystic hard people out there, Quantum Merging is for everyone who wants to increase their energy, health, bliss and happiness.. even science geeks!
Happy QMing everyone.
New Translation
by Nimbus
New Translation
There is an old story that goes like this.
Two religious scholars were studying an ancient text which influenced several other religions that were prominent two thousand years ago.
“Oh my God”, one of the scholars gasped as he looked up in astonishment from the old parchment he was peering at with a magnifying glass. “I think I just found a colossal mistake in the earliest manuscript of this period that influenced all the religious and spiritual teachings that followed!”
His fellow scholar looked over at his old friend and asked, “Tell me, what is this huge grammatical mistake you feel is so important? What could you have found at this late date that no one else has ever previously discovered?”
The elderly scholar hand trembled as he pointed to the mis-translated word.
“Here it is!”
The two scholars gazed upon the word... ‘celibate’.
Both scholars could clearly see that it had been mis-translated.
The word in its proper context in the ancient manuscript was meant to read, “Human beings should ‘celebrate’”, not “be ‘celibate’“ as it had been translated.
Think for a moment of the profound difference between the word ‘celebrate’ and ‘celibate’.
As the story goes, one grammatical error passed down through the ages led to centuries of religious and spiritual suppression of the natural energy of sex and diverted humanity from the inherent joy of the celebration of life as free sexual beings.
Let’s reverse the importance of these two words and bring ecstatic sacred sexual celebration back to the forefront of human experience.
Quantum Merging is the joyful celebration of our birthright as free sexual beings forever connected to our Divine Source.
The Majesty of Her Loving
by Nimbus
The Majesty of Her Loving
There is no better way to describe my Beloved
than to express the majesty of her loving
She is my Queen
the Mystic Royalty of my Heart
and the majesty of her loving
transcends any ordinary human interaction
She is my Cosmic Queen here on earth
sprinkling star dust on me every time we embrace
Because of the majesty of her loving
I stand as her Mystic King
strong in my unshakable power of pure Consciousness
When we kiss, when we merge, when she utterly receives me when I take her with the power of a thousand buffaloes, all space is altered, all time bends the worlds collide the sky pours forth rain, the lightning strikes, the thunder shakes and the two become One! Do you see?
All this is because of the majesty of her loving
the loving of my Cosmic Queen the loving of my Spirit Bride the loving of my Bliss Mate the loving of this beautiful woman who eternally shines her Moonlight upon me
The mystery that most do not see is that the brightness of my golden Sun is only so brilliant because of the Moonlight she shines back to me through her pure reception
She and I are the Sun and Moon eternally feeding each other eternally nourishing each other eternally focused in our mesmerizing magnetic dance spinning and whirling around each other pulsing in the space that holds us forever merging in the invisible field of our Mystic Love
Without the Spark, there is no Splendor
By Nimbus and Varshana
Without The Spark, There Is No Splendor
The five stages of Divine Union through Quantum Merging:
1) The Spark…The masculine outpouring of love and desire to his feminine mate is the ignition that starts the engine of transformation
2) The Splendor...The feminine reception of the masculine ignition spark quickens and magnifies the energies circulating between them in an alchemy of mystical proportions
3) The Flame…The powerful attraction between the lovers spontaneously combusts into a white-hot fire that co-creates the electromagnetic Vortex of Dynamism
4) Oneness…The two become one through an entangled dance of Love, Desire and Devotion that enacts the dance of the Cosmos through their human forms
5) Bliss...Through their ecstatic merging the two-who-are-one transmute into the ultimate destiny of all created forms ~ absolute Bliss, Love and Light
Such is the way of Quantum Merging
Quantum Merging Mechanics for Men
by Nimbus
Quantum Merging Mechanics For Men: A New Strategy For Sexual Mastery
Okay men, here is some straight up talk about how you can transform your sexual energy to be the alpha male of your business, to be the master of your life, and to be the Love God in the bedroom that your mate has always dreamed of.
This natural ability to be an alpha male, a master of life and a Love God is wired inside the DNA of your own body. But it is buried deep and it is easy to miss. All that is necessary is to learn of its existence and then adopt effective strategies that harness and magnify the extraordinary power of your sexual energies.
As men our sexuality is still mired in the Stone Age. We are still relating to our own cock and using it to have sex just like the cave men who are our ancestors from ten thousand years ago.
We don’t push heavy objects around anymore by using logs to roll them from one place to another. We don’t use spears to hunt for our food. We don’t any longer live in caves. And yet we still have sex like our Stone Age predecessors.
WTF?
Seriously, it is the Twenty First century and yet we still go out hunting for our woman like a Neanderthal. When we find her we give a show of strength and prowess and try to convince her to come back to our cave where we copulate for a few minutes before rolling over with a grunt and falling asleep. Next day, get up, kill a Wooly Mammoth and repeat.
It is time for a new sexual strategy. This might have worked for Cro-Magnon man, but it is an ill-suited approach for modern men with our present-day Goddesses.
Modern Goddesses are not looking for a grunting caveman. They are looking for a Love God. They want a lover who can take them into the ecstasy of infinity.
Master your sexual energies and you will discover the ability to be the powerful Love God your woman desires. Brief conquest and copulation is a thing of the past. A modern Love Goddess wants her man to love her, honor her and fuck her into ecstasy for as long as she wants, becoming stronger every time you merge. Learn this one thing and all else in your life will be transformed.
The High Art of Quantum Merging
by Nimbus and Varshana
The High Art Of Quantum Merging
1) Quantum Merging is the Alchemical Erotic Art of Transforming Two-into-One
Two embodied beings who are attracted through the power of their magnetic erotic energy transmute into One Radiant Field of Ecstatic Love
2) Quantum Merging is the metamorphosis of two ordinary human bodies into a single temple where the sacred lovers worship the Divine
Within the sacred place of their merging, the masculine and feminine lovers gift each other with ecstatic offerings of Mystical Erotic Love
3) Quantum Merging is learning to cultivate the sacred seeds of man through the art of holding, harnessing and building his sexual life-force energy.
The feminine partner becomes the sacred seed tender, awakening the masculine to new states of ecstatic bliss. Rarely letting the man explode, she skillfully works with the rising energy to help them both attain deeper states of transcendent bliss, ultimately leading to awakenings of higher realizations of love.
4) Quantum Merging is opening the deepest chambers of the women’s mind, body and heart through the sacred garden of her Yoni, inviting her lover to launch her ecstatic being into the stratosphere of blissful pleasure.
In this way she endlessly unfolds her being to become the most fragrant open flower you have ever held in your arms of love.
5) Quantum Merging is living with a fierce commitment to make choices in your life that support the highest and the best for you and your lover.
Life is a series of choices. All decisions are placed in the cauldron of the shared love, desire and devotion of the two lovers, and the highest and best way for all is easily revealed.
6) Quantum Merging is choosing love ~ no matter what arises.
This is the foundation of a sacred life of mystical erotic love within a world that tends to gravitate toward the mundane and profane. You and your lover bring heaven to earth.
7) Quantum Merging is developing a deep discernment and understanding about the truth of every situation that comes your way.
The ecstasy of the frequent merging of the matching mates creates a field of consciousness that makes it natural to embrace every experience as a gift that inspires, challenges or heals us, raising our frequency to a higher soul expression of existence.
8) Quantum Merging is the realization that in every meeting and merging with your lover you come fully prepared to love and be loved, to stand in your strength, to reside in your highest self fully surrendered to the moment.
The lovers learn to stay in the dance of their love without bringing the busy mind, the past or the future into the present moment with one another.
9) Quantum Merging is fun, Divinely fucking our way into Bliss!
Come frolic with your bliss mate and revel in the natural state of oneness with all life.
So be it, blessed be.
A Way of Freedom
By Nimbus
A Way of Freedom
Quantum Merging is founded upon the principle of freedom.
Each soul is free before birth, free during life and free after death.
Each soul is free to choose, experience and live in any way its consciousness desires while alive on Earth.
Quantum Merging inspires each soul to claim this freedom, including the choice of the highest possible expression of sexual ecstasy.
Each soul is always free to expand its consciousness, free to try things out and free to attract other souls into its orbit in order to experience the intricacies of love and desire.
Each soul is free to rise and fall in love and desire as many times as necessary in order to find another soul who matches its soul signature.
Quantum Merging is one of these ways of freedom expressed as Mystical Erotic Love with another embodied soul.
Quantum Merging is a soulful way to Oneness shared with another being through sexual ecstasy raised to its highest frequency.
Quantum Merging is a great power, a light, a bliss, a joy, a love that brightens the world wherever it appears.
Men,
Be as Strong
as a
Bull Elk
By Nimbus
Men, Be As Strong As A Bull Elk
“We have to grow some fucking antlers like him!”
I shouted this to my two male friends as we stood on a ridge high in the Colorado Rockies looking down at a herd of grazing Elk, where one magnificent bull stood proudly at the edge of the meadow.
“We have to learn how to be as strong as that bull Elk! Are you kidding me, look at him. Two miniature trees are growing right out of the top of his head!”
I reflected on the power and force necessary to grow two huge antlers from the bones of his skull. Immense power. Where does that power come from? How is it possible that forty pounds of bone can shoot up into the sky from his head every year?
As the ancient sages did, we can observe Nature and learn how to live in alignment with the flow of life.
Science tells us that the bull Elk only mates for about one month in autumn each year, and then the other eleven months he conserves his seed and literally uses that energy to grow two huge antlers that rise from his head.
As men training to be mystic warriors in Quantum Merging, what can we learn from the bull Elk?
How about this?
Mate prolifically like the bull Elk in rut during a consciously chosen moment to co-create a child with your lover if and when that is your desire. Otherwise if you are choosing to be sexual but not procreate, make the extraordinary decision to hold your seed. Make the decision to only shoot your seed as a gift of your manly power to your feminine mate once a year, or perhaps at most during a few special occasions spread out over the duration of each year.
Choose the mystic warrior’s way of holding your semen while still making love with your mate as often as possible throughout each year, all the while building and cultivating your greatest power as a man.
Cultivate your seed like the bull Elk for most of each year, and grow your own antlers. Your ‘antlers’ are your strength, stamina, creativity, abundance, integrity, spirit and power as a man that rise up through you as you cultivate your seed and merge ecstatically with your mate in the way of the mystic warrior.
What if the truth of our human experience as men is that we are sexually designed to be very much like the bull Elk? What if we are inherently designed to procreate during a specific finite time period (when and if we want to consciously conceive a child) that is full of passion, testosterone and an abundance of semen, but otherwise conserve our precious seed for most of the rest of the year?
Men, what if the same organizing power of Nature that moves in a bull Elk is in our bones too?
What if we have had it all wrong as sexual men? What if we have been principally using sex for self-pleasure, stress release and occasional procreation, instead of as an extraordinary generative power that is actually meant to be retained, cultivated and harnessed within us?
Men, what would happen to our strength and power if we can learn to grow our own ‘antlers’ through the act of holding our seed for most of the year while still being profoundly sexual beings?
Of course our manly ‘antlers’ are not literal bones rising from our skulls, but are the visible expressions of the creative pursuits of an alpha male who has maximum life-force power available to him all year long.
As conscious men, we do not have to be celibate for eleven months like the bull Elk. If we embrace Quantum Merging we can be sexually intimate with our mate as often as we choose, throughout every season, all year long, once we learn to cultivate and hold our seed while we build our most magnificent manly power.
Think on these things.
Contemplate the power, balls and rack of the regal bull Elk.
Let’s cultivate our seed, embrace our lovers like magnificent mystic warriors and grow some fucking awesome antlers!
Building a Bridge from Earth to Heaven
By Varshana
Building a Bridge from Earth to Heaven
We all secretly know that Heaven is right here on Earth. All of us can recall a moment or several moments, days, weeks, months or even years where we felt absolute Joy and Bliss and nothing else. Yet why do these moments feel as if they are always fleeting? How can we bridge these moments together more and more? How can we experience and witness our very own Heaven on Earth?
Every time we wonder about life in these mysterious ways we allow our imagination to come up with ideas and answers about these kinds of questions. Contemplating these questions myself and building our very own Bridge to Heaven with my lover has led me to feel how we were never taught how to truly nourish and honor our own body, mind and spirit.
We were not taught how to breathe in the energy of the earth and sky around us, harnessing it’s life giving power in order to magnify our natural born radiant self. We were never taught to drink in the rays of the Holy Sun every morning as it rises, understanding it’s purifying benefits for our body, mind soul. We were never taught how to truly care for our bodies like as Temple. We were never taught how to sensually love and pleasure ourselves, and we were never taught how to merge with another human being for the great divine pleasure of the cosmos.
Because we were never taught these beautiful rituals that connect us to creation, we have lost site of Heaven that is infinitely around us at all times.
Yet fear not my human angels of love light, there is a way to find the Heaven that is always around us and it starts with Quantum Merging. Once you decide to awaken through the QM teachings and magnetize another being who resonates at your same soul signature, you can begin to practice the high art of Mystical Erotic Love. Then your life starts to feel like you are making love to everything. The Bridge that you build from Earth to Heaven with your sacred lover begins to reveal the miraculous world that surrounds you, reminding you that everything on Earth is making love to one another in some way, shape or form.
The wind is flirting with the trees, the sky is dancing with the clouds, the birds are singing ecstatic love songs, the bees are intoxicated from the flowers, the blossoms are drinking in the love of the sun, and so on. Once you awaken to these feelings of oneness with your lover and creation, you start to harness the dynamic energy that your bridge provides you.
This bridge that you create together through the passionate commitment of cultivating your profound Love, Desire, and Devotion for one another, will have the power to Heal your past wounds, Nourish your Heart and Soul, and to Awaken your True Self. This force will feel like ten thousand buffalos racing through the prairie. This dynamic energy will become a powerful engine that will rocket launch you and your lover into a feeling of oneness. This force of Quantum Merging with your lover will continually heal and awaken you both to higher states of consciousness. Each time you and your lover ride this mystic bridge to Heaven, you will bring back a special gift to earth. This gift becomes embedded into all that you are and all that you do, creating a heavenly healing experience of love for the Divine Pleasure of the Cosmos.
Will you build a bridge from Earth to Heaven, as my lover and I have? Will you love yourself so deeply and fully that you attract your same soul signature and together create a Dynamic Force of Quantum Merging that transforms this Earth into a Heavenly experience?
Only you can make this choice and when you do, Heaven will endlessly embrace you.
Divine King Divine Queen
by Nimbus and Varshana
Divine King Divine Queen
When we are fortunate to be drawn to our mystic mate from across the world, mysteriously coming together within an unstoppable, attractive, magnetic force-field of love, then our life is forever transformed from the first moment of that destined meeting.
Do you see? This star-crossed meeting is the epitome of a human lifetime. What is most important is not seeking and finding an idealized romantic connection, it is not sitting at a guru’s feet, it is not the fulfillment of great accomplishments in the eyes of the world. All of that may seem important until the moment we gaze into the equal eyes of the soul who matches our own soul, whose whole heart fills our whole heart and whose body awakens the thrill of a bliss beyond compare.
In that soul recognition, we no longer seek for our ‘other half,' longing for romance with a half-completed one who might fill our own half-empty void. We are no longer seeking to be enlightened by a guru who seems to have realized the spiritual magic that is missing from our own life. We even transcend the allure of success or fame that masks the fear of our own impending death.
In the first spontaneous sight and soul embrace with our destined love, we are stunned. In an instant our mind widens from ordinary to infinite, our heart expands to the edges of the galaxy and our body feels the promise of an ecstasy greater than anything we have ever known. In that split second shift from seeking to finding, our whole being is ignited. A spontaneous force of Eros springs forth from our own fullness, spilling into their own fullness. We realize that we are now two beings expanding limitlessly in a radiant field of consciousness that includes us and all existence within an infinite Universe that is eternally whole.
Such a destined love opens secret doors into the deepest chambers of our hearts. We recognize that something miraculous is happening. We perceive that we are two souls reunited, reborn and renewed in a new love that is freshly sacred, rejoicing in what was previously thought to be beyond possibility.
Oh beautiful ones, knowing that this is possible for you will set in motion a remembering that becomes a longing which turns into an unstoppable yearning and then an actuality and finally your own destiny.
Our birthright is Divine Love. We are each a soul who has come to planet earth to have many experiences and adventures where we love and lose and love again over and over during many lifetimes until we are softened and ripened sufficiently to be prepared for our destined love. How could it be otherwise?
We are all like pure gold originally forged in a primeval fire which has become defiled by the samskaras (Sanskrit for 'latent karmic tendencies shaping one's present life') created during our explorations within the world, requiring that we must be smelted once again in this lifetime by a fire sufficiently hot that we can be restored to our magnificent original shining nature.
Knowing this we bare our hearts bravely to love itself, willingly allowing ourselves to be awakened, opened and undone, to be wounded and healed again, until we are at last ready for the full sacred union with a being who matches our own unique soul signature.
Do you see? We are each meant to remember who we are, not just to commune with the Divine, but to be Divine. Each of us is one with the Prime Creator of all life. The fullness of the destiny of all our human lifetimes is to one day stand in our original stature with another being, as a Divine King with our Divine Queen!
Everything that occurs in our life prior to the realization of this highest kind of human intimacy is learning and preparation and purification by fire. Such is the serpentine path of the heart that ultimately leads to Divine Union.
How could something so great be realized otherwise? Without struggle, heartbreak and all the permutations of experience in earthly form we would not be ready for or recognize our Twin Soul even if he or she was standing right in front of us. If you are reading these words, perhaps this is the lifetime for such love to appear for you. Understanding this, you must ‘take heart’ and find the courage to continually open your vulnerable heart with the certainty that in this very lifetime you can move through your wounds to be touched by grace, striding boldly within the illumination that has all along been preparing you for your greatest love.
For each man contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a feminine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are her Divine King?
For each woman contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a masculine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are his Divine Queen?
Until now, this is the stuff of fairy tales and mythology. Most of the historical stories about ‘true love’ that have been passed down to us end tragically. Think of Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, and Eloise and Abelard. Through such stories inherited by the shared psyche of humanity we are told that it is futile to reach for something greater, that we should accept our lot and settle for whatever we get in life and love. We are told that reaching for something ‘sublime and Divine’ in love is fantasy and will always end badly.
The rusty anchor of this cultural curse of doomed love must be cast off in our generation and for all time. We must dare to reach for our highest love and sail free. Now is the time for us to create our own noble adventures and write stories of a new archetype of sacred love that ends exquisitely. We are the ones to do it!
Historically speaking, until recently marriage was solely about power, position and survival. Throughout history marriages were arranged and primarily about the continuation of the family line. Love rarely had anything to do with it until just a few generations ago. That is why the old stories handed down to us of true love ending tragically have been so deeply instilled in our collective awareness. Anyone who reached for a higher love was killed or banished from the kingdom. The perpetuation of such stories innocently told and read to us as children in each succeeding generation had the effect of keeping us all in line.
In the past, when the focus was on the family lineage, external appearances and putting food on the table, ‘love’ was seen as frivolous. At least in modern times if we want to birth and raise children within a stable family structure, we can look for someone who brings a blended form of meeting our needs for survival and sharing love in our decision-making process for choosing a mate.
Only when our primal survival needs are handled does our attention naturally begins to shift to feeling the innermost needs of our soul. It is then that we have the freedom to place the ideal of sacred love at the top of the pyramid of our life, allowing its magnetic force to guide the compass that leads us into our deepest heart’s desires.
Sacred love in its highest form between two human beings is what is known as ‘Heiros Gamos’, an ancient Greek word meaning Sacred Marriage, Holy Love, Divine Union. Since the days of the ancient Greek philosophers, within our collective human history we have rarely dared to contemplate the possibility of this kind of love in our own lives.
Quantum Merging speaks to this highest expression of love, desire and devotion that is now beginning to be lived in a new form by courageous men and women here and there all over the world. This ripple of the possibility and remembrance of Divine Union between human beings will soon become a great wave of awakening, because it is the next evolution of love on the planet.
Such sacred love begins with the idea of its possibility. We must first know that it is attainable, then dream it into life. In that recognition, the spark of potentiality begins to coalesce from our inner landscape of dreams and fantasy and then moves outwardly into our life. We begin to live with the certainty that this kind of love is our destiny, that it is our birthright if we will choose it and live our life as if it is so until it appears. The poetic words and ideas of Quantum Merging are meant to awaken our soul to remember who we are, to revive the possibility of Heiros Gamos for everyone who wants it, to remind us of what a human lifetime is really capable of being.
The stories and teachings of Quantum Merging are evocative. They touch a hidden place in our heart. They stir a remembrance of our greatness. They jar us to sit up taller, to breathe in the magnificence of our own Divinity. These stories and teachings of sacred love innocently began with one man and woman ~ Nimbus and Varshana ~ who moved beyond their own fears, guilt and doubt and dared to reach for their highest destiny. From that single spark of ignition, concentric waves of the vibration of Mystical Erotic Love are now surging forth around the globe to become the possibility for other men and women, men and men, and women and women who resonate with this offering.
Many of us alive now are fortunate to have our basic needs met, and because of this our soul is free to reach for our highest love and to express our Divine sexual nature any way we choose. The bodily expression of the precise ways that sacred love and desire can manifest for each one of us is fluid for the first time in human history.
Ponder the freedom of pure potentiality that we now hold in our collective psyche. There is still much resistance to it, but any unwillingness to accept this rising consciousness is the dying gasp of the old order. There is a new wave of freedom sweeping many of us all over the world to choose whatever way and with whomever we want to express our highest love and desire. We are the ones who can finally heal the division between Sex and Spirit. Q Merging is an unstoppable force because we all intuit that the freedom to reach for our highest love and desire in our own way is our birthright.
If this resonates with you, join the QM Tribe. As a Quantum Merger, stride boldly into your life. Be grateful for every moment of love you have ever shared with another being, even if they are no longer in your life. Honor your wounds and losses as the catalysts of your evolution. Reach for the highest mystical love and desire you can imagine. When you have found it, reach even higher with your Beloved until you are lost in the whirling wonder of oneness.
This bright flame of Divine love is your destiny, waiting closer than close in the space between each beating of your heart, waiting for you in the infinitesimal place of your deepest soul, waiting only for you to see it, remember it, and choose it.
So be it, blessed be.
The River Keepers
By Nimbus and Varshana