Divine King Divine Queen
When we are fortunate to be drawn to our mystic mate from across the world, mysteriously coming together within an unstoppable, attractive, magnetic force-field of love, then our life is forever transformed from the first moment of that destined meeting.
Do you see? This star-crossed meeting is the epitome of a human lifetime. What is most important is not seeking and finding an idealized romantic connection, it is not sitting at a guru’s feet, it is not the fulfillment of great accomplishments in the eyes of the world. All of that may seem important until the moment we gaze into the equal eyes of the soul who matches our own soul, whose whole heart fills our whole heart and whose body awakens the thrill of a bliss beyond compare.
In that soul recognition, we no longer seek for our ‘other half,' longing for romance with a half-completed one who might fill our own half-empty void. We are no longer seeking to be enlightened by a guru who seems to have realized the spiritual magic that is missing from our own life. We even transcend the allure of success or fame that masks the fear of our own impending death.
In the first spontaneous sight and soul embrace with our destined love, we are stunned. In an instant our mind widens from ordinary to infinite, our heart expands to the edges of the galaxy and our body feels the promise of an ecstasy greater than anything we have ever known. In that split second shift from seeking to finding, our whole being is ignited. A spontaneous force of Eros springs forth from our own fullness, spilling into their own fullness. We realize that we are now two beings expanding limitlessly in a radiant field of consciousness that includes us and all existence within an infinite Universe that is eternally whole.
Such a destined love opens secret doors into the deepest chambers of our hearts. We recognize that something miraculous is happening. We perceive that we are two souls reunited, reborn and renewed in a new love that is freshly sacred, rejoicing in what was previously thought to be beyond possibility.
Oh beautiful ones, knowing that this is possible for you will set in motion a remembering that becomes a longing which turns into an unstoppable yearning and then an actuality and finally your own destiny.
Our birthright is Divine Love. We are each a soul who has come to planet earth to have many experiences and adventures where we love and lose and love again over and over during many lifetimes until we are softened and ripened sufficiently to be prepared for our destined love. How could it be otherwise?
We are all like pure gold originally forged in a primeval fire which has become defiled by the samskaras (Sanskrit for 'latent karmic tendencies shaping one's present life') created during our explorations within the world, requiring that we must be smelted once again in this lifetime by a fire sufficiently hot that we can be restored to our magnificent original shining nature.
Knowing this we bare our hearts bravely to love itself, willingly allowing ourselves to be awakened, opened and undone, to be wounded and healed again, until we are at last ready for the full sacred union with a being who matches our own unique soul signature.
Do you see? We are each meant to remember who we are, not just to commune with the Divine, but to be Divine. Each of us is one with the Prime Creator of all life. The fullness of the destiny of all our human lifetimes is to one day stand in our original stature with another being, as a Divine King with our Divine Queen!
Everything that occurs in our life prior to the realization of this highest kind of human intimacy is learning and preparation and purification by fire. Such is the serpentine path of the heart that ultimately leads to Divine Union.
How could something so great be realized otherwise? Without struggle, heartbreak and all the permutations of experience in earthly form we would not be ready for or recognize our Twin Soul even if he or she was standing right in front of us. If you are reading these words, perhaps this is the lifetime for such love to appear for you. Understanding this, you must ‘take heart’ and find the courage to continually open your vulnerable heart with the certainty that in this very lifetime you can move through your wounds to be touched by grace, striding boldly within the illumination that has all along been preparing you for your greatest love.
For each man contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a feminine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are her Divine King?
For each woman contemplating this, what would it feel like to be seen and honored and held by a masculine being whose gaze reflects back to you that among all the world you are his Divine Queen?
Until now, this is the stuff of fairy tales and mythology. Most of the historical stories about ‘true love’ that have been passed down to us end tragically. Think of Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, and Eloise and Abelard. Through such stories inherited by the shared psyche of humanity we are told that it is futile to reach for something greater, that we should accept our lot and settle for whatever we get in life and love. We are told that reaching for something ‘sublime and Divine’ in love is fantasy and will always end badly.
The rusty anchor of this cultural curse of doomed love must be cast off in our generation and for all time. We must dare to reach for our highest love and sail free. Now is the time for us to create our own noble adventures and write stories of a new archetype of sacred love that ends exquisitely. We are the ones to do it!
Historically speaking, until recently marriage was solely about power, position and survival. Throughout history marriages were arranged and primarily about the continuation of the family line. Love rarely had anything to do with it until just a few generations ago. That is why the old stories handed down to us of true love ending tragically have been so deeply instilled in our collective awareness. Anyone who reached for a higher love was killed or banished from the kingdom. The perpetuation of such stories innocently told and read to us as children in each succeeding generation had the effect of keeping us all in line.
In the past, when the focus was on the family lineage, external appearances and putting food on the table, ‘love’ was seen as frivolous. At least in modern times if we want to birth and raise children within a stable family structure, we can look for someone who brings a blended form of meeting our needs for survival and sharing love in our decision-making process for choosing a mate.
Only when our primal survival needs are handled does our attention naturally begins to shift to feeling the innermost needs of our soul. It is then that we have the freedom to place the ideal of sacred love at the top of the pyramid of our life, allowing its magnetic force to guide the compass that leads us into our deepest heart’s desires.
Sacred love in its highest form between two human beings is what is known as ‘Heiros Gamos’, an ancient Greek word meaning Sacred Marriage, Holy Love, Divine Union. Since the days of the ancient Greek philosophers, within our collective human history we have rarely dared to contemplate the possibility of this kind of love in our own lives.
Quantum Merging speaks to this highest expression of love, desire and devotion that is now beginning to be lived in a new form by courageous men and women here and there all over the world. This ripple of the possibility and remembrance of Divine Union between human beings will soon become a great wave of awakening, because it is the next evolution of love on the planet.
Such sacred love begins with the idea of its possibility. We must first know that it is attainable, then dream it into life. In that recognition, the spark of potentiality begins to coalesce from our inner landscape of dreams and fantasy and then moves outwardly into our life. We begin to live with the certainty that this kind of love is our destiny, that it is our birthright if we will choose it and live our life as if it is so until it appears. The poetic words and ideas of Quantum Merging are meant to awaken our soul to remember who we are, to revive the possibility of Heiros Gamos for everyone who wants it, to remind us of what a human lifetime is really capable of being.
The stories and teachings of Quantum Merging are evocative. They touch a hidden place in our heart. They stir a remembrance of our greatness. They jar us to sit up taller, to breathe in the magnificence of our own Divinity. These stories and teachings of sacred love innocently began with one man and woman ~ Nimbus and Varshana ~ who moved beyond their own fears, guilt and doubt and dared to reach for their highest destiny. From that single spark of ignition, concentric waves of the vibration of Mystical Erotic Love are now surging forth around the globe to become the possibility for other men and women, men and men, and women and women who resonate with this offering.
Many of us alive now are fortunate to have our basic needs met, and because of this our soul is free to reach for our highest love and to express our Divine sexual nature any way we choose. The bodily expression of the precise ways that sacred love and desire can manifest for each one of us is fluid for the first time in human history.
Ponder the freedom of pure potentiality that we now hold in our collective psyche. There is still much resistance to it, but any unwillingness to accept this rising consciousness is the dying gasp of the old order. There is a new wave of freedom sweeping many of us all over the world to choose whatever way and with whomever we want to express our highest love and desire. We are the ones who can finally heal the division between Sex and Spirit. Q Merging is an unstoppable force because we all intuit that the freedom to reach for our highest love and desire in our own way is our birthright.
If this resonates with you, join the QM Tribe. As a Quantum Merger, stride boldly into your life. Be grateful for every moment of love you have ever shared with another being, even if they are no longer in your life. Honor your wounds and losses as the catalysts of your evolution. Reach for the highest mystical love and desire you can imagine. When you have found it, reach even higher with your Beloved until you are lost in the whirling wonder of oneness.
This bright flame of Divine love is your destiny, waiting closer than close in the space between each beating of your heart, waiting for you in the infinitesimal place of your deepest soul, waiting only for you to see it, remember it, and choose it.
So be it, blessed be.
