Men: Bring Her Your Heart-On and Your Hard-On
by Nimbus
The Hidden Mysteries of Man and Woman
by Nimbus and Varshana
The Hidden Mysteries of Man and Woman
Long ago the philosopher Hermes Trismegistus wrote these cryptic words in The Emerald Tablet:
As Above, So Below
As Within, So Without
As the Universe, So The Soul
Quantum Merging is the modern expression of these ancient truths in which the dance of erotic love between the human masculine and feminine is an enactment of the dance of the Cosmos.
Quantum Merging is based upon the profound understanding that when we are in sync with the universe, when our soul is in alignment with the Cosmos, we live and breathe in the flow with all life.
Quantum Merging reminds us that when we are in right relationship with what Is, that the erotic is holy, that sex and Spirit are one, that the love in our hearts is the same vibration of love pervading every atom of the Universe.
Quantum Merging opens the eyes of the soul to see what is actually appearing before us in the form of every being alive on earth ~ a living expression of Divinity.
Quantum Merging reminds us that the attractive magnetic force circulating between our masculine and feminine human forms is the same energy enlivening every spinning galaxy.
Open your mind and heart to contemplate the hidden mysteries of Man and Woman. Allow the awareness of your soul that guides your human life to resonate with the consciousness of the Cosmos. May this sacred understanding spread far and wide in the world.
Part One
Calling All Men: Become A Golden Archer
This is a shout-out to all men who want to reclaim our birthright status as co-creators with the Divine, to be able to stand in our stature as living gods among all beings, to discover our inherent power as great lovers who rock the world of our chosen partner, and who want to embrace the gift of our manhood in a completely new way.
Every man is born with the totality of the Universe wired in our DNA and the vibrant energy of the Cosmos flowing through our veins. Unfortunately, we are usually not aware of our inherent enlightened awesomeness as we leave the fresh innocence of infancy as a boy and then as a young man. The steady indoctrination of society’s unspoken cultural agreements to stay small are inculcated in us day by day as we mature, acting as a kind of ‘soul amnesia’ causing us to forget our true nature.
And then on top of it all, we come equipped with a penis and are left to our own devices to figure out how to use it. Masturbation, fantasy, porn and clandestine conversations with the guys are the forms of sexual ‘guidance’ that most young men get as adolescents. Almost none of us were given an alternative understanding of how to use our penis and our manly sexual energy with an awakened and sacred point of view.
Who among us was told that one of the most important attributes of our masculine purpose is to learn to be a Golden Archer with our lover?
What is a Golden Archer? A sexually open man whose greatest gift to his lover is to forge his life as a ‘strong bow’ always ready to release ‘golden arrows’ of love-light to fill his beloved during every erotic act of intimate love.
As a Golden Archer our penis transforms into a sacred instrument of manly power in which we choose to ‘shoot’ life-force and light into our lover (rather than our seed) as our primary gift in every occasion of sexual intimacy. This is a new and radical concept of masculine sexuality that I, Nimbus, will now explain.
Like most of us, I did not have an evolved understanding of my sexual organ during childhood and adolescence. As a teenager, I discovered the pleasure of my penis and quickly became addicted to masturbation. I developed many creative ways to fantasize and ejaculate. By the time I was in my late teens, I was worried that actual sex with a woman might not feel good, since by that time I had become so attached to my favorite ways of self-pleasure.
Even though I never heard a single word as a teenager about how sex might be a gateway to the sacred, I felt that sex had the potential to be much more special than just getting off in fantasized ejaculation. I just didn’t know how. For that reason I decided I would at least wait until my heart was deeply open with a woman before I lost my virginity.
Fortunately at the age of eighteen I met a twenty-five year old ski instructor whose immediate response when I told her I was a virgin was to shout, “OMG, that’s awesome. I will show you everything!” Over the course of that winter while I worked as a dishwasher at a nearby inn, she enthusiastically initiated me into a deep experience of sex. She had a round bed, a mirror on the ceiling and a hot body. Our sex wasn’t sacred in the way that I now know it, but it was passionate, creative and open. I am forever grateful for her instruction.
After meeting a number of other lovers and being their devoted sexual student, by the time I was twenty I had discovered the hidden power that could be magnified by cultivating the energy of my own seeds. By experiencing how to harness the extraordinary power inherent in sex I learned how to overcome and transform my addictive habit of fantasized private and partner masturbation.
There was no porn when I grew up as a child and teenager in the 1950’s and 60’s. I only had my father’s Playboy magazines (that I would use to fantasize while I masturbated) which he kept hidden behind his shoes in his bedroom closet. But in our present day society internet pornography is a worldwide multi-billion dollar industry that has grossly distorted the sexual perceptions of most teenage boys and men. Addiction to porn guarantees no sacred sex. It is that simple. (There is a way to use occasional erotic imagery and videos to enhance sacred union, but that is a consideration for another time.)
Equally alarming, along with the growing pornography addiction among all levels of our culture, modern men are losing their natural sexual mojo.
Recent studies indicate that the sperm counts among men in the United States have dropped nearly 50% in the last 40 years, and the testosterone level of the average male is 25% less than it was in 1992. And to make matters even worse, the average estrogen level in men has increased a scary 40% in that same time period.
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is also at an all-time high among modern men, with one of the most disconcerting statistics being a rapid rise of ED among men in their twenties and thirties.
Gentlemen, we must wake up to what is happening to us! Our power and noble future is being stolen from our loins. For the most part we are either unaware or in denial of these shocking statistics.
As men, we are being crushed by porn, bad sexual advice and a vast industry of conventional grooming products, cosmetics, pesticides, and thousands of unseen chemicals and plastics that are poisoning our manhood and acting as estrogen mimickers which are literally robbing us of our masculine strength.
This is a shout-out and wake up call to all men who desire to be the great lovers, providers and powerhouse alpha males we are meant to be. We have to look at what is happening to us, educate ourselves and take back our true manhood.
We have to take back our family jewels from the onslaught of porn and poisons and just plain bad information about love and sex so we can stand in our full power as men.
For all my male friends reading these words, I want you to know that I overcame all of this and you can do it too. As a teenager I was a sex and sugar addict, hooked on fantasizing masturbation and a sugar-laden junk food diet filled with pesticides and chemicals. Through a new understanding as an adult, I was able to completely transform my relationship to sex, my own masculinity and my health. You and any man who has the desire for change can do the same.
I am vitally interested in reaching other men who have been culturally misled in similar ways as I was, who have never heard about the higher function of their penis and the magnificent power residing in their testicles.
This new understanding provides a way out of all the confusion by inspiring men to step into their true role of holding the powerful sacred masculine dynamic within their world, bringing a transformed presence to their intimate relationships and all life.
What is this new understanding?
Learn Quantum Merging and become a Love God!
Quantum Merging is not an easy path, but it does provide a process that will prepare you to live with an open heart and become capable of wielding your penis as one of the most powerful forces in the world. You will meet life with a unique masculine potency through your heart-on and your hard-on.
In Quantum Merging you will be able to transform your penis into a mighty transmitter of life force and light that is always strong and powerful. This is how a penis becomes a Lingam (the Sanskrit word for ‘phallus of light’) ready and able to be plugged into the receptive vagina of your feminine partner that is honored as a Yoni (the Sanskrit word for ‘temple of light’). When the sexual organs become transformed into the merging of Lingam and Yoni, sex becomes a whole new voltage of super-powered energy that is activated between you and your lover.
These teachings are here to help men make a complete 180 degree turn around sex. The first step is to reframe the culturally accepted norms about sex that are not even questioned. We all developed a misguided sexual identity in which our first ‘education’ about sex was how to be a fantasizing, ejaculating masturbater during puberty while using women (or men) as the objects of our desire.
From that fumbling, often porn-infused start, most teenage boys then continue their sexual explorations as men operating with a only a slightly more sophisticated version of the same thing learned in puberty ~ still primarily being a stress-releasing, fantasizing, solo or partner ejaculator for the rest of their life.
As men we are taught that sex is a biological urge that is principally about stimulation to the point of ejaculation, and the more the merrier. Sex is taught as a way of ‘mutual masturbation’ with a parter. It is all about getting off. Sex is reduced to a way of using the hands, mouth and vagina of a woman (or the hands, mouth and anus of another man) in creative versions of the same process of fantasy, stimulation and release learned in puberty.
Through Quantum Merging we want to flip this socially-accepted understanding entirely around. We want to help men transform their sexual identity from being private and partner masturbators into being powerful Love Gods who are ‘givers of energy’ with their lover. We want men to reclaim their stature as sturdy bowmen who cultivate great sexual power within their body. We want men to discover the ability to shoot sacred arrows of love-light into their feminine mate that bring her into the highest bliss during lovemaking, rather than playing out the adolescent rapid-ejaculation-sexual model for the rest of their life that they learned in puberty.
Q Merging gives men the tools to discover that their manly strength springs from being a cultivator of the precious seeds in their testicles, learning to hold and harness the secret power in their balls, and to view their masculine role and sexual identity in an entirely new way.
In Q Merging men can stand strong as Golden Archers, building power and becoming a sexual dynamo through the prolonged holding of our seeds, bringing much greater presence, love and strength to our partner than we ever thought possible.
Through the regenerative process of Mystical Erotic Love in Quantum Merging, a man can master the art of becoming a blaster of light to his feminine lover, while simultaneousy receiving and honoring the gift of her feminine energy. In this way, as a man we can step into our highest role as a sexual being whose greatest gift to our lover is to illuminate her entire being in bliss.
The great challenge for a man who learns and practices Quantum Merging is to master the art of holding his seed and choosing not to ejaculate in every occasion of sexual intimacy. This manly art can be cultivated in a way that we can build incredible power and strength during multiple occasions of sexual intimacy across a long span of time, developing complete control over the moment in which we choose to offer our seed to our lover.
Once a man feels the increase in his power, presence and vitality as he holds his seed while making love as often as possible with his lover it becomes a happy choice to cultivate his energy in this way. His seed tending does not feel like denial or moral restraint. It is a radical manly choice that supports his masculine strength and honors his feminine lover in the highest manner.
Seed tending is the choice of an awakened alpha male that allows an unbroken circuit of love and energy to build between he and his lover, without weakening the precious energetic charge. That cultivated charge naturally becomes the experience of bliss when it reaches the point of spontaneous combustion. A whole new world of possibilities opens up when sex becomes a dance of sacred intimacy and a ‘battle of love’ that has no goal of ejaculatory release, but only a powerful merging into greater and greater ecstasy.
To give you an idea of what is possible, as of this writing I am sixty seven years old and my beautiful lover is forty four. For the past seven months I have merged in sexual union with her hundreds of times without ejaculating in occasions that usually lasted for an hour or more at a time. I have held my seed this entire time, brought to the edge of ejaculation (‘Ecstatic Edging’) by my ardent bliss mate probably a thousand times. In this way we both experience higher and higher states of ecstasy that never end while we continually re-create a charge of incredible blissful energy between us.
You may wonder, “How is this possible? Isn’t it a painful sacrifice to hold my seed for so long? Won’t I get ‘blue balls’? Will sex still be fun if I try to do this? Is it really worth the effort to learn and master this art of masculine seed cultivation?”
Let me answer by sharing the effects of this radical choice in the life of my lover. Because I consistently bring her my strength, love and passion as her Quantum Merging man, she gets to shine all the time in her feminine fullness as a radiant Goddess. She is no longer an object of masculine lust. She is no longer a ‘cum recepticle’. She is seen and honored with the fullness of my masculine consciousness. She knows I make love with her, that I am not using her for my own self pleasure.
Because of this, she moves like a sensual sultry lioness through the world. She is smiling and laughing and dancing all the time. In our sacred bedroom (and every other room in the house) she has become a super orgasmic woman whose favorite thing in the world is to launch into mind-blowing, body-shaking, ecstatic-screaming super nova orgasms as I take her with the power of a thousand buffaloes and hold my seed without crossing the line to my own ejaculation.
I know this might seem almost impossible when you are first contemplating this new way of being a sexual man. I transformed from being an adolescent-quick-pleasure-masturbation-addict to a powerful awakened Love God with my lover. You too can build the same kind of extraordinary power in your body and energy field. This regenerative sexual power can be used in every kind of creative pursuit as a man ~ in your work, finances, fitness and longevity. And it can most especially be given as a gift to your Beloved in the form of blissful blasts of light that fill her being and awaken ecstasy in both of you.
If you learn the skillful practices of Q Merging you will not suffer from ‘blue balls’ or prostate problems or feel as if you are being restrained in some austere way. Not at all. In fact, you will begin to walk with a spring in your step and live every day with the greatest sense of whole-body pleasure you have ever known.
There is no need for men to achieve the same level of seed cultivation that I practice unless that is your desire. But it is possible for all men who are awakening to new sexual strength and freedom to learn to become skillful and attentive lovers as they master the art of prolonging the duration between ejaculations. In this way the embrace with our lover becomes primarily about the ecstatic merging of the masculine and feminine energies in bliss, not about releasing our seed. This is possible for any of us as men who take the first strides toward changing our relationship to our own sexual energy.
The first step in reclaiming our ability as a great lover is to begin to learn new ways to use our penis. At first it might seem silly to refer to the penis as a Lingam, since it sounds a little ‘out there’. But once you begin the practices of Q Merging this new word will begin to mean something real. You will come to understand that when rightly used our sexual organ becomes a magic wand and a crystalline shaft of light for the delight of our lover.
For men who are new to all of this, referring to the penis as a Lingam (which is often translated as a ‘wand of light’) can be confusing. Wands are typically waved in the air by magicians to conjure something new. Instead of picturing yourself waving your penis around like Harry Potter’s magic wand, the most important shift in your awareness is to change your idea of your penis as primarily being an ejaculater of semen for your own brief spasm of pleasure, into primarily being a transmitter that sends out sustained bursts of life force for both you and your partner’s immense pleasure.
The process of learning to move from primarily being an ejaculater of semen to primarily being a blaster of light with your intimate partner is a profound journey. As men we are wired from puberty to quickly shoot our seed as a form of pleasure, and nature insures a prolific amount of seed for the continuation of the species through procreation. Unless we are consciously choosing to procreate, we can learn to use our sexual power to create a blissful state with our lover in which we stay right on the edge of ejacultion for long periods of time. The great discovery for men who practice Quantum Merging is that this orgasmic edge is far more pleasurable than the brief explosion of ejaculation.
It is an extraordinary evolutionary step for a man to consciously move past the procreative model into a regenerative model of being a sexual being.
It is not easy!
In fact, this transformation might be the most challenging and rewarding endeavor of your whole life. You don’t believe me? Just take the Q Merging 30 Day Transformation course, try it for one month, and you will see for yourself.
For any man who begins to practice Quantum Merging, each time you hold your seed in the act of lovemaking and take the first steps of learning how to emit light to your Beloved through your Lingam, you are literally making history. You will feel yourself breaking a pattern in our male species that goes back hundreds of generations and thousands of years, all the way back to the grunting cavemen who bent their women over and shot their seed in a few thrusts whenever they wanted.
Because of this, it takes a fierce will and determination to master this evolutionary leap in our male sexual wiring.
The actual process of Seed Cultivation for men in Quantum Merging progresses a little at a time in a playful way with your sexual partner (or if you are single, going to the edge of ejaculation again and again without shooting in solo stimulation). If you stay with it and begin to hold your seed long enough to take your lover into the stratosphere for an hour or more, and then to continue that amazing process through multiple occasions of intimacy over days and weeks, even within one month you will be amazed at how happy and powerful you begin to feel and how transformed each act of sexual intimacy can be. And your shimmering feminine lover will tell you that you are the greatest lover in the world. She will call you her Love God.
Want to go really bold?
Stay with the Q Merging process for one whole year, steadily mastering the skills and arts of being a sacred rockstar lover, consistently extending the duration between ejaculations while having as much sex as possible, and wow, watch out!
Transcending our caveman biology and taking the evolutionary leap of becoming a Golden Archer ~ wielding our penis as a Lingam that shoots arrows of light instead using it as a self-pleasure tool ~ is super evocative and empowering for every man. And believe me, it is a magnificent advantage for the lucky woman (or man if that is your persuasion) who merges with you.
Once any man understands this new sexual cosmology, he can lean into this Quantum Merging process of learning to become a Golden Archer. He can take the challenge to master his sexual power and give highly vibrating seed-energy to his sacred partner without shooting his precious physical seed in every occasion of loving.
Being an ‘emitter’ or ‘igniter’ of energy then becomes the man’s noble role from then on with his mate. He steps out of the ever-repeating caveman loop and starts to shoot light through his Lingam into his feminine partner. He stands in his masculine strength and penetrates and permeates her with his newly-awakened mystical manly power.
Your feminine lover will be so filled with light, love and ecstasy through the great power that you bring her in this way that she will go far beyond the pleasurable vibratory experience of clitoral orgasms to regularly lift off into deep-cervical, mind-blowing, super-powered orgasms in every occasion of sacred intimacy. She will soak your sheets with her Goddess nectars. Her screams of ecstasy will become your favorite sounds.
In those magic moments of her super nova explosions of bliss, the man who is shooting bursts of life-force energy into her while holding his highly-stimulated seeds allows his penis to morph into its most magnificent form as a Lingam shooting arrow after arrow of life-force into our partner. As we wield our Lingam in this way, our shaft becomes super-charged and generates sufficient power to launch our mate into the stars while she rides the rocketship of our erotic embrace.
And wonder of wonders, her magnetic momentum of orgasmic ecstasy carries us along with her. We realize the secret equation of sacred sex ~ that her bliss is our bliss, our bliss is her bliss. The two lovers become One.
In these ecstatic moments of Quantum Merging, as the man holds his intensely-vibrating seeds, as he shoots energy/love/light into his mystic mate, as they build enough energy between them in wave after rising wave, she explodes in a shower of sparks and a great scintillating fountain of energy that bursts from the crown of her head. She is lost in an energy so powerful that it obliterates all sense of her being a separate person having sex. Her super nova explosions generate something remarkable for the man to behold. As she is overcome with bliss, we will see our lover fling energetic stars of ecstasy out into the starry sky.
Find out for yourselves if this is possible and if what I say is true.
Once you discover these sexual secrets, every man who accomplishes this great art of Mystical Erotic Love will feel like a Mystic King, magnificent and powerful and strong and bright and free. And his feminine mate will feel like she is his Cosmic Queen, seen and honored and loved and juicy and radiant as she is ignited into bliss.
The fortunate man and woman who meet in Quantum Merging both get to live their highest role and purpose, experiencing the great happiness that is the birthright of all of us while alive in human form.
Quantum Merging is the next evolution of love in our time. It is a new cosmology of sex. It is a way of Mystical Erotic Love available for all men and women interested in awakening to their highest potential.
As men, Quantum Merging is the dynamic process in which we progressively raise our vibration with our energetically-matching mate through sexual intimacy. By opening through a whole life of love and skillfully mastering the sacred erotic arts, we live from then on as a magnificent Golden Archer with our lover.
The powerful process of Mystical Erotic Love shared between such sacred couples initiates a remarkable transformation in every man who chooses it. One by one each man who embraces Quantum Merging speeds up the collective evolution of male energy on the planet.
Quantum Merging is the quickest, surest, most fun way to ignite the ecstasy of sacred union in men and women no matter where they live or what language they speak on earth.
This understanding is now within the reach of every man and woman through Quantum Merging. The good news for each man in particular is that we don’t have to accomplish this process on our own. All that is necessary for each man who wants to transform his sexuality is be emboldened to stride into this new way of being a spiritual-sexual man, and to go for it with the full passion of body, heart and soul.
In Quantum Merging, as men we let ourselves be called to greatness through the awe-inspiring desire awakened in our feminine mate as she sees us changing. As we stand in our manly strength, she will deeply long for us to take her in such a way that she can experience the bliss of her true nature as an embodiment of the Divine feminine force of the Universe. Instead of trying to discipline ourself, we let her desire inspire us to harness and master our sexual power.
From then on our manly way is to stand strong with an open heart in love, wielding our mighty bow, ever ready to ignite our chosen woman with the full quiver of our golden arrows of light. Then we let her awakened bliss guide our way home into the heart of the universe.
Part Two
Calling All Women: Become A Sacred Garden Of Delight
This is an invitation for all women to claim their sovereignty as living, breathing Goddesses on earth.
This is an inspiration honoring all women within the infinite freedom in which each one is born, celebrating the stardust that each one brings from the heavenly realms to bless all life.
This is also an invitation for all men to embrace women as the holy ones they are, forevermore seeing them as luminous beings whose highest purpose is to love and be loved without limit.
This is a clarion call of a great change now birthing into the world through Quantum Merging, in which men and women behold the feminine form in a whole new way, as a Sacred Garden of Delight.
The bodies of women from time immemorial have been used and abused by patriarchal forces in a way that is on the level of a holocaust, with the effect that the lust of the unconscious masculine has split the feminine body from her radiant soul.
It is time that men step up and come forward to honor the bodies and souls of women as sacred, holy and Divine.
And it is time that women remember to see and care for their bodies as highly sensitive and erotic temples of bliss, their minds as conduits of wisdom and their hearts as the peacemakers of the earth.
The vagina is the most desired and the most misunderstood part of the feminine form. It is viewed by most men primarily as a receptacle for their semen and the place for the birth of their children. This is an incredibly narrow view of what is infinitely holy.
All life emerges from the vagina. This fact alone bestows the highest honor upon it. If men understood the true function of the vagina, they would literally worship each woman who is the bearer of this gift.
When the vagina is honored and revered by men and women, it opens and transforms as a Yoni (a Sanskrit word meaning 'feminine temple of bliss'). The vagina when approached reverently becomes a temple within a sacred garden that nurtures a radiant flower of life deep within its center. This is the Yoni.
As a woman begins to awaken to her own infinite power of sexual energy ~ what is referred to in the Vedic tradition as the feminine force of ‘Shakti’ ~ she opens to and connects with the vibrant energy that fills the whole Universe. This super-charged energy is matched and balanced by the dynamic power of consciousness known in the Vedas as the masculine force of ‘Shiva’. The entire Universe is thus seen as a manifestation of Shiva/Shakti, the dancing energies of the magnetized masculine and feminine forces of all life in perpetual embrace.
It is time to elevate the feminine to her Divine status in the form of every woman bearing sacred gifts which bloom through the expression of her sexual nature and open heart.
Just as awakening men are re-framing their understanding of their penis so they can see and use it as a Lingam that is a transmitter of light, women are learning to view and use their own vagina as a Yoni that is a temple of light.
The Yoni is a sacred reference to the transformed vagina in a woman. When the vagina is no longer seen as an object of lustful desires, the Yoni is recognized by both men and women as an embodiment of feminine mysteries.
For a woman to feel her vagina as a holy Yoni, she must first heal any wounds inflicted on her by any out-of-balance masculine or feminine energies she has encountered. Unfortunately, some form of misuse or abuse from men (or from wounded women who shame girls and vilify the naturally occurring sexual energies arising during childhood) is the experience of almost all women. Thus the work of healing the wounds of the heart and vagina ~ which are deeply connected in the feminine form ~ is the first important step for each woman in reclaiming her full feminine power and majesty.
Each woman must embark on a journey to heal her vagina/heart wounds with gentle healing therapies, through skillful intimacy with respectful, caring men and women, and by basking in the power of unconditional love with soul friends and lovers. Only then can she begin to dedicate her whole being to her highest function as a sacred feminine vessel, a mystical portal and a sacred garden of delight. Only then is she ready to receive the divine masculine energies into her being. Only then is she able to awaken to the primal desire residing deep inside women to open utterly to the penetrating power of Shiva in embrace with his Shakti. That primal desire to be utterly seen, utterly embraced and utterly taken is expressed in the archetype of the magic kiss in the old fairy tales that awakens the sleeping princess. Every woman longs for and deserves the kiss that brings her ecstatically to life.
The inherent nature of Woman is openness, receptivity, sensitivity, intuition, wisdom, sensuality, sexual fire, and the joyful reception and giving of love and life.
But how can any woman fully surrender to receive and be penetrated by the strong erotic love of the masculine if she is still wounded and therefore cannot trust and open as she is naturally designed to be?
The opening and transformation of the vagina/heart into a Yoni is a progressive process of blooming. As the vagina/heart heals, her petals open to become a Yoni, a Sacred Garden of Delight. When a woman feels seen and honored in the fullness of her feminine grace, in the center of that fragrant garden a rare moon flower blooms that is the very Flower of Life.
From the moment any woman reclaims her sovereignty as a living Goddess, the only man or woman she will permit to enter her feminine temple is one who worships the holiness of both her heart and her flower of life. Only to those who approach in reverence will she offer her greatest gifts.
Contemplate the Yoni as a garden temple filled with sacred flowers that progressively open a little at a time to reveal their hidden treasures. A magnificent flower of life waits as an expectant bud in the deepest chamber of this temple, only opening all its petals in response to the golden masculine sun when she feels complete safety, reverence and the beautiful power of pure desire.
Hold the image in your awareness of a fragrant pink flower blooming in the warm spring sunshine. This is exactly the way a woman’s vagina/heart opens as a Yoni in response to the penetrating power of the masculine sun. The awakening force of the light does not hurt the flower. On the contrary, the sun is the supreme nourishment for the flower. As long as there is enough moisture nourishing its deep roots, the warmth of the sun’s rays brings life to the flower and coaxes its petals to spread wide open. The sensual flower opens willingly and enthusiastically to the penetrating rays of the sun. This is how a woman longs to feel her Yoni honored by the masculine.
Each woman who reclaims her birthright destiny of ecstatic blooming as she heals the wounds of her vagina/heart helps to heal the soul of all women by her courageous and joyous opening.
One by one, each vagina/heart healed within any woman inspires the healing and awakening of all other women.
One by one, each masculine mate who holds his beloved in this way with honor, love and pure desire heals all other women too.
Quantum Merging is the ecstatic way for each woman to open to love, to bloom in the warmth of love, to meet her masculine counterpart in a dance of love, desire and devotion. Being fully seen, she is so grateful to joyously open her deepest secret flower of life to receive the penetrating power of the sun into every cell of her body and every atom of her soul.
Each woman is complete unto herself. And yet paradoxically in her wholeness she longs for fusion, to merge with another in the ecstasy of sacred union. She longs for her complete feminine nature to be met by the complete masculine nature of one who sees, loves and desires her. She longs to utter the spontaneous mantra of pure orgasmic ecstasy ~ "I Am Bliss". Her being yearns to reach like a flower toward the sun so she can expand beyond herself. In her opening to and reception of the golden light of her beloved she experiences the states of enstasy and ecstasy simultaneously. She draws all energy into herself like a black hole and explodes as a super nova. She knows that the supreme bliss of cosmic oneness which blooms within the erotic embrace with her lover is the highest possible state while alive in human form.
Each woman holds the potential to be the embodiment of sensual enlightenment. Her inherent nature is the radiant expression of the universal attractive power of magnetic sexual energy. In other words, her true nature is mystic hot! Her whole being is designed to be seen, touched and fully met by her lover who brings her the consciousness of the masculine force of creation.
Deep inside each woman there is a longing for the fusion of sacred merging with her perfectly matching counterpart in the Q Force of mystical erotic entanglement. Every woman yearns to experience herself as a dazzling star spinning around another bright star in a mesmerizing magnetic dance, until she dissolves into the Phosphorescent Sea of Oneness.
As each woman draws to herself a masculine counterpart (man or woman) who is vibrating closely to the frequency of her essence, she is then able to rapidly complete the process of her feminine healing. As a healed and whole woman she dives joyously into a river of mystical erotic awakening with her beloved that carries her swiftly to her true destiny.
Once a woman hears of this possibility of finding her Q Match who vibrates at the same soul frequency as herself, she will begin to dream about and imagine an awakened masculine force of mystical erotic love coming into her life. This initiates a subtle process in the invisible ethers of pure potentiality which ultimately attracts a Sun God to her, one who will shine his light upon her being so she can bloom open in all her feminine glory as a Moon Goddess.
As her whole being is honored in this way by a reverent masculine being, her intimate anatomy transforms spontaneously into a Yoni and blooms as a radiant sacred garden of delight. As she invites her lover to enter her garden to sip nectar like a hummingbird from her fragrant blossoms, her Yoni then opens even more deeply to offer her Flower of Life in the steady sunshine of her lover’s light.
When she feels fully seen and met in this way, her entire being expands. The delicate petals of the secret inner bud residing in the far reaches of her temple spread wide open in full bloom as her fragrant Flower of Life. No longer having to protect herself from earlier wounds, she invites her masculine light bearer to string his mighty bow, to let fly his golden arrows of love, to fill her deepest essence with beams of light. She in return invites him to sip from the infinite wellspring of her nectars as she bestows the gifts of her limitless delight upon him.
As this dance of awakened masculine and feminine energies between the lovers in Quantum Merging expands into its fullness, her Yoni transmutes yet again into it a further offering and purpose. Her Yoni becomes a portal of initiation and she becomes an initiatress of higher love.
As initiatress standing at the entrance of her portal of initiation, the feminine lover begins to take on an active role within her primary field of receptivity. She becomes the 'cultivator of the seed' of her masculine lover. Seductively arousing him to the edge of ejaculation again and again and again, she guides him into states of rapture while simultaneously championing him to hold his seed and shoot her full of light. Her feminine receptivity does not imply passivity, as if she is only a gentle flower opening for his active Lingam.
Quite the contrary, as initiatress she literally fucks her man out of his mind. Like the paintings of the fierce goddess Kali holding the severed head of her male lover (symbolic of his transcendence of mind as she brings him fully into his heart and body), throughout each occasion of sexual union she uses the powerful muscles of her Yoni to 'milk' his hard shaft of masculine strength until he is undone in ecstasy, until his thinking mind is surrendered. While she awakens him into a euphoria that is almost impossible to withstand, she urges him to stay steady as her 'Lord of The Edge' where he walks a fine line between the exalted power of prolonged ecstasy and the diminution of the brief spasm of ejaculation.
When this magical, time-bending alchemy occurs during their passion dance of intimate love, the two become one as they realize the sacred equation of bliss alive in human form. As he enters her golden temple with honoring strength, holding his seed and shooting her full of light, this evokes extraordinary trust within her. Her essence spontaneously opens without withholding and swallows him into herself, pulling him into the great ecstasy of the Q Fusion of Quantum Merging.
As his golden sun heals and awakens her feminine being within the trusting cocoon of his masculine love, from that moment on she undulates between being a fragrant garden of flowers in full bloom and a fierce initiatress who rides her wild stallion to greatness. At her invitation her lover penetrates her with all his manly strength even as he gratefully surrenders into the vastness of her feminine erotic nature. Together the two merge as one.
At this point, words can scarcely convey the happiness that overflows from a woman who is seen, held and loved in this manner. Her human life is transformed from the busyness of the mundane into a daily dance of mystical erotic love.
For most of the 86,400 seconds that make up each day and the 43,200 minutes that span the time between the darkness of the new moon to the bright illumination of the full moon and back each month, she cavorts in ecstasy either alone, with her lover, among friends or through the elements of Nature. Because her seeking for something outside herself has subsided in her realization of the 'I Am Bliss' consciousness, not much can deter her for long from abiding in the flow of the ever-expanding Universe. Most of the time she frolics within the synchronicities of her blessed interactions, and her radiant light rises in love to take its place among the spinning of the stars.
The human form of such a fortunate woman alternates between blooming as a constant succession of fragrant flowers and appearing as a fierce goddess who inspires her man to be a hero, even in the midst of the inevitable challenges that come her way. She views the appearance of stressful experiences, pain or illness as nothing more than annoying flies to notice and sweep away within the overwhelming luminosity of her love.
Forevermore she resides with her soul-matched lover in the certainty that her bliss is his bliss and his bliss is her bliss as they merge again and again into bliss itself.
Forevermore her life is realized with her beloved as a co-creation of ecstasy within the entangling/disentangling/reentangling twin masculine and feminine forces of existence.
Forevermore as she frolics freely in Mystical Erotic Love, dancing in the Q Fusion of Sacred Union in Quantum Merging, the whole world is healed and bathed in the effusions of her feminine ecstasies.
So Be it, Blessed Be.
Liquid Light
by Nimbus and Varshana
Liquid Light
If you are part of the QM Tribe, you know that cultivating the male seed for long periods of time and building greater and greater power between you and your lover is a foundation practice for every man and his feminine partner.
This high art requires both the man and woman (or man and man; woman with woman builds a similar energy, but of course not by cultivating seed) to co-create a fusion of masculine and feminine energies. In this way the lovers initiate such a heightened state of enlightened awareness and a potent vortex of power that both are awakened to ever-expanding realizations of bliss as their relationship unfolds over time.
Since most men prior to Q Merging are already predisposed toward ejaculating their seed during most or all occasions of sexual intimacy (as well as in solo masturbation), learning the art of seed cultivation alone or with their partner is critical to the practice of Quantum Merging.
That being said, once the man either alone or with the help of his feminine mate in a partnership (female or male) has mastered the practice of seed retention and is reaping the benefits of sustained ‘Ecstatic Edging’ with increased health, vitality, clarity, love and strength, then it is time to begin to work with the dynamic balance of the optimum time for holding and the auspicious time for shooting the precious seed.
‘As Above, So Below’ is a fundamental axiom in Q Merging. Since the galaxies are infinitely expanding and contracting and expanding again, and all of nature is in a dynamic flux of birth, death and rebirth, we too as masculine lovers want to develop the artful ebb and flow of prolonged seed retention as well as how we offer our sacred seed on special occasions within the mystic dance of love with our lover.
For most of each yearly cycle, as Q Mergers we work to develop our capacity and skill with seed retention, learning the high art of prolonged Seed Cultivation through the practice of Ecstatic Edging. This builds increasingly greater power and energy in the solo man and especially through the atomic fusion where the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts co-created between the committed couple.
Alone, or with the help of our partner, each QM man gradually masters the first important phase of Seed Cultivation. The first phase is the ability to truly be present with his feminine mate with full sensuality, to make love with her and not a fantasized internal image of her, to develop the ability to stay hard for longer and longer periods of time by learning to alternately relax the pelvic muscles and contract the ‘Gate of Power’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy before emitting his seed, all along deeply nourishing and pleasuring his partner.
This initial learning phase leads towards the second tier of Ecstatic Edging, which is mastering the ability to not only stay hard for an hour or more in each dynamic occasion of intimacy, but to begin to hold the seed for many days, and eventually many weeks at a time. During this second phase each man will begin to notice many positive changes in his vitality, strength, mental clarity, health, fitness, business ability and sexual power.
Over time this leads into the third phase of Seed Cultivation in which the QM man masters the ability to merge with his Beloved for several hours at a time, day in and day out, and to hold his seed over the course of several or many months and even a year or more without releasing it in ejaculation.
Is this really safe and possible?
Yes. Mastering the third tier of Seed Cultivation is an extraordinary accomplishment. This evolutionary choice is life-changing to say the least for each man and his chosen Beloved.
It is during this third phase that Quantum Merging really reveals its magic. When the man has progressed to this level of holding his seed, he has developed his sacred sexual skills to such a point that he is free to fully attend to his lover without much attention to the mechanics of seed retention.
He becomes a badass mystical lover who can stay hard for hours without ejaculating, and regularly take his lover with the power of a thousand buffaloes thundering across the prairie. No passive eye gazing or soft tantric breathing exercises for him and his electrified lover! A third stage Seed Cultivator in Quantum Merging is a fucking gladiator of love, a true mystic warrior.
At this point, Seed Cultivation becomes an ecstatic dance of ebb and flow, rising and falling, waves cresting and drawing down, all the time renewing in an ever-expanding spiral of vigor, buoyancy and zest that carries the two Beloveds into one bliss beyond all techniques, all practices and all attention to the methods of sacred sex.
As you can imagine, this fulfillment of QM Seed Cultivation requires a fundamental change of the mind, heart and body of each man and his feminine partner.
In order to shift his mind, each man has to examine and change the conventional belief that men should ejaculate their seed in every occasion of sexual intimacy. Since puberty, he has been told that this is what manly men do. His doctor will most likely have told him he might get prostate cancer unless he empties his balls almost every day, even encouraging him to do private masturbation if his partner is not available. Yeah, and his bros tell him if he is stressed to just rub one out in the shower.
This is so old school. The power and strength that a man will develop within his prostate and all his organs with rightly-practised Seed Cultivation blows these errant theories out of the water. He will also ignite the higher chemistry of his brain, activating the ‘happiness hormones’ DOSE, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins. On top of that the ‘ecstasy molecule’ DMT spontaneously releases during the heightened state of prolonged ecstatic edging in embrace with his lover.
As the man is developing his sexual power and building his energies to new heights his feminine partner might still believe that it is her duty to drain his balls with a blow job as often as possible even if they don’t have sex, or she will feel she has failed in her sexual role. His feminine mate has to examine and change the commonly-held belief that she has to ‘get her man off’ in each occasion of sexual intimacy in order to ‘keep him happy and not stray’. One old woman told a friend of ours, “The secret of keeping a man around is simple: Fill his belly and drain his balls. Every morning and every night. Then he won’t cheat on you”.
This is the opposite of QM. In Quantum Merging, the Love Goddess fills the belly of her Love God only two thirds full with nourishing food and champions him to retain his seed so he can Divinely fuck her day and night.
To shift his heart, each man has to learn to view his sexual energy as a gift of precious vitality, cultivating an ever-increasing power of life-force that magnifies the inner currents of his love so much that he can ‘shoot’ it into his lover through his Lingam (the Sanskrit word signifying ‘phallus of light’). His feminine partner likewise learns along with him to open in such a way that she seductively invites and fully receives his gift of light and power, and shines it back to him.
To shift his body, each man has to treat his own physical form and the seductive form of his lover as a sacred instrument of refined energy and light. Every great lover has to become a modern-day yogi. To be a rockstar lover each man has to become more open, more flexible, more aware of his body as a vehicle of love and light even as he keeps it strong and powerful. Strength training, high intensity interval training (HIIT) and yoga/chi kung/pranayama are the trifecta of physical cultivation for a man. A QM man hits the gym, rocks his sprints and gets on the yoga mat every damn day!
How can a man hope to transmute his own seed into an Elixir of Love ~ cultivating his seed to always be ready to shoot his lover full of light on a daily basis or one day to either consciously create a super-powered baby or to offer his potent seed as a gift of Liquid Light to his Beloved ~ unless he honors his and her mind, heart and body as a temple devoted to the high art of sacred living?
These shifts from old beliefs and habits to new understandings and choices of power in the life of any man are huge. Quantum in fact. These masculine Choices of Power establish the pillars of the complete way of Quantum Merging.
The foundation practice in QM is learning to retain and cultivate the seed and build power alone or with a lover. This is what we call ‘Ecstatic Edging’. ‘EE’ is basically the art of being brought to the edge of orgasmic ejaculation again and again for longer and longer periods of time, but not ending the solo or partner occasion with the usual release of the seed. You can learn and practice this alone with excellent benefits, and of course the greatest expression of it will be with your lover within the sacred container of your committed relationship.
As a couple, QM lovers create prolonged occasions of powerful intimacy where the man is so aroused by his feminine mate that he is taken again and again to the edge of ejaculation without crossing the line into release. Each man develops the capacity to allow states of heightened energy to circulate in his body without automatically releasing them. His feminine partner can freely choose to let go into super orgasmic bliss as he pleases her on and on, or join her lover in Ecstatic Edging where she approaches the edge of orgasm but stays on that exquisite precipice of ecstasy with him.
This practice of Ecstatic Edging is fun, exciting and challenging. At first, you might not be successful at staying hard for long periods without shooting, or to hold your seed for more than one or a few occasions of sacred solo masturbation or love making. Keep the practice light and playful, and just keep working with these new ideas and practices. As you embrace Q Merging, stay attentive to shifting all three parts of your being ~ your mind, your heart and your body ~ to align with this evolutionary leap of Seed Cultivation in Quantum Merging.
Once your solo or partner practice of Ecstatic Edging has progressed to the point where prolonged holding of your seed alone or merging with your lover is your fundamental way of being as a sexual man, then you are ready to contemplate the art of giving your liquid light as the most precious gift you can offer your Beloved.
Semen is not just a procreative substance to ensure the continuation of the species. When rightly understood and cultivated, semen becomes a precious elixir of the highest vibration of the Spirit and an extraordinary alchemical mixture of the combined inner love-infused chemistry of an awakened man.
It is said in the Taoist and Tantric traditions that one drop of semen is equal in energy to one thousand drops of blood. Semen is understood to hold the energy of the ‘original Spirit’ in every man. In fact, every time a man emits his semen, he is giving away a huge burst of his precious life-force. This is one reason why women traditionally outlive men, because men are unknowingly and gradually weakened from a lifetime of continuous seed emitting through masturbation and conventional sex. Semen when rightly cultivated in a healthy man literally becomes ‘liquid light’.
Once the man has mastered the basics of Q Merging and understood and cultivated his seed to this extent, then it is time to explore the most auspicious timing and occasional celebratory way to offer his lover the precious gift of his liquid light.
And that is a blog for another day.
Quantum Merging Mechanics for Men
by Nimbus