Happy, Healthy, and Horny
by Nimbus
Men: Bring Her Your Heart-On and Your Hard-On
by Nimbus
Men: Bring Her Your Heart On and Your Hard On
The ‘slow sex’ movement is the woman’s answer to the ‘slam-bam-thank-you-mam’ orientation in male sexuality.
The slow sex movement that includes ‘soft penetration’ was created to show a man how to slow down and become more senusal to fully appreciate and tend to his feminine lover.
But women who have opened in their sexual nature want men to bring them sex that is not only slow and soft. They want deep sex, which is a passionate fusion of all qualities, tempos and rhythms.
Awakened women are the feminine beings who are healing their emotional and sexual wounds to uncover their inherent erotic essense, which longs to bloom like a garden of fragrant flowers as she is being fully taken by her man.
Awakened men are the masculine beings who are doing the work required to be centered in their heart and embrace their woman in powerful sex with a ‘Heart On’ AND a ‘Hard On’.
‘Heart-On-and-Hard-On-As-One-Fusion’ is the dynamic process for men to bring as their gift of love to their open woman.
Any woman who has healed her sexual wounds does not want a man to put his limp, soft penis into the front edge of her vagina and only breathe energy together!
She wants to be Divinely Fucked!
She wants her man to clasp her to his vulnerable open heart and smithereen her with the force of his love and penetrate her with his hard strong cock!
She wants his Heart On AND his Hard On!
Awakened men are powerful beings, full of life, bringing it to their women with deep sex!
Slow sex, soft penetration while breathing together and eye gazing during tantric sex are all useful practices while transitioning from the macho-porn-induced-fast-sex-cum-as-soon-as-possible approach learned by most men.
But Quantum Merging is here to show a whole other way for men to have deep sex with their matching feminine mate.
Every healed woman dreams of a man who shows up with his heart full of love AND brings the sustained strength of his love to her through his hard, stiff, strong, sturdy, robust, powerful shaft of manly might!
Every healed woman wants to be Divinely Fucked into absolute ecstasy, expanded bliss and intoxicating happiness through PROLONGED mind-blowing sex with her man!
Awakened men bring this gift to their woman by learning to conserve and harness the atomic power of their seed (aka ‘Seed Retention’ and the conscious choice to only ejaculate occasionally during special moments with their lover).
Awakened men bring the full force of their desire to their woman by holding their seed and harnessing the power activated through retaining their seed, and then shooting that highly vibrating energy through their hard shaft into their lover for long periods of time!
Awakened men learn that the best sex is a process of holding their seed and building incredible strength and power by going to the ‘edge’ of ejaculation over and over, and continually shooting that power (instead of their seed) into their woman until she is utterly saturated with ecstasy!
These lucky women are then liberated from being their man’s ‘mutual masturbation partner’ and a feminine ‘cum receptacle’ for him to blow his wad into each time they have sex.
When a man retains his seed during sex, the woman feels that SHE is being made love to, not some fantasy he is projecting on to her. She feels that he is channeling his lust, horniness and programmed need to cum into a fire of desire that is directed to HER. She feels that he is dedicated to turning HER on and blasting her into the cosmos as a Rocketship of Bliss.
Awakened women want awakened men to bring them awakened sex: A Fusion of Heart On and Hard On through the fullness of Mytical Erotic Love.
A Mystical Life in a Mundane World
by Nimbus and Varshana
A Mystical Life in a Mundane World
Part One
Creating A World Within The World
Throughout time men and women awakening on the spiritual path have asked the same question: “How do I live a mystical life in a mundane world?"
This question is even more urgent and puzzling in today’s modern world. Though it has been asked in previous generations, human civilization now moves at an ever-increasing pace and operates within a coarse vibrational frequency that is for the most part anathema to a mystical life.
In order to live a mystical life in a mundane world ~ in our modern world that does not commonly honor or support an awakened way of being, thinking and acting ~ each man and woman who wants to walk the mystic’s path while being fully present in life must act in an entirely different manner than what is commonly taught and expected.
The first and most important task is to dedicate our energy and attention to attune to the light and consciousness that is the Source of all life in whatever way that we are each moved to do this. This can be any form of meditation, contemplation or consciousness practice, even something as simple as deep communion with nature or reverent beholding of the stars. Secondly, within that attunement and communion with the essence of our own being, we make a bold choice to live our daily life with an open heart. This is not an easy choice, because it opens us to both the appearance of miracles and the vulnerability in which our heart can be wounded. Third, within this lion-hearted choice of vulnerable attunement we make the giving and receiving of love our highest priority no matter what else is going on in the world around us.
This three-part choice is paradoxical, because living a mystical life in a mundane world appears in many ways to be impossible. This is why sensitive individuals in the past who felt inclined toward a mystical existence have historically retired from civilization to live in caves and monasteries as hermits and recluses. Such a choice no longer serves the evolution of human consciousness as it once did. Now is the time for men and women to embrace the mystical by standing strong in the midst of the fray and fashioning their own life as a bridge between earth and heaven.
The old way of mysticism was the solitary road, the monastic path, the way of abstinence, asceticism and secluded meditation in a faraway place separated from the world.
In addition to removing themselves from the world, spiritual seekers were also advised to search for an ‘enlightened’ Guru who held the promise of 'awakening' through unconditional surrender to him or her and committing their life to the practice of his or her teachings.
I, Nimbus, gave a large portion of my life to both of these pursuits and saw first hand the good, bad and ugly of these two paths. Out of the ashes of my attempts at awakening through the first path of prolonged solitude and asceticism (which lasted four years), and the second path of total surrender to a guru who I and many others presumed to be fully enlightened (which lasted fifteen years), I finally solved the spiritual riddle about these forms of seeking and discovered how to live awake in the midst of this perplexing world.
I, Varshana, was raised from birth in an ashram devoted to a world-renowned Guru and my early life was complete immersion in a daily cycle of guru devotion. As an adult I had to discover a completely different way to claim my own sovereignty, freedom and direct connection to Source. Before meeting Nimbus, he and I were each fiercely committed to finding a way to align with the blissful consciousness that pervades all of existence. Quantum Merging is our intimate confession of the discoveries we have made of how to live a mystical life in a mundane world.
Men and women today who aspire to live a mystical life in the midst of the world can make a different choice than asceticism or guru devotion. We have the opportunity to choose an orientation that is founded in embodied ecstasy rather than separation between the body and Spirit, or of trying to attain something that a guru has that you think you don’t. The modus operandi of this new opportunity is Quantum Merging, a free way of mystical erotic love available to all who will choose it.
In this way of embodied living we become modern-day magicians who conjure a different reality right before our eyes. We create a world within the world. We gradually and steadily refine and elevate our core vibration so that we may attract a matching mate and matching friends who resonate with the highest frequency of our soul. In our modern culture of disconnect this soul aligned join-up beyond ourself is an essential requirement for successfully living a mystical life in a mundane world. We can't any longer go it alone.
The next step of the conscious evolution of love calls us to sacred relationship. Inhering in our own unshakable connection to Source we attract a vibrationally-matching mate (and a tribe of others doing the same) to join us on a life-altering, mind-expanding, heart-widening, body-transforming journey of sacred love, holy sex and mutual devotion. We are being called to nothing less than becoming the next iteration of the human species, Homo Amore Luminosa, luminous beings of love. We are being inspired to create a life of love, desire and devotion expressed as Divine Union with another human being whose soul vibration matches ours. In this way we become the creators of our own reality within the greater Reality, conjuring a new world within the world.
The old ways are still available for those who are drawn to them, but Quantum Merging is a new way of awakening that is founded in mutual love, mutual passion and mutual honoring with another being who meets us fully in the heart. QM has emerged out of our own real life experiences. It is not another form of the ancient knowledge of Tantra, even though we have recalibrated and revitalized the essence of some of these older teachings for our modern times.
Nimbus and Varshana are not gurus or authorities to follow. We do not profess to be the next in line of an exalted lineage of gurus from an ancient spiritual path. In fact, we make no claims other than that we are sacred lovers sharing our experience with the hope that it might inspire others to have new conversations about love and sex and explore new ways of being.
Quantum Merging is simple and direct. Quantum Merging is a rebel teaching, guru-free, offering modern men and women an empowered spiritual practice. Quantum Merging is an invitation to walk a path of embodied ecstasy, a shared way of human/Divine love with another being. Quantum Merging is a body-positive, sex-positive, consciousness-positive way of being in the world. Quantum Merging is a call to create a noble life shared with another man or woman. Quantum Merging is an ecstatic way in which two-become-one through the blended attributes of mystical erotic love. Quantum Merging is a way in which sacred lovers co-create a radiant world within the world that becomes their primary reality.
Over millennia only a few spiritual teachers have lived among us to show human beings an example of how to blend human and Divine love. Most of our inherited religious and spiritual traditions have taught us that God is elsewhere, that 'we are not the body', that women and money are the cause of our downfall. This has created an almost irrevocable split between sex and Spirit, body and soul, and our natural link of humanity with Divinity.
Here and there throughout history a few spiritually awakened couples have appeared as ‘Archetypes of the Ecstatic’. Shiva and Shakti, Radha and Krishna, and Padmasambhava and Yeshe (many also feel that Jesus and Mary Magdalene should be included in this category) are examples of enlightened beings who were awake together, not separate, superior and alone in an exalted state.
In spite of centuries of suppression and denial by most religions and spiritual traditions, the purity of the spiritual awakening of these unique couples was expressed through the mystical sexual embrace with their Divine Beloved.
Why did each of these enlightened beings choose to express their spiritual realization together rather than alone, even if they may have originally awakened while secluded in some remote cave or monastery?
Each of these men and women made a bold decision that went against the tide of their time. They advocated for the masculine/feminine dynamic that pulses through all creation. They made the radical choice to demonstrate their spiritual realization through interwoven forms of meditation, service, ecstatic love and sacred sexuality with another being as a direct link to the heart of the Universe.
To this very day we refer to the fullness of spiritual realization as Shiva/Shakti or Radha/Krishna, because we intuitively know that truth harbors the dual attributes of Infinite Consciousness and the manifest Energies of Creation expressed through the Divine masculine and feminine forces forever merged as One in quantum entanglement. This is why the symbol of two entwined serpents rising together as one has always represented the fully awakened human being.
These historical couples who came together to form a Divine Union while alive in human form first did their own individual sadhana (spiritual practice) to forge a deep connection to the Infinite Consciousness which is the Source of all existence. But after awakening, these few unique men and women saw the non-necessity of continuing a life of solitary meditation that preceded that revelation. They saw that awakening was not a dry, reclusive accomplishment. Quite the opposite. Their hearts and minds were blown open with the vast force of love that pervades the cosmos! Their bodies were overflowing with radiance, longing to share that bliss with another similarly radiant being. Their awakening was the utter cessation of the illusion of separation and the merging of self into the One. In such an exalted state of ecstasy they left their desert cave or monastery and naturally magnetized their perfect energetic male or female complement, thereby discovering a revolutionary way in their time to live a mystical life in a mundane world.
None of these particular awakened men and women were ‘married couples’ as we tend to think of them. A better way to understand their intimacy would be to call it a Sacred Union, or Divine Marriage. Their intimate unions were expressions of their realization of love, not attempts to find love after realization.
These awakened couples did not have ‘sex’ as we commonly think of it. Their sexual unions were mystical mergings of enlightening ecstasy that fueled their awakened service in the world. For them sex was mystical Fire. For them sex was Bliss. For them sex was dissolution in the Isle of God.
Each of these archetypal couples understood the wisdom of regularly spending time apart from one another, but whenever they consciously chose to come together to clasp one another in the fire of their intimate embrace the ecstatic emanations of their mystical mergings reverberated throughout the Cosmos.
These sacred couples did not turn away from the body as if it was the cause of bondage and material illusion, but transformed it to become a vehicle of ecstasy, bliss and realization. Standing upon the shoulders of these awakened beings who have come before us, we too can now choose a contemporary way of mystical erotic love in our day and age that is similar in its effects. We are free to choose a fresh new way that fuses Sex and Spirit, Feminine and Masculine, and Humanity with Divinity.
Part Two
The Alchemy of Quantum Merging
What are the primary elements that make up Quantum Merging? How do we actually live this contemporary form of Divine Union through the practice of mystical erotic love?
Quantum Merging is a modern way of awakening, first within each individual heart and then through two hearts ignited. Each partner finds his or her own connection to Source, draws to themselves their supremely attractive and complementary mystic mate and then co-creates a new life together in the following five ways:
1) Mutual Love-Communion
The path of Quantum Merging is consciously chosen with another embodied soul who resonates at the same soul frequency, but who is energetically wired in an oppositely polarized manner. This sacred partnership can be man/woman, man/man or woman/woman as long as both partners live each day in such a manner that they are progressively transformed into living archetypes of the Divine Feminine and Masculine for each other. Their communion of love is vast and unconditional. They see one another as emanations of the Divine;
2) Mutual Cultivation of Ecstasy
QM utilizes unique energetic processes and practices which raise the luminous frequencies and subtle inner currents of energy of the human body into the highest vibrations of Love-Bliss. Basically we become kick-ass yogis and yoginis. Whether in yoga class or on our own mat at home, or dancing, or practicing chi kung, or working out in the gym, or moving outside in harmony with nature, the day to day cultivation of the highest possible energetic flows within us is what is primary. We offer our open body as a vessel that acts as a strong and flexible conduit of ecstasy with our partner, creating a direct line to the Divine;
3)Mutual Devotional Surrender
This is something almost unheard of in modern relationships. In Q Merging each pair of human Beloveds sees the ‘other’ as they are in truth ~ luminous, radiant and free. Each partner invites the other to merge beyond two-into-one, rather than relating through the traditional two-tiered dynamic of one above and one below that characterizes the traditional guru-disciple relationship, or the typically devotionless structure of romance and marriage;
4) Sacred Sexual Intimacy
In Quantum Merging holy sex is essential, but it does not sit at the top of the list of the five elements of a sacred union. Sacred sexual fusion is the engine that drives the vehicle of the relationship, but it does not exist as a practice by itself. When all the other elements are present in a Divine Union then sex transforms into a turbo-charged rocketship of ecstasy. Sacred Eros is the juice of each holy relationship, the rising sap of the tree of life that is the couple. The incredible power of the sacred erotic shared within their union is the fire that ignites all the rest;
5) Sacred Marriage
This is Heiros Gamos (Greek for 'holy marriage'), the Sacred union between each Mystic Bride and her Heart Husband, celebrated in deep connection with the elements of Nature and honored within the tribe of the world-wide community of fellow initiates of Quantum Merging. Heiros Gamos is the container that holds the elements of love, cultivation of ecstasy, devotional surrender and holy sex. The Divine Marriage is the magician's alchemical cauldron in which the lovers create a a vibrant new world of their own making within the world.
You might ask, "Even though I have done so much work on my own to evolve my consciousness, I still cannot find my matching mate to share a sacred life of love. How is it possible for any of us to find such a rare and uniquely compatible mystical lover to co-create such magic in this crazy world?"
The answer to that is to first know that it is possible, then desire it with all our heart, and finally to send forth our clear intention as if we are a lighthouse steadily beaming light into the cosmos. Do this and we will instantly expand beyond local mind into the One Consciousness which ~ amazingly ~ includes the conscious awareness of that special one whose heart strings perfectly fit into the receptive fibers of our own heart.
In this way, as we shapeshift out of ordinary thinking into the way of mystical beholding, we see our perfect male or female mate within our mind’s eye, inviting him or her to enter our heart’s inner chamber. Our intention becomes a super-powered magnet sending attractive waves through the world, and it will unfailingly draw them in. If we do this with unwavering conviction, while simultaneously taking action that brings us joy, the lover who is our perfect match at this time in our life will arrive. As said in the movie Field Of Dreams, "Build it and he will come". First we build our inner vision and then the outer manifestation will magnetize and match it. The secret is to begin from a place of fullness ~ the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness ~ and from that place of free awareness we call forth our dreams.
In Quantum Merging we discover how to move in this magical manner that is natural to the mystic. From the very first steps on this new journey everything begins to shift and is transformed in due time. Ordinary life ceases to draw the majority of our attention, until we eventually pass through a portal of transformation in which the three primary mystical qualities of love, desire and devotion effortlessly and steadily begin to arise within us and our lover.
What exactly are these three qualities that compose the triad of Quantum Merging?
First...Love
The expansion of holy love between the new-found souls who have been magnetized to each other allows a deep healing to begin from the very first moment of their mutual recognition. The sheer force of their mutually magnetic love and attraction shakes up the inertia of their old patterns. Their two open hearts expand exponentially as they merge into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness more and more, until ecstatic love becomes their primary reality even within the permutations of the mundane world that might have previously distracted them.
Second...Desire
It is an understatement to say that when this powerful magnetic sexual attraction draws each destined man and woman to one another, it acts similarly to the irresistible force of a Binary Star system! The two-become-one on this path of Quantum Merging (which may also be co-created between two men or two women if these same mystical qualities and powerful energetic polarities are awakened between them).
The dynamic force of sexual attraction generated between the mystic mates draws them beyond themselves, lighting them up through the ignition process of sacred passion. This Fire of Eros very quickly establishes a central channel of light to rise up between their bodies during every intimate embrace, ultimately becoming an awe-inspiring whirling Vortex and fireworks-fountain of Super Nova Ecstasies.
Third...Devotion
In Quantum Merging we honor each other's Luminous Nature, seeing through the highs and lows of the outer personality to view the other’s original soul form of light. Life becomes founded upon the sharing and co-creation of mutual trust, mutual surrender and mutual honoring in which the arts of mystical love and desire are spontaneously enacted as acts of worship with each other on a daily basis.
Throughout all the inevitable challenges that are part of life, within this trifecta of Divine Union the lovers choose to make each breath a mantra of love, they attune their heartbeats to echo the deep pulsing of the cosmic drum and they make it a priority to craft their actions as expressions of gratitude. If they stumble and fall, no worries, they get up and step right back into it. Quantum Merging is not about perfection, but about permission to be our highest and best through sacred intimacy with another being.
In these ways, the energies of love, desire, devotion, ecstasy, joy and bliss arise and subside as waves within the sea of love shared with the special being whose soul has been drawn to ours, the one whose heart, mind and body resonate at the same frequency as our own.
The Quantum Beloveds are set free to frolic, to merge deeper, wider and further without end, to co-create new forms of beauty in the world and to devote their ever-evolving energies of love as expressions of service and blessing to others in reverence with all life.
Part Three
Slow Down and Speed Up
Once you have come to this point on the Quantum Merging journey, your life becomes a celebration of the miracle of having found your matching soul partner to journey with you on the mystical erotic path of love. In order to fully and steadily live a mystical life in this mundane world your next task is deceptively simple ~ to simultaneously slow down and speed up.
What? How is that possible?
In order to co-create the conditions as a sacred couple that support a mystical way of being within the world, we must first slow down by choosing to step out of the frantic pace of modern life. This moves us closer to the rhythms of the earth and helps us to become sensitized to the light codes continuously beaming down upon us from the stars. As we begin to slow down in this way, we also paradoxically speed up in an entirely different manner.
We speed up not by moving frantically like the rest of humanity racing around us, but by increasing the velocity of the subtle currents of life-force in our physical form, and transforming our home and workspace into a high vibration in which we can fully live our sacred love. In Quantum Merging we slow down our pace of life, while simultaneously increasing the frequency and vibration of energy in our body and intimate environment until it is moving closer to the speed of light.
What is the favorite way for Quantum Mergers to slow down and speed up? We deliciously Divinely Fuck each other into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness as much as possible! This becomes the rudder that keeps us on course while we attend to all else that needs to be done in our lives.
We consciously slow down to be fully present in life while doing the best we can to turn the most ordinary tasks into actions that vibrate at the speed of love ~ even while working, picking up our kids from school, taking care of our home and land, shopping, cooking, cleaning, enjoying entertainments, being with friends, exercising, meditating, etc.
The QM form of slowing down is founded in a conscious choice to not put ourself into unnecessary, unhealthy, or chaotic circumstances if we don’t have to. For instance, why choose to watch a violent movie that stirs up a cascade of stress chemistry in our body? Why eat in a restaurant that does not prepare healthy food with a conscious vibration? Why spend more time than we have to in public places that are devoid of love or the nourishing elements of Nature?
To live a mystical life in a mundane world, we assess every choice by asking a simple question: Will this action serve the magnification of our sacred love? That is our barometer. With every new choice we decide if we want to slow down our response to life or speed up our ecstatic energy in love, or both.
In this way, we consciously choose the people, environments and activities that best serve our sacred connection to life, enhance our love and energize the subtle circuitry of our body. Conversely, we minimize our involvement with the people, environments and activities that do not support an ecstatic life. This is not done out of judgement, but with discernment. We walk through life holding a flower of love in front of our heart with one hand, while the other hand rests on the sword of discernment in the scabbard on our back. Love is our first impulse, and yet we are prepared to cut through illusion and dross whenever necessary. To the best of our ability we choose the highest and best from among the options in every moment, as if we are a honeybee zipping along among all the possible flowers in the garden, only selecting those with the flavor of nectar that resonates with us.
Living with our lover in this way we begin to feel deeply nourished. When we are moving slowly enough to listen, to feel and entrain with the pulsating electromagnetic rhythm of the 'heartbeat' of the earth, we can simultaneously speed up the energies in our body to be sensitive to and nourished by the subtle vibrations of cosmic rays streaming to earth.
The mundane world of the twenty-first century is moving with the kind of speed that is out of synch with the natural rhythms of nature and the harmonious electromagnetic pulsations of the earth and our stellar origins. Modern life is primarily powered by electricity moving through millions of miles of copper wire at speeds of 50-60 Hertz (in contrast to the 7.8 Hertz of the earth). Human beings are bombarded day and night with increasingly powerful microwaves, wi-fi, and cellular 4G and 5G frequencies operating at incredibly rapid and energetically jarring speeds.
If we think of humans as energetic ‘star beings’ temporarily housed during each lifetime in earthly bodies, we can see that every human being is infused with the radiant life force of the stars and yet also molded from the earth. While alive we inhabit a body created from the very same elements that make up the stars and the soil upon which we walk and the creatures who share our planet. We are enlivened by the very same forces that sustain life on earth and power our sun and the stars within our own galaxy and in all the distant inter-dimensional galaxies that comprise the entire Universe. It is scientific fact that our bodies, all living creatures and earth itself are primarily made of star dust.
(https://www.space.com/35276-humans-made-of-stardust-galaxy-life-elements.html)
Since this is the case, the precise ways of how each one of us needs to slow down and speed up to live a mystical life in a mundane world become clear. We discover our own way to step out of the furious pace of the world while simultaneously increasing the frequency of the vibration of life force and love within our own body and with our lover and our intimate environment. We let our body slow down in entrainment with the rhythms of the earth and allow our consciousness to expand to touch the stars. We care for Nature and tend to all the living beings who share life with us on earth. We become beauty-makers in all we do. We share mystical sex with our matching mate as our highest choice for as long as we have the erotic juice to merge body-to-body into light.
In Quantum Merging we prioritize our life and allow everything to revolve around the vibrating vortex of bliss co-created in our sacred union. In support of that primary choice, as often as possible we gaze at night toward the stars and moon to absorb their emanations through our eyes and the subtle sensors on our skin. We greet the golden sun at dawn to be nourished by its light through our eyes. And we rejoice with our bare feet upon the fertile soil of the living body of the earth. We play among the creatures of Nature. We embrace the trees. We light a sacred fire and let our body mingle with the elements of sun, rain, snow, wind, water and air.
In all these ways, we learn to bend time, to move at the paradoxically slow and fast pace of the mystic’s world within the world, to exist in harmony upon the fertile humus of earth as well in entrainment with the finely vibrating stellar forces that make up the substrata of all existence.
What happens when we do this?
Everything changes. Our mind easily expands into the consciousness in which all thoughts arise. Our eyes open with true seeing. Our heart widens in sync with the heart of the world. Shift happens. We delight as mystical lovers in a magical world co-created with our Beloved within the ordinary world. The Flower of Life reveals its secrets. The Lingam of Light rises strong. We see that everything is fantastically beautiful. All of life is extraordinary, even more amazing than its seems. Everything is part of the whole, expressing the radiance of the One.
Once we taste the magnificence of this free awareness of life, the multiplicity of all possible desires becomes simplified down to one: inhering as 'I Am Bliss'. Because we have discovered the secret of sex ~ that it opens us directly to the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness ~ we merge in sacred sexual union with our lover as often as we can.
The shared erotic ecstasy with our Beloved is our secret portal to Source. Through holy sex we expand beyond self into the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness. We build a new vortex of bliss in each act of Divine sexual union with our matching mate, and the Heiros Gamos is spontaneously accomplished. As we are lost in the sublimity of our erotic embrace, subtle secretions of ecstasy flood the brain and nervous system with natural DMT, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. Our chakras begin to spin so fast that they create a conduit to the stars. Secret chambers open within our heart and our mystical sight is unlocked.
All this just from sex? Oh yes, all this and more. Through Holy Sex in the shared ecstasy with our soul-resonant mate we become modern day mystics, frolicking among the filaments of light between our bodies and the fabric of the cosmos. We weave a luminescent tapestry of radiant Consciousness and resplendent Energy that creates our own unique form of the mystic's world within the world. Living within that alluring world we spontaneously sing our favorite mantra, 'I Am Bliss', again and again.
As lovers who are among the fortunate men and women who behold and honor the Great Weaver’s Creation in this way, our sacred embrace through mystical erotic love becomes the most auspicious choice we consistently make while alive in the shimmering world of our own making within the world.
As two-who-become-one we know beyond a shadow of a doubt that in our union of ecstasy we have plucked a pure diamond from among the stones and held it up to shine bright in the sun. For all the remaining days of our lives, in gratitude we live our sacred union one breath of love at a time until the dissolution of our earthly existence in the transition of death-into-light that lifts us all.
So be it, blessed be.
Liquid Light
by Nimbus and Varshana
Liquid Light
If you are part of the QM Tribe, you know that cultivating the male seed for long periods of time and building greater and greater power between you and your lover is a foundation practice for every man and his feminine partner.
This high art requires both the man and woman (or man and man; woman with woman builds a similar energy, but of course not by cultivating seed) to co-create a fusion of masculine and feminine energies. In this way the lovers initiate such a heightened state of enlightened awareness and a potent vortex of power that both are awakened to ever-expanding realizations of bliss as their relationship unfolds over time.
Since most men prior to Q Merging are already predisposed toward ejaculating their seed during most or all occasions of sexual intimacy (as well as in solo masturbation), learning the art of seed cultivation alone or with their partner is critical to the practice of Quantum Merging.
That being said, once the man either alone or with the help of his feminine mate in a partnership (female or male) has mastered the practice of seed retention and is reaping the benefits of sustained ‘Ecstatic Edging’ with increased health, vitality, clarity, love and strength, then it is time to begin to work with the dynamic balance of the optimum time for holding and the auspicious time for shooting the precious seed.
‘As Above, So Below’ is a fundamental axiom in Q Merging. Since the galaxies are infinitely expanding and contracting and expanding again, and all of nature is in a dynamic flux of birth, death and rebirth, we too as masculine lovers want to develop the artful ebb and flow of prolonged seed retention as well as how we offer our sacred seed on special occasions within the mystic dance of love with our lover.
For most of each yearly cycle, as Q Mergers we work to develop our capacity and skill with seed retention, learning the high art of prolonged Seed Cultivation through the practice of Ecstatic Edging. This builds increasingly greater power and energy in the solo man and especially through the atomic fusion where the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts co-created between the committed couple.
Alone, or with the help of our partner, each QM man gradually masters the first important phase of Seed Cultivation. The first phase is the ability to truly be present with his feminine mate with full sensuality, to make love with her and not a fantasized internal image of her, to develop the ability to stay hard for longer and longer periods of time by learning to alternately relax the pelvic muscles and contract the ‘Gate of Power’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy before emitting his seed, all along deeply nourishing and pleasuring his partner.
This initial learning phase leads towards the second tier of Ecstatic Edging, which is mastering the ability to not only stay hard for an hour or more in each dynamic occasion of intimacy, but to begin to hold the seed for many days, and eventually many weeks at a time. During this second phase each man will begin to notice many positive changes in his vitality, strength, mental clarity, health, fitness, business ability and sexual power.
Over time this leads into the third phase of Seed Cultivation in which the QM man masters the ability to merge with his Beloved for several hours at a time, day in and day out, and to hold his seed over the course of several or many months and even a year or more without releasing it in ejaculation.
Is this really safe and possible?
Yes. Mastering the third tier of Seed Cultivation is an extraordinary accomplishment. This evolutionary choice is life-changing to say the least for each man and his chosen Beloved.
It is during this third phase that Quantum Merging really reveals its magic. When the man has progressed to this level of holding his seed, he has developed his sacred sexual skills to such a point that he is free to fully attend to his lover without much attention to the mechanics of seed retention.
He becomes a badass mystical lover who can stay hard for hours without ejaculating, and regularly take his lover with the power of a thousand buffaloes thundering across the prairie. No passive eye gazing or soft tantric breathing exercises for him and his electrified lover! A third stage Seed Cultivator in Quantum Merging is a fucking gladiator of love, a true mystic warrior.
At this point, Seed Cultivation becomes an ecstatic dance of ebb and flow, rising and falling, waves cresting and drawing down, all the time renewing in an ever-expanding spiral of vigor, buoyancy and zest that carries the two Beloveds into one bliss beyond all techniques, all practices and all attention to the methods of sacred sex.
As you can imagine, this fulfillment of QM Seed Cultivation requires a fundamental change of the mind, heart and body of each man and his feminine partner.
In order to shift his mind, each man has to examine and change the conventional belief that men should ejaculate their seed in every occasion of sexual intimacy. Since puberty, he has been told that this is what manly men do. His doctor will most likely have told him he might get prostate cancer unless he empties his balls almost every day, even encouraging him to do private masturbation if his partner is not available. Yeah, and his bros tell him if he is stressed to just rub one out in the shower.
This is so old school. The power and strength that a man will develop within his prostate and all his organs with rightly-practised Seed Cultivation blows these errant theories out of the water. He will also ignite the higher chemistry of his brain, activating the ‘happiness hormones’ DOSE, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. On top of that the ‘ecstasy molecule’ DMT spontaneously releases during the heightened state of prolonged ecstatic edging in embrace with his lover.
As the man is developing his sexual power and building his energies to new heights his feminine partner might still believe that it is her duty to drain his balls with a blow job as often as possible even if they don’t have sex, or she will feel she has failed in her sexual role. His feminine mate has to examine and change the commonly-held belief that she has to ‘get her man off’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy in order to ‘keep him happy and not stray’. One old woman told a friend of ours, “The secret of keeping a man around is simple: Fill his belly and drain his balls. Every morning and every night. Then he won’t cheat on you”.
This is the opposite of QM. In Quantum Merging, the Love Goddess fills the belly of her Love God only two thirds full with nourishing food and champions him to retain his seed so he can Divinely fuck her day and night.
To shift his heart, each man has to learn to view his sexual energy as a gift of precious vitality, cultivating an ever-increasing power of life-force that magnifies the inner currents of his love so much that he can ‘shoot’ it into his lover through his Lingam (the Sanskrit word signifying ‘phallus of light’). His feminine partner likewise learns along with him to open in such a way that she seductively invites and fully receives his gift of light and power, and shines it back to him.
To shift his body, each man has to treat his own physical form and the seductive form of his lover as a sacred instrument of refined energy and light. Every great lover has to become a modern-day yogi. To be a rockstar lover each man has to become more open, more flexible, more aware of his body as a vehicle of love and light even as he keeps it strong and powerful. Strength training, high intensity interval training (HIIT) and yoga/chi kung/pranayama are the trifecta of physical cultivation for a man. A QM man hits the gym, rocks his sprints and gets on the yoga mat every damn day!
How can a man hope to transmute his own seed into an Elixir of Love ~ cultivating his seed to always be ready to shoot his lover full of light on a daily basis or one day to either consciously create a super-powered baby or to offer his potent seed as a gift of Liquid Light to his Beloved ~ unless he honors his and her mind, heart and body as a temple devoted to the high art of sacred living?
These shifts from old beliefs and habits to new understandings and choices of power in the life of any man are huge. Quantum in fact. These masculine Choices of Power establish the pillars of the complete way of Quantum Merging.
The foundation practice in QM is learning to retain and cultivate the seed and build power alone or with a lover. This is what we call ‘Ecstatic Edging’. ‘EE’ is basically the art of being brought to the edge of orgasmic ejaculation again and again for longer and longer periods of time, but not ending the solo or partner occasion with the usual release of the seed. You can learn and practice this alone with excellent benefits, and of course the greatest expression of it will be with your lover within the sacred container of your committed relationship.
As a couple, QM lovers create prolonged occasions of powerful intimacy where the man is so aroused by his feminine mate that he is taken again and again to the edge of ejaculation without crossing the line into release. Each man develops the capacity to allow states of heightened energy to circulate in his body without automatically releasing them. His feminine partner can freely choose to let go into super orgasmic bliss as he pleases her on and on, or join her lover in Ecstatic Edging where she approaches the edge of orgasm but stays on that exquisite precipice of ecstasy with him.
This practice of Ecstatic Edging is fun, exciting and challenging. At first, you might not be successful at staying hard for long periods without shooting, or to hold your seed for more than one or a few occasions of sacred solo masturbation or love making. Keep the practice light and playful, and just keep working with these new ideas and practices. As you embrace Q Merging, stay attentive to shifting all three parts of your being ~ your mind, your heart and your body ~ to align with this evolutionary leap of Seed Cultivation in Quantum Merging.
Once your solo or partner practice of Ecstatic Edging has progressed to the point where prolonged holding of your seed alone or merging with your lover is your fundamental way of being as a sexual man, then you are ready to contemplate the art of giving your liquid light as the most precious gift you can offer your Beloved.
Semen is not just a procreative substance to ensure the continuation of the species. When rightly understood and cultivated, semen becomes a precious elixir of the highest vibration of the Spirit and an extraordinary alchemical mixture of the combined inner love-infused chemistry of an awakened man.
It is said in the Taoist and Tantric traditions that one drop of semen is equal in energy to one thousand drops of blood. Semen is understood to hold the energy of the ‘original Spirit’ in every man. In fact, every time a man emits his semen, he is giving away a huge burst of his precious life-force. This is one reason why women traditionally outlive men, because men are unknowingly and gradually weakened from a lifetime of continuous seed emitting through masturbation and conventional sex. Semen when rightly cultivated in a healthy man literally becomes ‘liquid light’.
Once the man has mastered the basics of Q Merging and understood and cultivated his seed to this extent, then it is time to explore the most auspicious timing and occasional celebratory way to offer his lover the precious gift of his liquid light.
And that is a blog for another day.
Quantum Merging for Geeks
by Nimbus
Quantum Merging for Geeks
Quantum Merging is founded upon fundamental principles of electromagnetism. The movement of electrons across a positively- and negatively-charged magnetic field generates waves of energy as light and electricity. Human beings can harness this primal force as sexual energy to create an electromagnetic current so powerful that it instantly transports them into the Cosmic Source-Field in which all forms of energy arise. Here is the scientific explanation of how Quantum Merging works:
Generation of Electromagnetic Waves
(Source: http://xtide.ldeo.columbia.edu)
Electromagnetic waves are generated by moving electrons. An electron generates an electric field which we can visualize as lines radiating from the electron Figure 10a. If the electron moves, say it vibrates back and forth, then this motion will be transferred to the field lines and they will become wavy Figure 10b. In turn, the moving electron generates a magnetic field that will also become wavy from the motion of the electron. These combined electrical and magnetic waves reinforce one another. This kind of wave is called an electromagnetic wave and light is such a wave.
http://xtide.ldeo.columbia.edu/mpa/Clim-Wat/Climate/slides/electron.gif
Since all matter contains electrons and all these electrons are in motion, as are the atomic nuclei they spin around, all matter generates electromagnetic waves. Since all electromagnetic waves travel at the same speed (c) the frequency of the waves is determined by the frequency of the vibrating electrons that generate them. Hot substances have more energy and their component atoms vibrate more rapidly than those of cold bodies. Thus the peak energy radiated by hot bodies has a higher frequency, shorter wavelength, than that of cooler bodies. The relationship of the peak frequency of a black body to its absolute temperature is expressed by Wein's Law.
Wein's Law
lmax = a/T
a = 2989 if l is measured in microns
Electromagnetic (EM) radiation is emitted by all matter and consists of orthogonal electrical and magnetic waves. All EM travels at the same speed through a vacuum (186,000 miles per second or 300,000 kilometers per sec.). This radiation is generated by a moving charge or charges.
All matter consists of atoms in motion and these in turn consist of positively charged protons surrounded by a cloud of negatively charged electrons.
In QM understanding, the masculine energy consists of ‘positively-charged light protons’ accumulated through the process of seed cultivation and emitted through the Lingam of the man, where they interact with the ‘cloud of negatively-charged electrons’ generated by the receptive force of desire within the Yoni of the woman.
The vibrating motion of the atoms causes the cloud of electrons to oscillate and this oscillation generates electromagnetic radiation.
In QM understanding, as the masculine and feminine lovers begin to move (vibrate) in the dance of sacred love, the positively-charged protons emitted from the Lingam of the man as he holds his seed enters the cloud of negatively-charged electrons within the receptive Yoni of the woman, causing them to oscillate faster and naturally generate electromagnetic energy.
As this oscillating cloud of negatively-charged electrons within the womb of the woman is further activated by the excited movement of the positively- charged protons emitted by the man, the electromagnetic radiation between them increases exponentially!
This process instantly creates an electromagnetic Dynamo of epic proportions.
“A dynamo creates energy. It's short for "dynamoelectric machine," which is a generator that cranks out electric currents. If someone calls you a dynamo, don't get mad, it just means you're energetic. The word dynamo comes from the Greek dynamis for ‘power.’”
Dynamo - Dictionary Definition Vocabulary.com
In QM terms, this sexually-powered electromagnetic Dynamo generates a Vortex of Light that rises up between the positively- and negatively-charged bodies of the masculine and feminine lovers, instantly becoming a Superconductor* Connection to Source.
*Superconductors are materials that conduct electricity with no resistance. This means that, unlike the more familiar conductors such as copper or steel, a superconductor can carry a current indefinitely without losing any energy.
(Source: Superconductor Week)
In QM understanding, the body of the feminine partner literally becomes a Superconductor through her openness without resistance to the positively-charged masculine force of her lover. Because he builds his positive charge (rather than dissipating it through ejaculation), this permits the electromagnetic energy generated in their sexual play to increase in ever-expanding states of intensity within the Superconductor of her ecstatic body.
Since all electromagnetic radiation travels at the same velocity (which is the speed of light), the frequency and wavelength of the generated radiation depends on the frequency of the oscillating electron cloud.
Think about this: the electromagnetic radiation generated by the movement and attraction between the positively- and negatively-charged bodies of the QM lovers travels at the speed of light, which is 186,000 miles per second!
And the intensity of the ‘frequency and wavelength’ of the electromagnetic energy generated between the QM lovers is determined by the ‘frequency of the oscillating electron cloud’ activated in the woman’s Yoni.
In other words, in order to generate sufficient force to create a Super Nova explosion of ecstasy in the woman that is powerful enough to carry them into the Source Field of Bliss during the embrace of Quantum Merging, the male lover only needs master the art of holding his seed while emitting positively-charged protons into the negatively-charged electron cloud in the woman’s Yoni, and voila, the power builds within the superconductor of her body until she erupts as a Rocketship of Bliss that they both ride into the stratosphere!
As we love to say in Quantum Merging, the Dynamo takes you into the Stratosphere. Through the power generated in intimate union we ride the ‘Dyno into the Strato’!
Thus, on average, cool objects (say those at room temperature) generate long wavelength (low frequency) radiation, while hot objects (such as the sun) generate short wavelength (high frequency) radiation.
QM lovers activate highly vibrating erotic energy through the heat of their passion, and ‘high frequency radiation’ is naturally produced. In other words, when you’re hot you’re Hot.
All you mystic hot and mystic hard people out there, Quantum Merging is for everyone who wants to increase their energy, health, bliss and happiness.. even science geeks!
Happy QMing everyone.
New Translation
by Nimbus
New Translation
There is an old story that goes like this.
Two religious scholars were studying an ancient text which influenced several other religions that were prominent two thousand years ago.
“Oh my God”, one of the scholars gasped as he looked up in astonishment from the old parchment he was peering at with a magnifying glass. “I think I just found a colossal mistake in the earliest manuscript of this period that influenced all the religious and spiritual teachings that followed!”
His fellow scholar looked over at his old friend and asked, “Tell me, what is this huge grammatical mistake you feel is so important? What could you have found at this late date that no one else has ever previously discovered?”
The elderly scholar hand trembled as he pointed to the mis-translated word.
“Here it is!”
The two scholars gazed upon the word... ‘celibate’.
Both scholars could clearly see that it had been mis-translated.
The word in its proper context in the ancient manuscript was meant to read, “Human beings should ‘celebrate’”, not “be ‘celibate’“ as it had been translated.
Think for a moment of the profound difference between the word ‘celebrate’ and ‘celibate’.
As the story goes, one grammatical error passed down through the ages led to centuries of religious and spiritual suppression of the natural energy of sex and diverted humanity from the inherent joy of the celebration of life as free sexual beings.
Let’s reverse the importance of these two words and bring ecstatic sacred sexual celebration back to the forefront of human experience.
Quantum Merging is the joyful celebration of our birthright as free sexual beings forever connected to our Divine Source.
The High Art of Quantum Merging
by Nimbus and Varshana
The High Art Of Quantum Merging
1) Quantum Merging is the Alchemical Erotic Art of Transforming Two-into-One
Two embodied beings who are attracted through the power of their magnetic erotic energy transmute into One Radiant Field of Ecstatic Love
2) Quantum Merging is the metamorphosis of two ordinary human bodies into a single temple where the sacred lovers worship the Divine
Within the sacred place of their merging, the masculine and feminine lovers gift each other with ecstatic offerings of Mystical Erotic Love
3) Quantum Merging is learning to cultivate the sacred seeds of man through the art of holding, harnessing and building his sexual life-force energy.
The feminine partner becomes the sacred seed tender, awakening the masculine to new states of ecstatic bliss. Rarely letting the man explode, she skillfully works with the rising energy to help them both attain deeper states of transcendent bliss, ultimately leading to awakenings of higher realizations of love.
4) Quantum Merging is opening the deepest chambers of the women’s mind, body and heart through the sacred garden of her Yoni, inviting her lover to launch her ecstatic being into the stratosphere of blissful pleasure.
In this way she endlessly unfolds her being to become the most fragrant open flower you have ever held in your arms of love.
5) Quantum Merging is living with a fierce commitment to make choices in your life that support the highest and the best for you and your lover.
Life is a series of choices. All decisions are placed in the cauldron of the shared love, desire and devotion of the two lovers, and the highest and best way for all is easily revealed.
6) Quantum Merging is choosing love ~ no matter what arises.
This is the foundation of a sacred life of mystical erotic love within a world that tends to gravitate toward the mundane and profane. You and your lover bring heaven to earth.
7) Quantum Merging is developing a deep discernment and understanding about the truth of every situation that comes your way.
The ecstasy of the frequent merging of the matching mates creates a field of consciousness that makes it natural to embrace every experience as a gift that inspires, challenges or heals us, raising our frequency to a higher soul expression of existence.
8) Quantum Merging is the realization that in every meeting and merging with your lover you come fully prepared to love and be loved, to stand in your strength, to reside in your highest self fully surrendered to the moment.
The lovers learn to stay in the dance of their love without bringing the busy mind, the past or the future into the present moment with one another.
9) Quantum Merging is fun, Divinely fucking our way into Bliss!
Come frolic with your bliss mate and revel in the natural state of oneness with all life.
So be it, blessed be.
Building a Bridge from Earth to Heaven
By Varshana
Building a Bridge from Earth to Heaven
We all secretly know that Heaven is right here on Earth. All of us can recall a moment or several moments, days, weeks, months or even years where we felt absolute Joy and Bliss and nothing else. Yet why do these moments feel as if they are always fleeting? How can we bridge these moments together more and more? How can we experience and witness our very own Heaven on Earth?
Every time we wonder about life in these mysterious ways we allow our imagination to come up with ideas and answers about these kinds of questions. Contemplating these questions myself and building our very own Bridge to Heaven with my lover has led me to feel how we were never taught how to truly nourish and honor our own body, mind and spirit.
We were not taught how to breathe in the energy of the earth and sky around us, harnessing it’s life giving power in order to magnify our natural born radiant self. We were never taught to drink in the rays of the Holy Sun every morning as it rises, understanding it’s purifying benefits for our body, mind soul. We were never taught how to truly care for our bodies like as Temple. We were never taught how to sensually love and pleasure ourselves, and we were never taught how to merge with another human being for the great divine pleasure of the cosmos.
Because we were never taught these beautiful rituals that connect us to creation, we have lost site of Heaven that is infinitely around us at all times.
Yet fear not my human angels of love light, there is a way to find the Heaven that is always around us and it starts with Quantum Merging. Once you decide to awaken through the QM teachings and magnetize another being who resonates at your same soul signature, you can begin to practice the high art of Mystical Erotic Love. Then your life starts to feel like you are making love to everything. The Bridge that you build from Earth to Heaven with your sacred lover begins to reveal the miraculous world that surrounds you, reminding you that everything on Earth is making love to one another in some way, shape or form.
The wind is flirting with the trees, the sky is dancing with the clouds, the birds are singing ecstatic love songs, the bees are intoxicated from the flowers, the blossoms are drinking in the love of the sun, and so on. Once you awaken to these feelings of oneness with your lover and creation, you start to harness the dynamic energy that your bridge provides you.
This bridge that you create together through the passionate commitment of cultivating your profound Love, Desire, and Devotion for one another, will have the power to Heal your past wounds, Nourish your Heart and Soul, and to Awaken your True Self. This force will feel like ten thousand buffalos racing through the prairie. This dynamic energy will become a powerful engine that will rocket launch you and your lover into a feeling of oneness. This force of Quantum Merging with your lover will continually heal and awaken you both to higher states of consciousness. Each time you and your lover ride this mystic bridge to Heaven, you will bring back a special gift to earth. This gift becomes embedded into all that you are and all that you do, creating a heavenly healing experience of love for the Divine Pleasure of the Cosmos.
Will you build a bridge from Earth to Heaven, as my lover and I have? Will you love yourself so deeply and fully that you attract your same soul signature and together create a Dynamic Force of Quantum Merging that transforms this Earth into a Heavenly experience?
Only you can make this choice and when you do, Heaven will endlessly embrace you.
The River Keepers
By Nimbus and Varshana