If you are part of the QM Tribe, you know that cultivating the male seed for long periods of time and building greater and greater power between you and your lover is a foundation practice for every man and his feminine partner.
This high art requires both the man and woman (or man and man; woman with woman builds a similar energy, but of course not by cultivating seed) to co-create a fusion of masculine and feminine energies. In this way the lovers initiate such a heightened state of enlightened awareness and a potent vortex of power that both are awakened to ever-expanding realizations of bliss as their relationship unfolds over time.
Since most men prior to Q Merging are already predisposed toward ejaculating their seed during most or all occasions of sexual intimacy (as well as in solo masturbation), learning the art of seed cultivation alone or with their partner is critical to the practice of Quantum Merging.
That being said, once the man either alone or with the help of his feminine mate in a partnership (female or male) has mastered the practice of seed retention and is reaping the benefits of sustained ‘Ecstatic Edging’ with increased health, vitality, clarity, love and strength, then it is time to begin to work with the dynamic balance of the optimum time for holding and the auspicious time for shooting the precious seed.
‘As Above, So Below’ is a fundamental axiom in Q Merging. Since the galaxies are infinitely expanding and contracting and expanding again, and all of nature is in a dynamic flux of birth, death and rebirth, we too as masculine lovers want to develop the artful ebb and flow of prolonged seed retention as well as how we offer our sacred seed on special occasions within the mystic dance of love with our lover.
For most of each yearly cycle, as Q Mergers we work to develop our capacity and skill with seed retention, learning the high art of prolonged Seed Cultivation through the practice of Ecstatic Edging. This builds increasingly greater power and energy in the solo man and especially through the atomic fusion where the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts co-created between the committed couple.
Alone, or with the help of our partner, each QM man gradually masters the first important phase of Seed Cultivation. The first phase is the ability to truly be present with his feminine mate with full sensuality, to make love with her and not a fantasized internal image of her, to develop the ability to stay hard for longer and longer periods of time by learning to alternately relax the pelvic muscles and contract the ‘Gate of Power’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy before emitting his seed, all along deeply nourishing and pleasuring his partner.
This initial learning phase leads towards the second tier of Ecstatic Edging, which is mastering the ability to not only stay hard for an hour or more in each dynamic occasion of intimacy, but to begin to hold the seed for many days, and eventually many weeks at a time. During this second phase each man will begin to notice many positive changes in his vitality, strength, mental clarity, health, fitness, business ability and sexual power.
Over time this leads into the third phase of Seed Cultivation in which the QM man masters the ability to merge with his Beloved for several hours at a time, day in and day out, and to hold his seed over the course of several or many months and even a year or more without releasing it in ejaculation.
Is this really safe and possible?
Yes. Mastering the third tier of Seed Cultivation is an extraordinary accomplishment. This evolutionary choice is life-changing to say the least for each man and his chosen Beloved.
It is during this third phase that Quantum Merging really reveals its magic. When the man has progressed to this level of holding his seed, he has developed his sacred sexual skills to such a point that he is free to fully attend to his lover without much attention to the mechanics of seed retention.
He becomes a badass mystical lover who can stay hard for hours without ejaculating, and regularly take his lover with the power of a thousand buffaloes thundering across the prairie. No passive eye gazing or soft tantric breathing exercises for him and his electrified lover! A third stage Seed Cultivator in Quantum Merging is a fucking gladiator of love, a true mystic warrior.
At this point, Seed Cultivation becomes an ecstatic dance of ebb and flow, rising and falling, waves cresting and drawing down, all the time renewing in an ever-expanding spiral of vigor, buoyancy and zest that carries the two Beloveds into one bliss beyond all techniques, all practices and all attention to the methods of sacred sex.
As you can imagine, this fulfillment of QM Seed Cultivation requires a fundamental change of the mind, heart and body of each man and his feminine partner.
In order to shift his mind, each man has to examine and change the conventional belief that men should ejaculate their seed in every occasion of sexual intimacy. Since puberty, he has been told that this is what manly men do. His doctor will most likely have told him he might get prostate cancer unless he empties his balls almost every day, even encouraging him to do private masturbation if his partner is not available. Yeah, and his bros tell him if he is stressed to just rub one out in the shower.
This is so old school. The power and strength that a man will develop within his prostate and all his organs with rightly-practised Seed Cultivation blows these errant theories out of the water. He will also ignite the higher chemistry of his brain, activating the ‘happiness hormones’ DOSE, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. On top of that the ‘ecstasy molecule’ DMT spontaneously releases during the heightened state of prolonged ecstatic edging in embrace with his lover.
As the man is developing his sexual power and building his energies to new heights his feminine partner might still believe that it is her duty to drain his balls with a blow job as often as possible even if they don’t have sex, or she will feel she has failed in her sexual role. His feminine mate has to examine and change the commonly-held belief that she has to ‘get her man off’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy in order to ‘keep him happy and not stray’. One old woman told a friend of ours, “The secret of keeping a man around is simple: Fill his belly and drain his balls. Every morning and every night. Then he won’t cheat on you”.
This is the opposite of QM. In Quantum Merging, the Love Goddess fills the belly of her Love God only two thirds full with nourishing food and champions him to retain his seed so he can Divinely fuck her day and night.
To shift his heart, each man has to learn to view his sexual energy as a gift of precious vitality, cultivating an ever-increasing power of life-force that magnifies the inner currents of his love so much that he can ‘shoot’ it into his lover through his Lingam (the Sanskrit word signifying ‘phallus of light’). His feminine partner likewise learns along with him to open in such a way that she seductively invites and fully receives his gift of light and power, and shines it back to him.
To shift his body, each man has to treat his own physical form and the seductive form of his lover as a sacred instrument of refined energy and light. Every great lover has to become a modern-day yogi. To be a rockstar lover each man has to become more open, more flexible, more aware of his body as a vehicle of love and light even as he keeps it strong and powerful. Strength training, high intensity interval training (HIIT) and yoga/chi kung/pranayama are the trifecta of physical cultivation for a man. A QM man hits the gym, rocks his sprints and gets on the yoga mat every damn day!
How can a man hope to transmute his own seed into an Elixir of Love ~ cultivating his seed to always be ready to shoot his lover full of light on a daily basis or one day to either consciously create a super-powered baby or to offer his potent seed as a gift of Liquid Light to his Beloved ~ unless he honors his and her mind, heart and body as a temple devoted to the high art of sacred living?
These shifts from old beliefs and habits to new understandings and choices of power in the life of any man are huge. Quantum in fact. These masculine Choices of Power establish the pillars of the complete way of Quantum Merging.
The foundation practice in QM is learning to retain and cultivate the seed and build power alone or with a lover. This is what we call ‘Ecstatic Edging’. ‘EE’ is basically the art of being brought to the edge of orgasmic ejaculation again and again for longer and longer periods of time, but not ending the solo or partner occasion with the usual release of the seed. You can learn and practice this alone with excellent benefits, and of course the greatest expression of it will be with your lover within the sacred container of your committed relationship.
As a couple, QM lovers create prolonged occasions of powerful intimacy where the man is so aroused by his feminine mate that he is taken again and again to the edge of ejaculation without crossing the line into release. Each man develops the capacity to allow states of heightened energy to circulate in his body without automatically releasing them. His feminine partner can freely choose to let go into super orgasmic bliss as he pleases her on and on, or join her lover in Ecstatic Edging where she approaches the edge of orgasm but stays on that exquisite precipice of ecstasy with him.
This practice of Ecstatic Edging is fun, exciting and challenging. At first, you might not be successful at staying hard for long periods without shooting, or to hold your seed for more than one or a few occasions of sacred solo masturbation or love making. Keep the practice light and playful, and just keep working with these new ideas and practices. As you embrace Q Merging, stay attentive to shifting all three parts of your being ~ your mind, your heart and your body ~ to align with this evolutionary leap of Seed Cultivation in Quantum Merging.
Once your solo or partner practice of Ecstatic Edging has progressed to the point where prolonged holding of your seed alone or merging with your lover is your fundamental way of being as a sexual man, then you are ready to contemplate the art of giving your liquid light as the most precious gift you can offer your Beloved.
Semen is not just a procreative substance to ensure the continuation of the species. When rightly understood and cultivated, semen becomes a precious elixir of the highest vibration of the Spirit and an extraordinary alchemical mixture of the combined inner love-infused chemistry of an awakened man.
It is said in the Taoist and Tantric traditions that one drop of semen is equal in energy to one thousand drops of blood. Semen is understood to hold the energy of the ‘original Spirit’ in every man. In fact, every time a man emits his semen, he is giving away a huge burst of his precious life-force. This is one reason why women traditionally outlive men, because men are unknowingly and gradually weakened from a lifetime of continuous seed emitting through masturbation and conventional sex. Semen when rightly cultivated in a healthy man literally becomes ‘liquid light’.
Once the man has mastered the basics of Q Merging and understood and cultivated his seed to this extent, then it is time to explore the most auspicious timing and occasional celebratory way to offer his lover the precious gift of his liquid light.
