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Men: Bring Her Your Heart On and Your Hard On

The ‘slow sex’ movement is the woman’s answer to the ‘slam-bam-thank-you-mam’ orientation in male sexuality.

The slow sex movement that includes ‘soft penetration’ was created to show a man how to slow down and become more senusal to fully appreciate and tend to his feminine lover.

But women who have opened in their sexual nature want men to bring them sex that is not only slow and soft. They want deep sex, which is a passionate fusion of all qualities, tempos and rhythms.

Awakened women are the feminine beings who are healing their emotional and sexual wounds to uncover their inherent erotic essense, which longs to bloom like a garden of fragrant flowers as she is being fully taken by her man.

Awakened men are the masculine beings who are doing the work required to be centered in their heart and embrace their woman in powerful sex with a ‘Heart On’ AND a ‘Hard On’.

‘Heart-On-and-Hard-On-As-One-Fusion’ is the dynamic process for men to bring as their gift of love to their open woman.

Any woman who has healed her sexual wounds does not want a man to put his limp, soft penis into the front edge of her vagina and only breathe energy together!

She wants to be Divinely Fucked!

She wants her man to clasp her to his vulnerable open heart and smithereen her with the force of his love and penetrate her with his hard strong cock!

She wants his Heart On AND his Hard On!

Awakened men are powerful beings, full of life, bringing it to their women with deep sex!

Slow sex, soft penetration while breathing together and eye gazing during tantric sex are all useful practices while transitioning from the macho-porn-induced-fast-sex-cum-as-soon-as-possible approach learned by most men.

But Quantum Merging is here to show a whole other way for men to have deep sex with their matching feminine mate.

Every healed woman dreams of a man who shows up with his heart full of love AND brings the sustained strength of his love to her through his hard, stiff, strong, sturdy, robust, powerful shaft of manly might!

Every healed woman wants to be Divinely Fucked into absolute ecstasy, expanded bliss and intoxicating happiness through PROLONGED mind-blowing sex with her man!

Awakened men bring this gift to their woman by learning to conserve and harness the atomic power of their seed (aka ‘Seed Retention’ and the conscious choice to only ejaculate occasionally during special moments with their lover).

Awakened men bring the full force of their desire to their woman by holding their seed and harnessing the power activated through retaining their seed, and then shooting that highly vibrating energy through their hard shaft into their lover for long periods of time!

Awakened men learn that the best sex is a process of holding their seed and building incredible strength and power by going to the ‘edge’ of ejaculation over and over, and continually shooting that power (instead of their seed) into their woman until she is utterly saturated with ecstasy!

These lucky women are then liberated from being their man’s ‘mutual masturbation partner’ and a feminine ‘cum receptacle’ for him to blow his wad into each time they have sex.

When a man retains his seed during sex, the woman feels that SHE is being made love to, not some fantasy he is projecting on to her. She feels that he is channeling his lust, horniness and programmed need to cum into a fire of desire that is directed to HER. She feels that he is dedicated to turning HER on and blasting her into the cosmos as a Rocketship of Bliss.

Awakened women want awakened men to bring them awakened sex: A Fusion of Heart On and Hard On through the fullness of Mytical Erotic Love.

Liquid Light

Liquid Light

If you are part of the QM Tribe, you know that cultivating the male seed for long periods of time and building greater and greater power between you and your lover is a foundation practice for every man and his feminine partner.

This high art requires both the man and woman (or man and man; woman with woman builds a similar energy, but of course not by cultivating seed) to co-create a fusion of masculine and feminine energies. In this way the lovers initiate such a heightened state of enlightened awareness and a potent vortex of power that both are awakened to ever-expanding realizations of bliss as their relationship unfolds over time.

Since most men prior to Q Merging are already predisposed toward ejaculating their seed during most or all occasions of sexual intimacy (as well as in solo masturbation), learning the art of seed cultivation alone or with their partner is critical to the practice of Quantum Merging.

That being said, once the man either alone or with the help of his feminine mate in a partnership (female or male) has mastered the practice of seed retention and is reaping the benefits of sustained ‘Ecstatic Edging’ with increased health, vitality, clarity, love and strength, then it is time to begin to work with the dynamic balance of the optimum time for holding and the auspicious time for shooting the precious seed.

‘As Above, So Below’ is a fundamental axiom in Q Merging. Since the galaxies are infinitely expanding and contracting and expanding again, and all of nature is in a dynamic flux of birth, death and rebirth, we too as masculine lovers want to develop the artful ebb and flow of prolonged seed retention as well as how we offer our sacred seed on special occasions within the mystic dance of love with our lover.

For most of each yearly cycle, as Q Mergers we work to develop our capacity and skill with seed retention, learning the high art of prolonged Seed Cultivation through the practice of Ecstatic Edging. This builds increasingly greater power and energy in the solo man and especially through the atomic fusion where the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts co-created between the committed couple.

Alone, or with the help of our partner, each QM man gradually masters the first important phase of Seed Cultivation. The first phase is the ability to truly be present with his feminine mate with full sensuality, to make love with her and not a fantasized internal image of her, to develop the ability to stay hard for longer and longer periods of time by learning to alternately relax the pelvic muscles and contract the ‘Gate of Power’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy before emitting his seed, all along deeply nourishing and pleasuring his partner.

This initial learning phase leads towards the second tier of Ecstatic Edging, which is mastering the ability to not only stay hard for an hour or more in each dynamic occasion of intimacy, but to begin to hold the seed for many days, and eventually many weeks at a time. During this second phase each man will begin to notice many positive changes in his vitality, strength, mental clarity, health, fitness, business ability and sexual power.

Over time this leads into the third phase of Seed Cultivation in which the QM man masters the ability to merge with his Beloved for several hours at a time, day in and day out, and to hold his seed over the course of several or many months and even a year or more without releasing it in ejaculation.

Is this really safe and possible?

Yes. Mastering the third tier of Seed Cultivation is an extraordinary accomplishment. This evolutionary choice is life-changing to say the least for each man and his chosen Beloved.

It is during this third phase that Quantum Merging really reveals its magic. When the man has progressed to this level of holding his seed, he has developed his sacred sexual skills to such a point that he is free to fully attend to his lover without much attention to the mechanics of seed retention.

He becomes a badass mystical lover who can stay hard for hours without ejaculating, and regularly take his lover with the power of a thousand buffaloes thundering across the prairie. No passive eye gazing or soft tantric breathing exercises for him and his electrified lover! A third stage Seed Cultivator in Quantum Merging is a fucking gladiator of love, a true mystic warrior.

At this point, Seed Cultivation becomes an ecstatic dance of ebb and flow, rising and falling, waves cresting and drawing down, all the time renewing in an ever-expanding spiral of vigor, buoyancy and zest that carries the two Beloveds into one bliss beyond all techniques, all practices and all attention to the methods of sacred sex.

As you can imagine, this fulfillment of QM Seed Cultivation requires a fundamental change of the mind, heart and body of each man and his feminine partner.

In order to shift his mind, each man has to examine and change the conventional belief that men should ejaculate their seed in every occasion of sexual intimacy. Since puberty, he has been told that this is what manly men do. His doctor will most likely have told him he might get prostate cancer unless he empties his balls almost every day, even encouraging him to do private masturbation if his partner is not available. Yeah, and his bros tell him if he is stressed to just rub one out in the shower.

This is so old school. The power and strength that a man will develop within his prostate and all his organs with rightly-practised Seed Cultivation blows these errant theories out of the water. He will also ignite the higher chemistry of his brain, activating the ‘happiness hormones’ DOSE, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. On top of that the ‘ecstasy molecule’ DMT spontaneously releases during the heightened state of prolonged ecstatic edging in embrace with his lover.

As the man is developing his sexual power and building his energies to new heights his feminine partner might still believe that it is her duty to drain his balls with a blow job as often as possible even if they don’t have sex, or she will feel she has failed in her sexual role. His feminine mate has to examine and change the commonly-held belief that she has to ‘get her man off’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy in order to ‘keep him happy and not stray’. One old woman told a friend of ours, “The secret of keeping a man around is simple: Fill his belly and drain his balls. Every morning and every night. Then he won’t cheat on you”.

This is the opposite of QM. In Quantum Merging, the Love Goddess fills the belly of her Love God only two thirds full with nourishing food and champions him to retain his seed so he can Divinely fuck her day and night.

To shift his heart, each man has to learn to view his sexual energy as a gift of precious vitality, cultivating an ever-increasing power of life-force that magnifies the inner currents of his love so much that he can ‘shoot’ it into his lover through his Lingam (the Sanskrit word signifying ‘phallus of light’). His feminine partner likewise learns along with him to open in such a way that she seductively invites and fully receives his gift of light and power, and shines it back to him.

To shift his body, each man has to treat his own physical form and the seductive form of his lover as a sacred instrument of refined energy and light. Every great lover has to become a modern-day yogi. To be a rockstar lover each man has to become more open, more flexible, more aware of his body as a vehicle of love and light even as he keeps it strong and powerful. Strength training, high intensity interval training (HIIT) and yoga/chi kung/pranayama are the trifecta of physical cultivation for a man. A QM man hits the gym, rocks his sprints and gets on the yoga mat every damn day!

How can a man hope to transmute his own seed into an Elixir of Love ~ cultivating his seed to always be ready to shoot his lover full of light on a daily basis or one day to either consciously create a super-powered baby or to offer his potent seed as a gift of Liquid Light to his Beloved ~ unless he honors his and her mind, heart and body as a temple devoted to the high art of sacred living?

These shifts from old beliefs and habits to new understandings and choices of power in the life of any man are huge. Quantum in fact. These masculine Choices of Power establish the pillars of the complete way of Quantum Merging.

The foundation practice in QM is learning to retain and cultivate the seed and build power alone or with a lover. This is what we call ‘Ecstatic Edging’. ‘EE’ is basically the art of being brought to the edge of orgasmic ejaculation again and again for longer and longer periods of time, but not ending the solo or partner occasion with the usual release of the seed. You can learn and practice this alone with excellent benefits, and of course the greatest expression of it will be with your lover within the sacred container of your committed relationship.

As a couple, QM lovers create prolonged occasions of powerful intimacy where the man is so aroused by his feminine mate that he is taken again and again to the edge of ejaculation without crossing the line into release. Each man develops the capacity to allow states of heightened energy to circulate in his body without automatically releasing them. His feminine partner can freely choose to let go into super orgasmic bliss as he pleases her on and on, or join her lover in Ecstatic Edging where she approaches the edge of orgasm but stays on that exquisite precipice of ecstasy with him.

This practice of Ecstatic Edging is fun, exciting and challenging. At first, you might not be successful at staying hard for long periods without shooting, or to hold your seed for more than one or a few occasions of sacred solo masturbation or love making. Keep the practice light and playful, and just keep working with these new ideas and practices. As you embrace Q Merging, stay attentive to shifting all three parts of your being ~ your mind, your heart and your body ~ to align with this evolutionary leap of Seed Cultivation in Quantum Merging.

Once your solo or partner practice of Ecstatic Edging has progressed to the point where prolonged holding of your seed alone or merging with your lover is your fundamental way of being as a sexual man, then you are ready to contemplate the art of giving your liquid light as the most precious gift you can offer your Beloved.

Semen is not just a procreative substance to ensure the continuation of the species. When rightly understood and cultivated, semen becomes a precious elixir of the highest vibration of the Spirit and an extraordinary alchemical mixture of the combined inner love-infused chemistry of an awakened man.

It is said in the Taoist and Tantric traditions that one drop of semen is equal in energy to one thousand drops of blood. Semen is understood to hold the energy of the ‘original Spirit’ in every man. In fact, every time a man emits his semen, he is giving away a huge burst of his precious life-force. This is one reason why women traditionally outlive men, because men are unknowingly and gradually weakened from a lifetime of continuous seed emitting through masturbation and conventional sex. Semen when rightly cultivated in a healthy man literally becomes ‘liquid light’.

Once the man has mastered the basics of Q Merging and understood and cultivated his seed to this extent, then it is time to explore the most auspicious timing and occasional celebratory way to offer his lover the precious gift of his liquid light.

And that is a blog for another day.

New Translation

There is an old story that goes like this.

Two religious scholars were studying an ancient text which influenced several other religions that were prominent two thousand years ago.

“Oh my God”, one of the scholars gasped as he looked up in astonishment from the old parchment he was peering at with a magnifying glass. “I think I just found a colossal mistake in the earliest manuscript of this period that influenced all the religious and spiritual teachings that followed!”

His fellow scholar looked over at his old friend and asked, “Tell me, what is this huge grammatical mistake you feel is so important? What could you have found at this late date that no one else has ever previously discovered?”

The elderly scholar hand trembled as he pointed to the mis-translated word.

“Here it is!”

The two scholars gazed upon the word... ‘celibate’.

Both scholars could clearly see that it had been mis-translated.

The word in its proper context in the ancient manuscript was meant to read, “Human beings should ‘celebrate’”, not “be ‘celibate’“ as it had been translated.

Think for a moment of the profound difference between the word ‘celebrate’ and ‘celibate’.

As the story goes, one grammatical error passed down through the ages led to centuries of religious and spiritual suppression of the natural energy of sex and diverted humanity from the inherent joy of the celebration of life as free sexual beings.

Let’s reverse the importance of these two words and bring ecstatic sacred sexual celebration back to the forefront of human experience.

Quantum Merging is the joyful celebration of our birthright as free sexual beings forever connected to our Divine Source.

Quantum Merging Mechanics for Men

Quantum Merging Mechanics For Men: A New Strategy For Sexual Mastery

Okay men, here is some straight up talk about how you can transform your sexual energy to be the alpha male of your business, to be the master of your life, and to be the Love God in the bedroom that your mate has always dreamed of.

This natural ability to be an alpha male, a master of life and a Love God is wired inside the DNA of your own body. But it is buried deep and it is easy to miss. All that is necessary is to learn of its existence and then adopt effective strategies that harness and magnify the extraordinary power of your sexual energies.

As men our sexuality is still mired in the Stone Age. We are still relating to our own cock and using it to have sex just like the cave men who are our ancestors from ten thousand years ago.

We don’t push heavy objects around anymore by using logs to roll them from one place to another. We don’t use spears to hunt for our food. We don’t any longer live in caves. And yet we still have sex like our Stone Age predecessors.

WTF?

Seriously, it is the Twenty First century and yet we still go out hunting for our woman like a Neanderthal. When we find her we give a show of strength and prowess and try to convince her to come back to our cave where we copulate for a few minutes before rolling over with a grunt and falling asleep. Next day, get up, kill a Wooly Mammoth and repeat.

It is time for a new sexual strategy. This might have worked for Cro-Magnon man, but it is an ill-suited approach for modern men with our present-day Goddesses.

Modern Goddesses are not looking for a grunting caveman. They are looking for a Love God. They want a lover who can take them into the ecstasy of infinity.

Master your sexual energies and you will discover the ability to be the powerful Love God your woman desires. Brief conquest and copulation is a thing of the past. A modern Love Goddess wants her man to love her, honor her and fuck her into ecstasy for as long as she wants, becoming stronger every time you merge. Learn this one thing and all else in your life will be transformed.

The High Art of Quantum Merging

The High Art Of Quantum Merging

1) Quantum Merging is the Alchemical Erotic Art of Transforming Two-into-One

Two embodied beings who are attracted through the power of their magnetic erotic energy transmute into One Radiant Field of Ecstatic Love

2) Quantum Merging is the metamorphosis of two ordinary human bodies into a single temple where the sacred lovers worship the Divine

Within the sacred place of their merging, the masculine and feminine lovers gift each other with ecstatic offerings of Mystical Erotic Love

3) Quantum Merging is learning to cultivate the sacred seeds of man through the art of holding, harnessing and building his sexual life-force energy.

The feminine partner becomes the sacred seed tender, awakening the masculine to new states of ecstatic bliss. Rarely letting the man explode, she skillfully works with the rising energy to help them both attain deeper states of transcendent bliss, ultimately leading to awakenings of higher realizations of love.

4) Quantum Merging is opening the deepest chambers of the women’s mind, body and heart through the sacred garden of her Yoni, inviting her lover to launch her ecstatic being into the stratosphere of blissful pleasure.

In this way she endlessly unfolds her being to become the most fragrant open ﬂower you have ever held in your arms of love.

5) Quantum Merging is living with a ﬁerce commitment to make choices in your life that support the highest and the best for you and your lover.

Life is a series of choices. All decisions are placed in the cauldron of the shared love, desire and devotion of the two lovers, and the highest and best way for all is easily revealed.

6) Quantum Merging is choosing love ~ no matter what arises.

This is the foundation of a sacred life of mystical erotic love within a world that tends to gravitate toward the mundane and profane. You and your lover bring heaven to earth.

7) Quantum Merging is developing a deep discernment and understanding about the truth of every situation that comes your way.

The ecstasy of the frequent merging of the matching mates creates a field of consciousness that makes it natural to embrace every experience as a gift that inspires, challenges or heals us, raising our frequency to a higher soul expression of existence.

8) Quantum Merging is the realization that in every meeting and merging with your lover you come fully prepared to love and be loved, to stand in your strength, to reside in your highest self fully surrendered to the moment.

The lovers learn to stay in the dance of their love without bringing the busy mind, the past or the future into the present moment with one another.

9) Quantum Merging is fun, Divinely fucking our way into Bliss!

Come frolic with your bliss mate and revel in the natural state of oneness with all life.

So be it, blessed be.

A Way of Freedom

Quantum Merging is founded upon the principle of freedom.

Each soul is free before birth, free during life and free after death.

Each soul is free to choose, experience and live in any way its consciousness desires while alive on Earth.

Quantum Merging inspires each soul to claim this freedom, including the choice of the highest possible expression of sexual ecstasy.

Each soul is always free to expand its consciousness, free to try things out and free to attract other souls into its orbit in order to experience the intricacies of love and desire.

Each soul is free to rise and fall in love and desire as many times as necessary in order to find another soul who matches its soul signature.

Quantum Merging is one of these ways of freedom expressed as Mystical Erotic Love with another embodied soul.

Quantum Merging is a soulful way to Oneness shared with another being through sexual ecstasy raised to its highest frequency.

Quantum Merging is a great power, a light, a bliss, a joy, a love that brightens the world wherever it appears.

Men, Be as Strong as a Bull Elk

Men, Be As Strong As A Bull Elk

“We have to grow some fucking antlers like him!”

I shouted this to my two male friends as we stood on a ridge high in the Colorado Rockies looking down at a herd of grazing Elk, where one magnificent bull stood proudly at the edge of the meadow.

“We have to learn how to be as strong as that bull Elk! Are you kidding me, look at him. Two miniature trees are growing right out of the top of his head!”

I reflected on the power and force necessary to grow two huge antlers from the bones of his skull. Immense power. Where does that power come from? How is it possible that forty pounds of bone can shoot up into the sky from his head every year?

As the ancient sages did, we can observe Nature and learn how to live in alignment with the flow of life.

Science tells us that the bull Elk only mates for about one month in autumn each year, and then the other eleven months he conserves his seed and literally uses that energy to grow two huge antlers that rise from his head.

As men training to be mystic warriors in Quantum Merging, what can we learn from the bull Elk?

How about this?

Mate prolifically like the bull Elk in rut during a consciously chosen moment to co-create a child with your lover if and when that is your desire. Otherwise if you are choosing to be sexual but not procreate, make the extraordinary decision to hold your seed. Make the decision to only shoot your seed as a gift of your manly power to your feminine mate once a year, or perhaps at most during a few special occasions spread out over the duration of each year.

Choose the mystic warrior’s way of holding your semen while still making love with your mate as often as possible throughout each year, all the while building and cultivating your greatest power as a man.

Cultivate your seed like the bull Elk for most of each year, and grow your own antlers. Your ‘antlers’ are your strength, stamina, creativity, abundance, integrity, spirit and power as a man that rise up through you as you cultivate your seed and merge ecstatically with your mate in the way of the mystic warrior.

What if the truth of our human experience as men is that we are sexually designed to be very much like the bull Elk? What if we are inherently designed to procreate during a specific finite time period (when and if we want to consciously conceive a child) that is full of passion, testosterone and an abundance of semen, but otherwise conserve our precious seed for most of the rest of the year?

Men, what if the same organizing power of Nature that moves in a bull Elk is in our bones too?

What if we have had it all wrong as sexual men? What if we have been principally using sex for self-pleasure, stress release and occasional procreation, instead of as an extraordinary generative power that is actually meant to be retained, cultivated and harnessed within us?

Men, what would happen to our strength and power if we can learn to grow our own ‘antlers’ through the act of holding our seed for most of the year while still being profoundly sexual beings?

Of course our manly ‘antlers’ are not literal bones rising from our skulls, but are the visible expressions of the creative pursuits of an alpha male who has maximum life-force power available to him all year long.

As conscious men, we do not have to be celibate for eleven months like the bull Elk. If we embrace Quantum Merging we can be sexually intimate with our mate as often as we choose, throughout every season, all year long, once we learn to cultivate and hold our seed while we build our most magnificent manly power.

Think on these things.

Contemplate the power, balls and rack of the regal bull Elk.

Let’s cultivate our seed, embrace our lovers like magnificent mystic warriors and grow some fucking awesome antlers!

We all secretly know that Heaven is right here on Earth. All of us can recall a moment or several moments, days, weeks, months or even years where we felt absolute Joy and Bliss and nothing else. Yet why do these moments feel as if they are always fleeting? How can we bridge these moments together more and more? How can we experience and witness our very own Heaven on Earth?

Every time we wonder about life in these mysterious ways we allow our imagination to come up with ideas and answers about these kinds of questions. Contemplating these questions myself and building our very own Bridge to Heaven with my lover has led me to feel how we were never taught how to truly nourish and honor our own body, mind and spirit.

We were not taught how to breathe in the energy of the earth and sky around us, harnessing it’s life giving power in order to magnify our natural born radiant self. We were never taught to drink in the rays of the Holy Sun every morning as it rises, understanding it’s purifying benefits for our body, mind soul. We were never taught how to truly care for our bodies like as Temple. We were never taught how to sensually love and pleasure ourselves, and we were never taught how to merge with another human being for the great divine pleasure of the cosmos.

Because we were never taught these beautiful rituals that connect us to creation, we have lost site of Heaven that is infinitely around us at all times.

Yet fear not my human angels of love light, there is a way to find the Heaven that is always around us and it starts with Quantum Merging. Once you decide to awaken through the QM teachings and magnetize another being who resonates at your same soul signature, you can begin to practice the high art of Mystical Erotic Love. Then your life starts to feel like you are making love to everything. The Bridge that you build from Earth to Heaven with your sacred lover begins to reveal the miraculous world that surrounds you, reminding you that everything on Earth is making love to one another in some way, shape or form.

The wind is flirting with the trees, the sky is dancing with the clouds, the birds are singing ecstatic love songs, the bees are intoxicated from the flowers, the blossoms are drinking in the love of the sun, and so on. Once you awaken to these feelings of oneness with your lover and creation, you start to harness the dynamic energy that your bridge provides you.

This bridge that you create together through the passionate commitment of cultivating your profound Love, Desire, and Devotion for one another, will have the power to Heal your past wounds, Nourish your Heart and Soul, and to Awaken your True Self. This force will feel like ten thousand buffalos racing through the prairie. This dynamic energy will become a powerful engine that will rocket launch you and your lover into a feeling of oneness. This force of Quantum Merging with your lover will continually heal and awaken you both to higher states of consciousness. Each time you and your lover ride this mystic bridge to Heaven, you will bring back a special gift to earth. This gift becomes embedded into all that you are and all that you do, creating a heavenly healing experience of love for the Divine Pleasure of the Cosmos.

Will you build a bridge from Earth to Heaven, as my lover and I have? Will you love yourself so deeply and fully that you attract your same soul signature and together create a Dynamic Force of Quantum Merging that transforms this Earth into a Heavenly experience?

Only you can make this choice and when you do, Heaven will endlessly embrace you.

Divine King Divine Queen

When we are fortunate to be drawn to our mystic mate from across the world, mysteriously coming together within an unstoppable, attractive, magnetic force-field of love, then our life is forever transformed from the first moment of that destined meeting.

Do you see? This star-crossed meeting is the epitome of a human lifetime. What is most important is not seeking and finding an idealized romantic connection, it is not sitting at a guru’s feet, it is not the fulfillment of great accomplishments in the eyes of the world. All of that may seem important until the moment we gaze into the equal eyes of the soul who matches our own soul, whose whole heart fills our whole heart and whose body awakens the thrill of a bliss beyond compare.

In that soul recognition, we no longer seek for our ‘other half,' longing for romance with a half-completed one who might fill our own half-empty void. We are no longer seeking to be enlightened by a guru who seems to have realized the spiritual magic that is missing from our own life. We even transcend the allure of success or fame that masks the fear of our own impending death.

In the first spontaneous sight and soul embrace with our destined love, we are stunned. In an instant our mind widens from ordinary to infinite, our heart expands to the edges of the galaxy and our body feels the promise of an ecstasy greater than anything we have ever known. In that split second shift from seeking to finding, our whole being is ignited. A spontaneous force of Eros springs forth from our own fullness, spilling into their own fullness. We realize that we are now two beings expanding limitlessly in a radiant field of consciousness that includes us and all existence within an infinite Universe that is eternally whole.

Such a destined love opens secret doors into the deepest chambers of our hearts. We recognize that something miraculous is happening. We perceive that we are two souls reunited, reborn and renewed in a new love that is freshly sacred, rejoicing in what was previously thought to be beyond possibility.

Oh beautiful ones, knowing that this is possible for you will set in motion a remembering that becomes a longing which turns into an unstoppable yearning and then an actuality and finally your own destiny.

Our birthright is Divine Love. We are each a soul who has come to planet earth to have many experiences and adventures where we love and lose and love again over and over during many lifetimes until we are softened and ripened sufficiently to be prepared for our destined love. How could it be otherwise?

We are all like pure gold originally forged in a primeval fire which has become defiled by the samskaras (Sanskrit for 'latent karmic tendencies shaping one's present life') created during our explorations within the world, requiring that we must be smelted once again in this lifetime by a fire sufficiently hot that we can be restored to our magnificent original shining nature.

Knowing this we bare our hearts bravely to love itself, willingly allowing ourselves to be awakened, opened and undone, to be wounded and healed again, until we are at last ready for the full sacred union with a being who matches our own unique soul signature.

Do you see? We are each meant to remember who we are, not just to commune with the Divine, but to be Divine. Each of us is one with the Prime Creator of all life. The fullness of the destiny of all our human lifetimes is to one day stand in our original stature with another being, as a Divine King with our Divine Queen!

Everything that occurs in our life prior to the realization of this highest kind of human intimacy is learning and preparation and purification by fire. Such is the serpentine path of the heart that ultimately leads to Divine Union.

How could something so great be realized otherwise? Without struggle, heartbreak and all the permutations of experience in earthly form we would not be ready for or recognize our Twin Soul even if he or she was standing right in front of us. If you are reading these words, perhaps this is the lifetime for such love to appear for you. Understanding this, you must ‘take heart’ and find the courage to continually open your vulnerable heart with the certainty that in this very lifetime you can move through your wounds to be touched by grace, striding boldly within the illumination that has all along been preparing you for your greatest love.

For each man contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a feminine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are her Divine King?

For each woman contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a masculine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are his Divine Queen?

Until now, this is the stuff of fairy tales and mythology. Most of the historical stories about ‘true love’ that have been passed down to us end tragically. Think of Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, and Eloise and Abelard. Through such stories inherited by the shared psyche of humanity we are told that it is futile to reach for something greater, that we should accept our lot and settle for whatever we get in life and love. We are told that reaching for something ‘sublime and Divine’ in love is fantasy and will always end badly.

The rusty anchor of this cultural curse of doomed love must be cast off in our generation and for all time. We must dare to reach for our highest love and sail free. Now is the time for us to create our own noble adventures and write stories of a new archetype of sacred love that ends exquisitely. We are the ones to do it!

Historically speaking, until recently marriage was solely about power, position and survival. Throughout history marriages were arranged and primarily about the continuation of the family line. Love rarely had anything to do with it until just a few generations ago. That is why the old stories handed down to us of true love ending tragically have been so deeply instilled in our collective awareness. Anyone who reached for a higher love was killed or banished from the kingdom. The perpetuation of such stories innocently told and read to us as children in each succeeding generation had the effect of keeping us all in line.

In the past, when the focus was on the family lineage, external appearances and putting food on the table, ‘love’ was seen as frivolous. At least in modern times if we want to birth and raise children within a stable family structure, we can look for someone who brings a blended form of meeting our needs for survival and sharing love in our decision-making process for choosing a mate.

Only when our primal survival needs are handled does our attention naturally begins to shift to feeling the innermost needs of our soul. It is then that we have the freedom to place the ideal of sacred love at the top of the pyramid of our life, allowing its magnetic force to guide the compass that leads us into our deepest heart’s desires.

Sacred love in its highest form between two human beings is what is known as ‘Heiros Gamos’, an ancient Greek word meaning Sacred Marriage, Holy Love, Divine Union. Since the days of the ancient Greek philosophers, within our collective human history we have rarely dared to contemplate the possibility of this kind of love in our own lives.

Quantum Merging speaks to this highest expression of love, desire and devotion that is now beginning to be lived in a new form by courageous men and women here and there all over the world. This ripple of the possibility and remembrance of Divine Union between human beings will soon become a great wave of awakening, because it is the next evolution of love on the planet.

Such sacred love begins with the idea of its possibility. We must first know that it is attainable, then dream it into life. In that recognition, the spark of potentiality begins to coalesce from our inner landscape of dreams and fantasy and then moves outwardly into our life. We begin to live with the certainty that this kind of love is our destiny, that it is our birthright if we will choose it and live our life as if it is so until it appears. The poetic words and ideas of Quantum Merging are meant to awaken our soul to remember who we are, to revive the possibility of Heiros Gamos for everyone who wants it, to remind us of what a human lifetime is really capable of being.

The stories and teachings of Quantum Merging are evocative. They touch a hidden place in our heart. They stir a remembrance of our greatness. They jar us to sit up taller, to breathe in the magnificence of our own Divinity. These stories and teachings of sacred love innocently began with one man and woman ~ Nimbus and Varshana ~ who moved beyond their own fears, guilt and doubt and dared to reach for their highest destiny. From that single spark of ignition, concentric waves of the vibration of Mystical Erotic Love are now surging forth around the globe to become the possibility for other men and women, men and men, and women and women who resonate with this offering.

Many of us alive now are fortunate to have our basic needs met, and because of this our soul is free to reach for our highest love and to express our Divine sexual nature any way we choose. The bodily expression of the precise ways that sacred love and desire can manifest for each one of us is fluid for the first time in human history.

Ponder the freedom of pure potentiality that we now hold in our collective psyche. There is still much resistance to it, but any unwillingness to accept this rising consciousness is the dying gasp of the old order. There is a new wave of freedom sweeping many of us all over the world to choose whatever way and with whomever we want to express our highest love and desire. We are the ones who can finally heal the division between Sex and Spirit. Q Merging is an unstoppable force because we all intuit that the freedom to reach for our highest love and desire in our own way is our birthright.

If this resonates with you, join the QM Tribe. As a Quantum Merger, stride boldly into your life. Be grateful for every moment of love you have ever shared with another being, even if they are no longer in your life. Honor your wounds and losses as the catalysts of your evolution. Reach for the highest mystical love and desire you can imagine. When you have found it, reach even higher with your Beloved until you are lost in the whirling wonder of oneness.

This bright flame of Divine love is your destiny, waiting closer than close in the space between each beating of your heart, waiting for you in the infinitesimal place of your deepest soul, waiting only for you to see it, remember it, and choose it.

So be it, blessed be.

The River Keepers

Our Universe is extraordinary

arising within the greater cosmic Multiverse

intricate and expansive beyond our wildest dreams

It is far greater than just its physical displays

of star creation, black holes, magnetic explosions

of light and the wonders of life on Earth

Woven within the fabric of all matter and energy

in our visible Universe is a less visible world

holding secrets which require a mystical understanding

to gain access to their hidden treasures

Within our multi-vibrational Universe

there exist ‘rivers of energy’

~ Stellar, Earthly and Human ~

which act as magnetic conduits

connecting the galactic light of infinite space,

humanity and all life on earth

within the One Infinite Consciousness

in which all beings and things inhere

The existence of these rivers of energy

can only be verified by those who have pierced

the veil of separation between matter and Spirit

They are accessible to the poets, the dancers,

the shamans, the sacred lovers, the mystics, the wizards of science

These rivers of energy reveal their secrets shyly

through the poet’s prose, the dancer’s moves,

the shaman’s portal, the lover’s touch,

the mystic’s meditation

and the awe-struck scientist’s reveries

The searching mind must drop into the feeling heart

before our eyes can truly see such mysteries

Because of this

the secrets of these rivers of energy

and many other secrets beyond them

have remained hidden from

most of humanity since the dawn of creation

Now is the time for many to wake up

Now is the time to lift the veil

Now is the time for many to see

The first of these rivers of pure energy originate

in the unfathomably vast expanse of cosmic stardust

They are the ‘star rivers’

found within every galaxy,

including the one named for us

by the ancients as the ‘Milky Way’

These star rivers flow ceaselessly

in the form of magnetic conduits

between the spiraling nebulae of whirling suns

and the attracted orbits of the planets

and silvery moons which perpetually spin

toward and around them

These rivers of stars are so dense

that they appear to be like heavenly roads

which the ancients used to ‘walk’

with the imagination and longing of their souls

They understood that the lights streaming

from the physical stars were conduits of energy

connecting different quadrants of the Universe,

as well as acting as carriers of information

in the form of light and vibrational frequencies

which could tune the delicate higher structures

of our human brain and nervous system

and all life on this planet

The second of these rivers of energy are the pure crystalline springs

that emerge from deep within the earth

They are the energetic currents

found only within pure springs

that activate larger streams and rivers

which used to be found everywhere across the earth,

but that are now becoming increasingly rare

These rivers born of clear spring water

from deep within the earth untouched by humankind

contain a pristine energy filled with ionic minerals

carrying magnetic crystalline

molecules which further help to balance

the electromagnetic field of the earth

These spring-fed rivers are vessels of the purest water

flowing upward and outward in a spiraling surge

from deep within the earth,

clear living water in its natural state

rich with magnetized minerals

suspended in their purest liquid form,

bubbling upward in red rock canyons

winding beneath the twisted roots of great tall trees

quietly nourishing the heart of Gaia

and any of its diverse living

creatures fortunate enough to

drink or immerse in its liquid light

These spring-fed rivers are

conduits of liquid light

carrying invisible spiraling currents of subtle energy

which are vital to the health of the earth

and all its living inhabitants

The third of these rivers of energy

are the currents of life force and light

that flow when activated through powerful sexual energy between the bodies

of awakened men and women

These rivers of light in human beings follow the same dynamics of magnetic

attraction that operate within the cosmic star rivers above us

and the spring-fed rivers of the earth below us

‘As above, So below’

These third kinds of rivers are subtle currents of light

generated two by two between a soul-matched man and woman

(or man with man or woman with woman)

who are highly polarized within a force field

of super-powered electromagnetism

that surges between their bodies,

generating the same energetic attraction as the

gigantic galactic pinwheels of whirling starlight

and the spiralling flow of pure mineral springs

bubbling up from deep within the earth

This third kind of energetic river in human beings issues forth

from the ecstatic merging of sacred lovers

who are a resonant match at every level of their being with one another

through the elements of Spirit, Eros and Love,

and when powerfully attractive whirling polarities

are simultaneously present

as an irresistible magnetic flow

between their entwined bodies, hearts and minds

These rivers of energy within such awakened humans

are currents of subtle light

that flow spontaneously from

the bodily convergence of the sacred lovers

who have awakened to the realization

that they are in fact One,

even as they are simultaneously entangled

in a dynamic dance of oppositely-charged

electromagnetic resonance through

their shared sexual ecstasy

Such soul-matched lovers

are always connected, always one

with the heavenly dimensions of the Cosmos

and the beautiful manifestations of Nature

woven miraculously within the magnetic merging of their sexual fusion

Masculine and feminine lovers

who have realized the truth

‘As above, So below’

through their ecstatic communion

become a twin-spiralled living alchemy

in harmony with cosmic starlight

and the magnetic liquid light of Gaia

within their own blissful co-creation

of sacred sexual union

These awestruck lovers realize that the super-powered magnetized attraction of

their love and passion is a direct mirroring of the cosmic and earthly emanations

being enacted in every moment and happening at every level

of every dimension of existence

This third river of energy

is a conduit of a remarkably refined frequency that has rarely

been acknowledged in humanity’s study of the laws of physics

It is a spiraling positive and negative charge

that manifests as a combined masculine and feminine force rising between the

bodies of sacred lovers

When the dual polarity between the lovers is strong and the prerequisites of

love, desire and devotion are auspiciously awakened in both,

a spark of light flashes between their magnetized bodies

that is identical in energetic frequency to the

mysterious spark of life that ignites the heartbeat of a growing fetus

This spontaneous ignition causes currents

of subtle energy to flow strong and deep between the sacred lovers,

generating an electromagnetic force field so powerful

that it triggers a river of eros to flow continuously between them

This cosmic spark ignites an energetic fire

within and between their bodies

which in turn causes a serpentine energetic river

of love-light to spontaneously awaken and rise between their magnetized forms

while they are entangled in the ecstasy of their mystical embrace

This rising energetic river of love-light

generated through the highest vibration of love and

desire that can be shared by two human beings

is of extraordinary importance for all of humankind!

Humanity has lost its connection

to the original purity of our sexual nature,

the innocence that once existed in the mythical garden of Adam and Eve

We have lost the purity in which sex was entirely and always an ecstatic form of communion

with God in perfect harmony with the infinite forces of magnetic attraction pulsating

throughout the entire Cosmos and the Earth

It is time to bring sex back to its Divine origin

It is time for sex to be returned to its true purpose beyond procreation and pleasure

The men and women who hear and understand this calling

and who commune with the stars and tend to the pure waters of earth

are known as the River Keepers

These are the ecstatics who have awakened

to the true purpose of the cosmic forces at play between Heaven and Earth

These are the ones entrusted with generating

and maintaining the river of light circulating between their bodies without interruption

These are the star gazers and the river tenders

These are the ones generating the primal energy with their chosen sacred lover

as a service to all of humanity

similar to the way thousands of daily lightning strikes upon the moist earth helps to

maintain the balanced electromagnetic charge on the mantle of the entire planet

The bright force of this third kind of energetic river

first rises as a central channel of light generated

between the bodies of these mystical lovers

and then cascades outward as a radiant fountain

of light in all directions nourishing the collective

energetic field shared by all human beings and all of nature

This rising torus-shaped river of ever-expanding energy

rises upward between their radiant bodies and

sends forth cascading streams and

tributaries of light and life force

into the shared field of the collective consciousness of

humanity

This third river of energy stimulates

the potential awakening of many others to this original soul purpose

hidden within our magnetic erotic attraction to one another

It brings with it the possibility that many

others might be restored to the true purpose

of the extraordinarily attractive power of

sexual magnetism that permeates all of Nature, the Cosmos and Humanity

Each of these three rivers of energy

~ Stellar, Earthly and Human ~

shares the same cosmic origin,

the same fundamental purpose,

the same irresistible power of magnetic attraction

Each of these three energetic rivers shares a similar but unique frequency

of the invisible yin/yang, masculine/feminine, shiva/shakti currents of co-creation

originally established to maintain the Cosmos, the Earth, and Human beings on

our planet in a vibrant, juicy, flowing state of unbroken communion

with the One Consciousness that is the Source of all

If you understand what is written here

you recognize that you are one of

the River Keepers alive at this time on earth

Oh River Keepers!

It is time to accept and celebrate our sacred duty

We must tend to the three energetic rivers entrusted in our care

Do not think the stars are merely spheres of hot gas residing in the heavens above

Every star ~ every single beacon of stellar light in all of space ~ nourishes life on earth

The vast void of black space surrounding each star simultaneously

draws in and is receptive to the energy of light emitted from our own eyes

Truth be told, as we watch the stars the stars are watching us

Just as each organ in our body has a physical as well as a spiritual function

so too do the heavenly bodies

Each and every star and heavenly body emits an energetic frequency

of light and subtle celestial vibrations that make their way to earth

and are integral to the awakening of our full potential as human beings

Each night that the sky is clear

before you sleep gaze above at the wonders of the stars

Let your subtle energies be tuned to the pulsing light waves emanating

from the infinite display of celestial wonders

Receive their frequencies and send your own soul fire upward into the twinkling firmament

Set your spirit free to walk among the constellations

Travel the great sky road of the Milky Way

until your consciousness merges in oneness

with the Consciousness that includes all of creation

Likewise do all you can to keep our precious earth

and its air and rivers clean and clear

Protect our non-human friends

and nurture the precious pure springs

of crystalline water that spring from deep

within our blue/green planet

And if you have been awakened to the existence

of the river of love-light that flows

between you and your beloved mate

it is now and forevermore your sacred calling

to continually re-create and co-create

this river of delight between the two of you

so that it always flows strong and steady and bright

Oh River Keepers

tend to the celestial, earthly and bodily rivers of love-light

flowing between you and the sky, the earth and your lover

with all your might

The third river of love-light between humans

surges up just like the clear springs in hidden canyons and the

magnetic stream of spiraling stars,

but only when two human hearts come together without defilement,

pure, innocent, opened wide in unconditional love and holy passion

The subtle currents of life force between the lovers’ bodies

transform into a single great river of light

when an extraordinary concentration of energy is ignited between them,

just as when the dazzling flashes of magnetized white-hot lightning

strike the oppositely-polarized surface of the receptive earth

This third kind of river only manifests

if two magnetized lovers generate

the energetic equivalent of a great thunderstorm

during their erotic embrace

If you and your beloved are called to be River Keepers

embrace each other in this dynamo of raw power

as the polarized twin reflections of the eternally-magnetized attractive forces

that flow without end from the Source of all life

awake and alive through the electric allure of each other’s dancing forms in love